I miss my sl
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why miss ?
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we broke up
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hiya...
<br>i just broke up with my sl too
<br>sigh... kind of miss her
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is SL for easy come easy go ?
<br>anyway, what you going to do then ?
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<p>nick,<br />how long hv u 2 been together?<br /><br />mred<br />i don't think so. sl could be love at wrong timing</p>
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we been hanging out for about 2 years
<br>and we sort of gone into cold war since i missed the date
<br>its actually my fault.... but now seems no turning back....
<br>sth u will miss and treasure after u lost it
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have sex with him yet?
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me too<br /><br />soda, are u a guy or gal?
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cold war becoz of missed a date? is must be an important one..
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<p>jess<br />i am gal</p>
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if wrong timing, then can let go,
<br>find again ?
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we dont have chance to meet often so we got to spend quite a while to schedule our date
<br>and... i missed that.... so she is quite upset about that
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mred<br />it's not easy to find
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its hard to find one really
<br>that have the similar thinking and interest
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<p>I see.<br /><br />Mine was a married mature guy. He's over 40, much much older than me.<br /><br />We've been together for almost a year. And last month he said goodbye to me coz he said he couldn't put his family at risk anymore.<br /><br />I cried a lot. I miss him so much.</p>
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<p>nick<br />did u missed it becoz of sthg else or simply forgot?<br />i always cancel my dates with my ex sl, i guess he is pretty upset too<br /><br /></p>
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jess<br />ic. take care. do you hv a bf / family urself?
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jess, poor you ....
<br>I am married mature guy also.
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<br>might I replace him ?
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i suppose to meet her up after the company dinner... but was finished late
<br>so i suggested to postpone our date in the last min
<br>let me tell u soda.... its really kind of a sad thing to cancel the date with sl... which makes him/her thinks that she is not important at all. ask urself... will u skip your buddies/frd's gathering??
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<p>tks all<br /><br />I'm single.<br /><br />mred, do you think you are far too aggressive? Though I like mature man, it doesn't mean any mature man. It's quite clear, isnt it? So I dont think you're mature enough to handle this kind of relationship.<br /><br />soda<br />what's your story?</p>
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Jess,
<br>Thx, seems I am really too aggressive tim !
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jess...
<br>u take gd care
<br>we do all know this kind of sercet relationship is not 'healthy' at all and will soon or later comes to an END. but its always upset u when it comes to u....
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Soda,
<br>plan for yourselves,
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<br>plan can be work, eat, play ....
<br>if can NOT be long time, short plan is ok.
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<br>if having a target on plan, would help you to pass this period (I think)
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nick<br />now it's too late. my sl treated me very well and placed me as first priority but i took ihim for granted<br /><br />jess<br />we broke up becoz we could no longer take eachother as secret
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算啦~~過左去就過左去!
<br>舊既唔去新既唔來!
<br>經一事長一智!下次未了解清楚先囉!
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jess<br />for ur good, find a single and worthy guy to develop with. fall in love with the right man
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<p>nick<br /><br />exactly! <br /><br />soda<br /><br />Is he a married guy? or you're married?<br /><br /></p>
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all,
<br>SL is Secret,
<br>itself is NOT normal.
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soda<br /><br />I understand that. Sometimes, fate takes the full control of all.
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mred<br /><br />Sorry, I can't see your point.
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jess<br />only bf / gf
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mred<br />we were trying to jump beyond being sl making our relationship normal
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Jess,
<br>even you can't control fate,
<br>but you can choose different fate ahead.
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Soda,
<br>who proposed to change to Normal relationship ?
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soda<br /><br />that's much 'heathlier' than mine. At least there's a 'hope' to become a REAL couple. But from your last message, it seems it screwed up right there. How did it happen? Mind to share more?
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Jess, soda
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<br>Well, life is sometimes unfair.
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mred<br /><br />I think you're a guy who seek for sl relationship too even though you're a married man. With all due respect, I can't understand your advice of asking me to choose different fate.
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Jess,
<br>I believe I can control my fate.
<br>But there is god who can make its sudden change of my fate,
<br>i.e. I can NOT totally control my fate.
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<br>But you do can control your fate normally (if you take action)...
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<br>just for sharing ...
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<p>jess<br />all i can say is i am selfish. not willing to leave my bf and risk for a new relationship. also, if he will leave his gf for me today, he might leave me for another one day, right?</p>
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To All,
<br>nice chat guys
<br>gdlife
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Sorry to jump into the conversation. I do believe everyone has his/her reason to find SL. I myself had one before too and we have been together for more than a year until she moved to other country for work. Sometimes i guess it really depends on how you view this relationship..while some may treat sl just as a time killer or replacement, for myself, i view her as my companion/soulmate and I do cherrish the time we were together. Unfortunately, for some reason that I cannot do the same with my gf and I'm not going in depth here. Just be happy of what you are and find the best path for yourself. Cheer up.
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any relationship is a tortuous road.. the reward is not correlated with the effort made..
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