Feeling hurt these day
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Please let go and forgive my selfishness. I am feeling hurt these day.
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r u feeling ok?
mind to chat for a bit?
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Hi Mocha,
How are you doing?
Just little hurt. Hope will be fine soon.
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charmaine
ya im doing fine, just taking a break now
really hope everything will be fine with u
do u mind to chat in msn>
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what hurt ? can tell me ma?
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mocha,
I am comfortable with here. Hope you don't mind if we chat here a while.
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gary,
giving up someone in my life.
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Hi Charmanie_snow,
Why u have to give up 'someone'. Is he your bf or something?
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who "someone" ?
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sigh...
long story short, should give up.
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"someone" is the one I care... before
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can't tell your story ma?
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do u want to share with others?
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hihi! is your bf?
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係囉
你係gf or bf??
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Who cares?
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I have a lifetime full of hopes and dreams
I thought I seek true love but it's never what it seems
I've been broken but I know how to survive
Somehow I always keep my dreams alive
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讓對方知道你在等佢
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I am the one who is giving up. There's hard feeling from time to time (from my side).
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去旅行散下心
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I just came back from holiday not long ago. But thank you for your thought though. It is nice idea.
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Hi...Charmaine, I feel hurt tonite too, let's chat for a while, shall we..?
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How long you 2 been together..? and why you are giving up?
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My pleasure. How are u doing?
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Not very good, there 's one girl whom I quite like, tonite she said she is so busy and " let's don't contact each other " for a week.
I don't know what that means.
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Maybe tiring. Feeling insecure.
And you?
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She just seperated from a 5 year BF, maybe I should give her more time and don't push her too much.
But eveytime when we are on the phone, she sounds so happy and relaxed, it's always me to ask her to hang up cos cos I don't want her to sleep to little.
But today she suddently sent me this msg, I am really confused.
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Meaning she needs more caring. Wants more attention from you.
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I guess I like her, since my impression about her is " simple & direct", I cannot handle complicated relationship, I make complicated jokes, complicated work plans, but not relationship.
you..? you haven't tell me why you are giving up..? :P
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Give her some time but doesn't mean that you stop the caring to her. Show her that you like her and want to share her ups and downs.
I think that's all you can do.
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i love charmine, miss u crazy
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Meaning she needs more caring. Wants more attention from you. <--- I guess I am giving her too much attention, since I always think " am I call her too frequently?" But she sounds very glad on phone, so I suppose she likes me to call her.
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hmm.. no.. don't feel like mentioning here and now.
Just feeling losing myself again. Tired of giving. Relationship is a fair deal too right? Try to make other half fruitful..
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Charmaine, but she requests to stop contact for a week. Then I should just wait for one week? Actually I am thinking to give up, since I feel hurt, why she put the useless rules and make me feel upset..?
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She probably has negative emotion from previous BF or work or even friends.
Forgive her and give her a break and let her breathe. Maybe there's some bad memories in her mind still.
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Relationship is a fair deal too right? Try to make other half fruitful.. <---- yes, this is so rite.
Just now I think she is giving test to me, but that makes me feel sad, why we need those useless test?
We talked on phone for 2 weeks and each cal lasts for at least 2 hours, if she cannot feel " me" on those Marathon calls, then she cannot feel nothing from the test.
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Yes, maybe I should just let her breather. Stop contact her for 1 week or even 2 weeks, to let her think again.
sorry , the talking is all around me.
so, you can say nothing about your BF..?
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You make me laugh.
It is so obvious that she lost secure feeling from time to time. That's why giving you the test.
If I was her, I would probably turn off the phone without even informing you. Haha
Thanks for making me laugh.
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o...you are teasing me suddenly..? = = ''
I know it's not good to push someone too much. So, I always try to feel if she sounds happy or shows some impatient signs, but so far it's all postive. That's why I am confused.
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I think it is good to stop contacting her a week too. So she can figure out something more herself.
My story? Tiring of giving.. emotional lose..
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This is called "ups and downs". You 2 can't go UPPPPPPPPPPPP like a rocket. Have to fall and get up again.
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so, your case is you like your BF a lot more than he does...? rite.?
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yup...your example is good. I will try to remember this. Maybe it's because I am too lonely, not because I like her so much.
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No. 2-side thing. I enjoy his caring too. If I am the one giving out only, I won't appreciate the relationship.
But I think people always "take things for granted". Men do too.
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You aren't lonely. You enjoy making her happy and upset to see her like that. Give her some break. It will turn out well.
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Yes, ture, taking things for granted, human inertia.
also we like use our standard to judge others, if I don't like a girl , I won't talk to her on phone for 2 hours.
so, when she is willing to talk with me a lot, I suppose she likes me. Maybe I am wrong. Maybe she just need a ppl to talked with.
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You aren't lonely. <---
hehe, yes, I am not lonely, I am upset and hurt now. Just now I am thinking I better prefer solitude or just some casaul relationships. When I am getting in serious realtionship, I always mess it up.
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Is she having bad day at work? Stressful?
I am sure she won't waste time and energy on a guy if she's not interested. I am saying outloud. Haha
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Take natural course of relationship. Who knows what is going to happen tomorrow? Interesting thing in life, isn't it?
I will keep my finger crossed for you.
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Yes, you are so clever, she said the workload for her will be very heavy this week.
what I don't understand is, I am okay not meeting her for a week, but why she also refuses phone calls?