Secret Lover~
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When I was googling something earlier, I accidentally saw a thread about SL, I was curious about it n actually spent time on reading the threads.
There was a minute that I think I may have a try too, however, after I read the other comments, I found it quite scary tho.Can anyone share their positive experiences of finding SL in she.com?
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<br>well... I've met my ex-sl here years ago and we had such an enjoyable and memorable relationship for 4 years in total.
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<br>I mean... ...it's not so easy to find the right one. But if u do, it's very rewarding and well worth the time.
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<br>However, i have recently noticed that the quality of the candidates at this site has been deteriorated drastically.
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<br>Who knows? May be i will have a chance to meet up another decent one in the near future.
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<br>Stay positive and that's my mindset.
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<br>Fair enough?
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從來水能載舟,亦能覆舟
<br>要載舟過岸,當然要懂水性,曉行舟.
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<br>haha....
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<br>way too metaphysical and vague for me..
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I have two Sl relationship. in general speaking, both are positive, one is still keep contact, and now we are just friend, for more than 4 years, the other one, no more contact. if just keep the sweet time in the memory and forget the hard time, both are positive....
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<br>that was great, isn't it?
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<br>do u still meet up your ex-sl from time to time?
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yes, that's great. we are good friends now, but not meet up often...I just have very few female friends, she is the one.
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I met her from here, and I have stopped surfing here for long time....
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Thanks for sharing your wonderful experiences, I am really tempted now....lol
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<br>I guess by all means its just a matter of luck and.....real life experience. haha
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poohpooh
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<br>I am looking for a stable SL sincerely now, do you wanna have a try?
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<br>btw, I am a 36 yrs attached guy with presentable appearance
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poohpooh
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<br>welcome to add me for a chat first. if match, we may meet up for a coffee or dinner
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<br>skype: darren_2046
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poohpooh
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<br>do you want to come out today?
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u see.... .....I have issues regarding my current relationship with my other half. That's why I wanted a sl. It all depends what you are trying to benefit from your particular sl relationship after all. However, luck matters the most as it actually dictates whether you would be getting a good one or the right one. Just like everything else in life, luck plays a serious role in yielding the right outcome indeed.
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I wanna find a matching sl as well
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sweety replied at 2013-04-28 12:41 pm
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<br>I wanna find a matching sl as well
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<br>May I?
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hi Bitter,nice to meet you
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hi sweety
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<br>shall we chat in msn?
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leave your msn please
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sweety
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<br>same here, I just broke with my SL and wish to find a stable one
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hi sweety, may I have a chat with you?
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sweety
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<br>can add me please?
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<br>34 yrs
<br>174 cm, 158 lbs
<br>good looking
<br>considerate and decent
<br>finance field
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<br>msn: [email protected]
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Bitter replied at 2013-04-28 1:12 pm
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<br>[email protected]
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<br>sorry, no such user found
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Can you send your msn to [email protected]?
<br>I shall add you then.
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sorry I can't access that e-mail
<br>pls add msn [email protected]
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I seldom go on msn or Skype whatever it called now.
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<br>I guess wechat is more convenient ^^
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<br>so it appears to me that ppl usually hv more than 1 SL at the same period?
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it depends
<br>may i be your sl?
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loves to meet nice ladies here....^^
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loves to meet nice ladies here....^^
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Looking for a Sl is not order a drink in coffee shop, if you don't like the taste just dump it. The cost is just little money.
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<br>SL is relationship, not matter its serious or not,it takes time to communicate and knowing each other, its not like just know nothing, just ask, can I to be yours? Right, it doesnt hurt guys, but ladies might be hurted.
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<br>Think about if you really need one and what you are looking for.... no hurry.... step too fast, you can never step back..
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darren replied at 2013-04-28 1:02 pm
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<br>sweety
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<br>same here, I just broke with my SL and wish to find a stable one
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<br>how could u let go of your ex out of your mind and find a new one instantly after broke up with your ex? you said you love her very much and been together for 4 years? you dont need time to heal your sadness ?
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how replied at 2013-04-29 2:26 pm
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<br>darren replied at 2013-04-28 1:02 pm
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<br>sweety
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<br>same here, I just broke with my SL and wish to find a stable one
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<br>how could u let go of your ex out of your mind and find a new one instantly after broke up with your ex? you said you love her very much and been together for 4 years? you dont need time to heal your sadness ?
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<br>He is making story to tell girls here how he loves his EX, but actually he just want a woman to fxxk asap.
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hihi
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big bird replied at 2013-04-29 2:03 pm
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<br>Looking for a Sl is not order a drink in coffee shop, if you don't like the taste just dump it. The cost is just little money.
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<br>SL is relationship, not matter its serious or not,it takes time to communicate and knowing each other, its not like just know nothing, just ask, can I to be yours? Right, it doesnt hurt guys, but ladies might be hurted.
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<br>Think about if you really need one and what you are looking for.... no hurry.... step too fast, you can never step back..
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<br>I totally agree with u. I find it difficult to answer those "can I be yours" questions too.
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<br>I do think communications n feelings r important for gals, I dont mind you r attached but doesn't mean i dont deserve the respects. I would say no fast track can be taken for guys, u still have to go steps by steps.
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should get to know each other well, enjoy gd feeling, and move to more intimiate relationship.
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<br>pooh gal....u also looking for new partner?
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poohpooh replied at 2013-04-28 11:46 pm
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<br>I seldom go on msn or Skype whatever it called now.
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<br>I guess wechat is more convenient ^^
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<br>so it appears to me that ppl usually hv more than 1 SL at the same period?
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<br>Is there any chance I can know more about u?
<br>wechat: oh30624700
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poohpooh replied at 2013-04-28 11:46 pm
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<br>I seldom go on msn or Skype whatever it called now.
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<br>I guess wechat is more convenient ^^
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<br>so it appears to me that ppl usually hv more than 1 SL at the same period?
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<br>yes, guys at here have more than one SL, they know how to cheat their SLs :)
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I never have a 4 yrs SL....you got the wrong guy?
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liquid1212 replied at 2013-04-29 10:00 pm
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<br>poohpooh replied at 2013-04-28 11:46 pm
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<br>I seldom go on msn or Skype whatever it called now.
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<br>I guess wechat is more convenient ^^
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<br>so it appears to me that ppl usually hv more than 1 SL at the same period?
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<br>Is there any chance I can know more about u?
<br>wechat: oh30624700
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<br>added. ^^
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hi poohpooh,
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<br>wanna chat via Wechat? pls add:
<br>kc1976
<br>btw, I'm 36/m.
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seems nobody use skype and MSN.
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<br>Wechat is user friendly...that's why wechat is getting popular...
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poohpooh, have you found your answers?
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<br>All of the sudden, this thread becomes active again.
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<br>Most of you are attached? or still single?
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<br>PoohPooh ( the host of the thread ), are u still single?
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<br>Why do u want a SL? Just a question out of curiosity.
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<br>Just a friendly reminder for you, you have to be careful meeting up guys at this site, ok?
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empty replied at 2013-04-30 2:36 pm
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<br>All of the sudden, this thread becomes active again.
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<br>Most of you are attached? or still single?
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<br>PoohPooh ( the host of the thread ), are u still single?
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<br>Why do u want a SL? Just a question out of curiosity.
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<br>Just a friendly reminder for you, you have to be careful meeting up guys at this site, ok?
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<br>you seems rich experience meeting guys from here.,
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I share the same thought with you. Wanna try but have doubt. But I believe it would be lovely if you can find a sweet one here.
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<br>big bird,
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<br>What a great educational guess !!! But sadly enough, you are totally wrong. I am actually a guy !!!
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<br>So here is the catch, you don't really know who is behind every particular message!!! That's what driving me to come to this site once a while when i have free time.
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<br>Haha
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empty replied at 2013-04-30 3:00 pm
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<br>big bird,
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<br>What a great educational guess !!! But sadly enough, you are totally wrong. I am actually a guy !!!
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<br>So here is the catch, you don't really know who is behind every particular message!!! That's what driving me to come to this site once a while when i have free time.
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<br>Haha
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<br>so have you met lots of ladies here?
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gemgal replied at 2013-04-30 2:51 pm
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<br>I share the same thought with you. Wanna try but have doubt. But I believe it would be lovely if you can find a sweet one here.
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<br>yes. its lovely when you find a sweet one. I am having a good time with him.
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.....not really a lot. I normally do loads of proprietary filtering before meeting up a lady. The process is quite tedious but fun for the most part. What about you? U got any memorable experience here as well?
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I guess I've got the answers here.
<br>I still havent started yet....not even a personal chat with anyone here. lol
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<br>empty:
<br>Thanks for your advice. I will be more cautious on the screening process. As you all know, there are quite a few cases of girls being raped or cheated by "net frd". =.=
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