Secret Lover~



  • When I was googling something earlier, I accidentally saw a thread about SL, I was curious about it n actually spent time on reading the threads.
    There was a minute that I think I may have a try too, however, after I read the other comments, I found it quite scary tho.

    Can anyone share their positive experiences of finding SL in she.com?








  • well... I've met my ex-sl here years ago and we had such an enjoyable and memorable relationship for 4 years in total.





    I mean... ...it's not so easy to find the right one. But if u do, it's very rewarding and well worth the time.





    However, i have recently noticed that the quality of the candidates at this site has been deteriorated drastically.





    Who knows? May be i will have a chance to meet up another decent one in the near future.





    Stay positive and that's my mindset.





    Fair enough?



  • 從來水能載舟,亦能覆舟


    要載舟過岸,當然要懂水性,曉行舟.








  • haha....





    way too metaphysical and vague for me..



  • I have two Sl relationship. in general speaking, both are positive, one is still keep contact, and now we are just friend, for more than 4 years, the other one, no more contact. if just keep the sweet time in the memory and forget the hard time, both are positive....





  • that was great, isn't it?





    do u still meet up your ex-sl from time to time?



  • yes, that's great. we are good friends now, but not meet up often...I just have very few female friends, she is the one.



  • I met her from here, and I have stopped surfing here for long time....



  • Thanks for sharing your wonderful experiences, I am really tempted now....lol





    I guess by all means its just a matter of luck and.....real life experience. haha







  • poohpooh





    I am looking for a stable SL sincerely now, do you wanna have a try?








    btw, I am a 36 yrs attached guy with presentable appearance


    and caring mind



  • poohpooh








    welcome to add me for a chat first. if match, we may meet up for a coffee or dinner








    skype: darren_2046



  • poohpooh





    do you want to come out today?



  • u see.... .....I have issues regarding my current relationship with my other half. That's why I wanted a sl. It all depends what you are trying to benefit from your particular sl relationship after all. However, luck matters the most as it actually dictates whether you would be getting a good one or the right one. Just like everything else in life, luck plays a serious role in yielding the right outcome indeed.



  • I wanna find a matching sl as well



  • sweety replied at 2013-04-28 12:41 pm


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    I wanna find a matching sl as well


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    May I?



  • hi Bitter,nice to meet you



  • hi sweety





    shall we chat in msn?



  • leave your msn please



  • sweety








    same here, I just broke with my SL and wish to find a stable one



  • hi sweety, may I have a chat with you?



  • sweety








    can add me please?





    34 yrs


    174 cm, 158 lbs


    good looking


    considerate and decent


    finance field








    msn: franfran4u@hotmail.com





  • Bitter replied at 2013-04-28 1:12 pm


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    nowfinder@hotmail.com


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    sorry, no such user found



  • Can you send your msn to backspace@she.com?


    I shall add you then.



  • sorry I can't access that e-mail


    pls add msn escape@live.hk



  • I seldom go on msn or Skype whatever it called now.





    I guess wechat is more convenient ^^





    so it appears to me that ppl usually hv more than 1 SL at the same period?



  • it depends


    may i be your sl?



  • loves to meet nice ladies here....^^



  • loves to meet nice ladies here....^^



  • Looking for a Sl is not order a drink in coffee shop, if you don't like the taste just dump it. The cost is just little money.





    SL is relationship, not matter its serious or not,it takes time to communicate and knowing each other, its not like just know nothing, just ask, can I to be yours? Right, it doesnt hurt guys, but ladies might be hurted.





    Think about if you really need one and what you are looking for.... no hurry.... step too fast, you can never step back..



  • darren replied at 2013-04-28 1:02 pm


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    sweety








    same here, I just broke with my SL and wish to find a stable one


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    how could u let go of your ex out of your mind and find a new one instantly after broke up with your ex? you said you love her very much and been together for 4 years? you dont need time to heal your sadness ?



  • how replied at 2013-04-29 2:26 pm


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    darren replied at 2013-04-28 1:02 pm


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    sweety








    same here, I just broke with my SL and wish to find a stable one


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    how could u let go of your ex out of your mind and find a new one instantly after broke up with your ex? you said you love her very much and been together for 4 years? you dont need time to heal your sadness ?


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    He is making story to tell girls here how he loves his EX, but actually he just want a woman to fxxk asap.




  • hihi



  • big bird replied at 2013-04-29 2:03 pm


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    Looking for a Sl is not order a drink in coffee shop, if you don't like the taste just dump it. The cost is just little money.





    SL is relationship, not matter its serious or not,it takes time to communicate and knowing each other, its not like just know nothing, just ask, can I to be yours? Right, it doesnt hurt guys, but ladies might be hurted.





    Think about if you really need one and what you are looking for.... no hurry.... step too fast, you can never step back..


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    I totally agree with u. I find it difficult to answer those "can I be yours" questions too.





    I do think communications n feelings r important for gals, I dont mind you r attached but doesn't mean i dont deserve the respects. I would say no fast track can be taken for guys, u still have to go steps by steps.







  • should get to know each other well, enjoy gd feeling, and move to more intimiate relationship.





    pooh gal....u also looking for new partner?



  • poohpooh replied at 2013-04-28 11:46 pm


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    I seldom go on msn or Skype whatever it called now.





    I guess wechat is more convenient ^^





    so it appears to me that ppl usually hv more than 1 SL at the same period?


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    Is there any chance I can know more about u?


    wechat: oh30624700



  • poohpooh replied at 2013-04-28 11:46 pm


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    I seldom go on msn or Skype whatever it called now.





    I guess wechat is more convenient ^^





    so it appears to me that ppl usually hv more than 1 SL at the same period?


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    yes, guys at here have more than one SL, they know how to cheat their SLs :)



  • I never have a 4 yrs SL....you got the wrong guy?



  • liquid1212 replied at 2013-04-29 10:00 pm


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    poohpooh replied at 2013-04-28 11:46 pm


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    I seldom go on msn or Skype whatever it called now.





    I guess wechat is more convenient ^^





    so it appears to me that ppl usually hv more than 1 SL at the same period?


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    Is there any chance I can know more about u?


    wechat: oh30624700


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    added. ^^



  • hi poohpooh,





    wanna chat via Wechat? pls add:


    kc1976


    btw, I'm 36/m.



  • seems nobody use skype and MSN.





    Wechat is user friendly...that's why wechat is getting popular...



  • poohpooh, have you found your answers?








  • All of the sudden, this thread becomes active again.





    Most of you are attached? or still single?





    PoohPooh ( the host of the thread ), are u still single?





    Why do u want a SL? Just a question out of curiosity.





    Just a friendly reminder for you, you have to be careful meeting up guys at this site, ok?



  • empty replied at 2013-04-30 2:36 pm


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    All of the sudden, this thread becomes active again.





    Most of you are attached? or still single?





    PoohPooh ( the host of the thread ), are u still single?





    Why do u want a SL? Just a question out of curiosity.





    Just a friendly reminder for you, you have to be careful meeting up guys at this site, ok?


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    you seems rich experience meeting guys from here.,



  • I share the same thought with you. Wanna try but have doubt. But I believe it would be lovely if you can find a sweet one here.





  • big bird,





    What a great educational guess !!! But sadly enough, you are totally wrong. I am actually a guy !!!





    So here is the catch, you don't really know who is behind every particular message!!! That's what driving me to come to this site once a while when i have free time.





    Haha



  • empty replied at 2013-04-30 3:00 pm


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    big bird,





    What a great educational guess !!! But sadly enough, you are totally wrong. I am actually a guy !!!





    So here is the catch, you don't really know who is behind every particular message!!! That's what driving me to come to this site once a while when i have free time.





    Haha


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    so have you met lots of ladies here?



  • gemgal replied at 2013-04-30 2:51 pm


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    I share the same thought with you. Wanna try but have doubt. But I believe it would be lovely if you can find a sweet one here.


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    yes. its lovely when you find a sweet one. I am having a good time with him.



  • .....not really a lot. I normally do loads of proprietary filtering before meeting up a lady. The process is quite tedious but fun for the most part. What about you? U got any memorable experience here as well?



  • I guess I've got the answers here.


    I still havent started yet....not even a personal chat with anyone here. lol





    empty:


    Thanks for your advice. I will be more cautious on the screening process. As you all know, there are quite a few cases of girls being raped or cheated by "net frd". =.=






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