Feeling hurt these day
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<p><font size="1">Please let go and forgive my selfishness. I am feeling hurt these day.</font></p>
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r u feeling ok?
<br>mind to chat for a bit?
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Hi Mocha,
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<br>How are you doing?
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<br>Just little hurt. Hope will be fine soon.
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charmaine
<br>ya im doing fine, just taking a break now
<br>really hope everything will be fine with u
<br>do u mind to chat in msn>
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what hurt ? can tell me ma?
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mocha,
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<br>I am comfortable with here. Hope you don't mind if we chat here a while.
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<br>gary,
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<br>giving up someone in my life.
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Hi Charmanie_snow,
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<br>Why u have to give up 'someone'. Is he your bf or something?
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who "someone" ?
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sigh...
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<br>long story short, should give up.
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"someone" is the one I care... before
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can't tell your story ma?
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do u want to share with others?
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hihi! is your bf?
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<br>係囉
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<br>你係gf or bf??
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Who cares?
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I have a lifetime full of hopes and dreams
<br>I thought I seek true love but it's never what it seems
<br>I've been broken but I know how to survive
<br>Somehow I always keep my dreams alive
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讓對方知道你在等佢
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I am the one who is giving up. There's hard feeling from time to time (from my side).
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去旅行散下心
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I just came back from holiday not long ago. But thank you for your thought though. It is nice idea.
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Hi...Charmaine, I feel hurt tonite too, let's chat for a while, shall we..?
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How long you 2 been together..? and why you are giving up?
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My pleasure. How are u doing?
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Not very good, there 's one girl whom I quite like, tonite she said she is so busy and " let's don't contact each other " for a week.
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<br>I don't know what that means.
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Maybe tiring. Feeling insecure.
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<br>And you?
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She just seperated from a 5 year BF, maybe I should give her more time and don't push her too much.
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<br>But eveytime when we are on the phone, she sounds so happy and relaxed, it's always me to ask her to hang up cos cos I don't want her to sleep to little.
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<br>But today she suddently sent me this msg, I am really confused.
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Meaning she needs more caring. Wants more attention from you.
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I guess I like her, since my impression about her is " simple & direct", I cannot handle complicated relationship, I make complicated jokes, complicated work plans, but not relationship.
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<br>you..? you haven't tell me why you are giving up..? :P
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Give her some time but doesn't mean that you stop the caring to her. Show her that you like her and want to share her ups and downs.
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<br>I think that's all you can do.
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i love charmine, miss u crazy
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Meaning she needs more caring. Wants more attention from you. <--- I guess I am giving her too much attention, since I always think " am I call her too frequently?" But she sounds very glad on phone, so I suppose she likes me to call her.
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hmm.. no.. don't feel like mentioning here and now.
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<br>Just feeling losing myself again. Tired of giving. Relationship is a fair deal too right? Try to make other half fruitful..
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Charmaine, but she requests to stop contact for a week. Then I should just wait for one week? Actually I am thinking to give up, since I feel hurt, why she put the useless rules and make me feel upset..?
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She probably has negative emotion from previous BF or work or even friends.
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<br>Forgive her and give her a break and let her breathe. Maybe there's some bad memories in her mind still.
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Relationship is a fair deal too right? Try to make other half fruitful.. <---- yes, this is so rite.
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<br>Just now I think she is giving test to me, but that makes me feel sad, why we need those useless test?
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<br>We talked on phone for 2 weeks and each cal lasts for at least 2 hours, if she cannot feel " me" on those Marathon calls, then she cannot feel nothing from the test.
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Yes, maybe I should just let her breather. Stop contact her for 1 week or even 2 weeks, to let her think again.
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<br>sorry , the talking is all around me.
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<br>so, you can say nothing about your BF..?
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You make me laugh.
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<br>It is so obvious that she lost secure feeling from time to time. That's why giving you the test.
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<br>If I was her, I would probably turn off the phone without even informing you. Haha
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<br>Thanks for making me laugh.
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o...you are teasing me suddenly..? = = ''
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<br>I know it's not good to push someone too much. So, I always try to feel if she sounds happy or shows some impatient signs, but so far it's all postive. That's why I am confused.
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I think it is good to stop contacting her a week too. So she can figure out something more herself.
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<br>My story? Tiring of giving.. emotional lose..
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This is called "ups and downs". You 2 can't go UPPPPPPPPPPPP like a rocket. Have to fall and get up again.
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so, your case is you like your BF a lot more than he does...? rite.?
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yup...your example is good. I will try to remember this. Maybe it's because I am too lonely, not because I like her so much.
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No. 2-side thing. I enjoy his caring too. If I am the one giving out only, I won't appreciate the relationship.
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<br>But I think people always "take things for granted". Men do too.
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You aren't lonely. You enjoy making her happy and upset to see her like that. Give her some break. It will turn out well.
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Yes, ture, taking things for granted, human inertia.
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<br>also we like use our standard to judge others, if I don't like a girl , I won't talk to her on phone for 2 hours.
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<br>so, when she is willing to talk with me a lot, I suppose she likes me. Maybe I am wrong. Maybe she just need a ppl to talked with.
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You aren't lonely. <---
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<br>hehe, yes, I am not lonely, I am upset and hurt now. Just now I am thinking I better prefer solitude or just some casaul relationships. When I am getting in serious realtionship, I always mess it up.
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Is she having bad day at work? Stressful?
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<br>I am sure she won't waste time and energy on a guy if she's not interested. I am saying outloud. Haha
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Take natural course of relationship. Who knows what is going to happen tomorrow? Interesting thing in life, isn't it?
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<br>I will keep my finger crossed for you.
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Yes, you are so clever, she said the workload for her will be very heavy this week.
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<br>what I don't understand is, I am okay not meeting her for a week, but why she also refuses phone calls?