I miss my sl
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why miss ?
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we broke up
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hiya...
i just broke up with my sl too
sigh... kind of miss her
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is SL for easy come easy go ?
anyway, what you going to do then ?
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nick,
how long hv u 2 been together?
mred
i don't think so. sl could be love at wrong timing
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we been hanging out for about 2 years
and we sort of gone into cold war since i missed the date
its actually my fault.... but now seems no turning back....
sth u will miss and treasure after u lost it
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have sex with him yet?
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me too
soda, are u a guy or gal?
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cold war becoz of missed a date? is must be an important one..
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jess
i am gal
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if wrong timing, then can let go,
find again ?
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we dont have chance to meet often so we got to spend quite a while to schedule our date
and... i missed that.... so she is quite upset about that
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mred
it's not easy to find
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its hard to find one really
that have the similar thinking and interest
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I see.
Mine was a married mature guy. He's over 40, much much older than me.
We've been together for almost a year. And last month he said goodbye to me coz he said he couldn't put his family at risk anymore.
I cried a lot. I miss him so much.
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nick
did u missed it becoz of sthg else or simply forgot?
i always cancel my dates with my ex sl, i guess he is pretty upset too
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jess
ic. take care. do you hv a bf / family urself?
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jess, poor you ....
I am married mature guy also.
might I replace him ?
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i suppose to meet her up after the company dinner... but was finished late
so i suggested to postpone our date in the last min
let me tell u soda.... its really kind of a sad thing to cancel the date with sl... which makes him/her thinks that she is not important at all. ask urself... will u skip your buddies/frd's gathering??
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tks all
I'm single.
mred, do you think you are far too aggressive? Though I like mature man, it doesn't mean any mature man. It's quite clear, isnt it? So I dont think you're mature enough to handle this kind of relationship.
soda
what's your story?
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Jess,
Thx, seems I am really too aggressive tim !
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jess...
u take gd care
we do all know this kind of sercet relationship is not 'healthy' at all and will soon or later comes to an END. but its always upset u when it comes to u....
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Soda,
plan for yourselves,
plan can be work, eat, play ....
if can NOT be long time, short plan is ok.
if having a target on plan, would help you to pass this period (I think)
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nick
now it's too late. my sl treated me very well and placed me as first priority but i took ihim for granted
jess
we broke up becoz we could no longer take eachother as secret
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算啦~~過左去就過左去!
舊既唔去新既唔來!
經一事長一智!下次未了解清楚先囉!
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jess
for ur good, find a single and worthy guy to develop with. fall in love with the right man
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nick
exactly!
soda
Is he a married guy? or you're married?
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all,
SL is Secret,
itself is NOT normal.
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soda
I understand that. Sometimes, fate takes the full control of all.
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mred
Sorry, I can't see your point.
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jess
only bf / gf
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mred
we were trying to jump beyond being sl making our relationship normal
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Jess,
even you can't control fate,
but you can choose different fate ahead.
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Soda,
who proposed to change to Normal relationship ?
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soda
that's much 'heathlier' than mine. At least there's a 'hope' to become a REAL couple. But from your last message, it seems it screwed up right there. How did it happen? Mind to share more?
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Jess, soda
Well, life is sometimes unfair.
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mred
I think you're a guy who seek for sl relationship too even though you're a married man. With all due respect, I can't understand your advice of asking me to choose different fate.
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Jess,
I believe I can control my fate.
But there is god who can make its sudden change of my fate,
i.e. I can NOT totally control my fate.
But you do can control your fate normally (if you take action)...
just for sharing ...
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jess
all i can say is i am selfish. not willing to leave my bf and risk for a new relationship. also, if he will leave his gf for me today, he might leave me for another one day, right?
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To All,
nice chat guys
gdlife
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Sorry to jump into the conversation. I do believe everyone has his/her reason to find SL. I myself had one before too and we have been together for more than a year until she moved to other country for work. Sometimes i guess it really depends on how you view this relationship..while some may treat sl just as a time killer or replacement, for myself, i view her as my companion/soulmate and I do cherrish the time we were together. Unfortunately, for some reason that I cannot do the same with my gf and I'm not going in depth here. Just be happy of what you are and find the best path for yourself. Cheer up.
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any relationship is a tortuous road.. the reward is not correlated with the effort made..
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