Is it possible to meet a mature and decent guy for casual dating ?

Irene
 I think you have done for the best.

man@40,
 I met more than 20 guys here, none of their outlook is OK, so I gave up looking for guys here for a period time, this is last time to try my luck here.

Carpenters are good. Beegee...not really. may be just because of they appearence. Well. Seems like you are more into Western culture than Chinese. Educated overseas? I am educated in the States.

hi irene,
 i think a smart divorced ppl at 40+, either gal or guy, will know how to start another round of living, make it brighter and more graceful itself~

man@40,
 I have met more than 20 guys from she, but none of their outlook is OK, and I gave up for a period of time, this is the last time to try my luck here.
 
 "too much heaven" is my favourite and also "how deep is your love" and "more than a woman".

irene,
 did u join to visit the 'Karpenter' tour last month?

irene
 20 guys is quite a lot. U met them in very short period of time? most gals I met said guys from here are ok. you must have a high standard on "outlook".
 
 "how deep is your love" is also a good song. "too much heaven" is the first I knew when I was in secondary school. the most impressive song of bee gees to me.

Leslie,
 totally agree with you...you remind me Danny Chan, and his song "等"...
 
 等...寂寞到夜深, 夜已漸荒涼, 夜已漸紛暗,
 莫道你在選擇人, 人亦能選擇你, 公平完沒半點偏心...

Leslie,
 I didn't join the Karpenter tour, I prefer the real carpenters even she was in heaven...hehe.

I like air supply

no more mood with "等", dear...
 
 make yrself in this way instead~

man@40,
 I admitted that I'm picky, I have no interest to get together with a guy long if he is not good looking, I don't know why, this is my style.
 
 do you like Bee Gees' earlier songs such as...First of May, To love someone body...?

irene,
 cartenters was no longer in heaven any more....ever since the introduction of youtube in the internet~ ;-)

irene
 that's the same for men. i don't think men can get along with gals who don't have "reasonable" appearance. there's no right or wrong here.
 
 i don't know much of english songs indeed. knew a few only while i was in old school life. after that switched to local cantonese songs as i found they are not bad too. however, those good old english songs do lingers. but too poor there hardly found good songs nowadays.

Leslie,
 do you have mood with Billy Joel's song....
 
 "Just the way you are"
 Don't go trying some new fashion
 Don't change the color of your hair
 You always have my unspoken passion
 Although I might not seem to care
 
 I don't want clever conversation
 I never want to work that hard
 I just want someone that I can talk to
 I want you just the way you are

you do like old songs irene !
 
 those reminds me dust in the wind, anak....

我現在很無聊, 有冇女士想遊車河兜風???
 MSN me now [email protected]

thanks irene
 do u want me just the way i am?! hahaaa.....
 
 if in that case, i will keep talk to u, flirt you, ask you for dinner/drink and some other casual datings, do u mean that?? ^^

man@40,
 yes, hardly to find good songs nowadays, that's why I love oldies as well as 80's disco music, I miss those days in disco in TST.
 
 Henry,
 I like Air Supply song's too, some of them have Chinese version... All out of love = 小風波.

irene
 right. good songs are hard to find. i should go and find some mp3 version when i am on the move.
 
 making love out of nothing at all is also a nice song. sounds fit to situation in sex board.

Irene,
 小風波 also over 20 years ago, maybe close to 30 years

Leslie,
 yes, I want you just the way you are...hehe.
 
 "if in that case, i will keep talk to u, flirt you, ask you for dinner/drink and some other casual datings, do u mean that??"...why not if you are as gorgeous as Leslie Cheung...hehe

Now and forever
 Remember the words from my heart
 Will always be true
 Now and forever, together
 And all that I feel is my love for youNow and forever.......

suddenly, many good songs in my mind and make me so high, really want to have a glass of wine now...hehe

more........
 Phil Collins --- Against All Odds

irene,
 you turned me down badly when i noticed you wrote to me at the last few sentence: '........if you are as gorgeous as Leslie Cheung'..
 
 essentially, i am leslie in 2008 only..

How can I just let you walk away,
 just let you leave without a trace
 When I stand here taking every breath with you, ooh
 You're the only one who really knew me at all
 
 How can you just walk away from me,
 when all I can do is watch you leave
 Cos we've shared the laughter and the pain and even shared the tears
 You're the only one who really knew me at all
 
 So take a look at me now, oh there's just an empty space
 And there's nothing left here to remind me,
 just the memory of your face
 Ooh take a look at me now, well there's just an empty space
 And you coming back to me is against the odds
 and that's what I've got to face
 
 I wish I could just make you turn around,
 turn around and see me cry
 There's so much I need to say to you,
 so many reasons why
 You're the only one who really knew me at all
 
 So take a look at me now, well there's just an empty space
 And there's nothing left here to remind me,
 just the memory of your face
 Now take a look at me now, cos there's just an empty space
 
 But to wait for you, is all I can do and that's what I've got to face
 Take a good look at me now, cos I'll still be standing here
 And you coming back to me is against all odds
 It's the chance I've gotta take
 
 Take a look at me now

irene
 as you like english songs + good looking guys. hope you like this one.

see you around. bye for now.

sorry, I have no idea about leslie in 2008, is it the worst...haha?

irene
 as you like english songs + good looking guys, hope you enjoy this.

see you around.

man@40,
 thanks...see you then.

The love songs of Westlife are also good too but not too old.
 Anyway, thx.

The love songs of Boyzone are also good too but not too old.
 Anyway, thx.

henry,
 do you have any plan on Christmas?

Irene
 No ar and u ?

Irene
 where are you live ?

irene,
 coz i cannot guarantee i am as gorgeous as leslie, but maybe someone whom you may think of and miss~

henry,
 I live in island east and you?
 
 leslie,
 great, I like people with confidence and am interested to know how can get me think of and miss you.

Irene,
 really? me too. Where do you live closed to ?

near the ibis hotel.

Irene
 I am living in Chai Wan and you ?
 I am going to off now. Will you come tomorrow? Chat again later.

Irene,
 It's North Point ?

leslie,
 great, I like people with confidence and am interested to know how can get me think of and miss you.
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 frankly speaking, i dunno know..
 but i think only if i am yr cup of tea, you may think of me..hehe^^

henry,
 yes and you?
 
 leslie,
 right, I will think of you all the time if you are my cup of tea...hehe.
 will you do the same if I'm your cup of tea...hehe?

henry,
 I will be here tomorrow...have a nice day!

Irene,
 I live in Chai Wan. I have to go now. I hope so being your cup of coffee, hehe. bye~~~~~

irene,
 a bit different.....umm....i may consider to make it warm first, and drink it afterwards~ ;-)

Leslie, Irene,
 Bye~~~~~~
 I like Leslie too.

leslie,
 what your warm is...physically or mentally?

henry,
 i will tell the real leslie one day when i see him~