呢類男人係咪唔容易�M﹕loyal family-oriented kind-hearted﹖
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sexy
<br>我已sent左email比你啦pls check
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mc
<br>會真係鐘意架因為我都係呢d人呀嘛
<br>不過仲要其他方面配合如﹕溝唔溝通到咁
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koi
<br>通常呢類人畀人的感覺事業心冇咁強
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mc
<br>如果係family-oriented對事業心又點會強烈呢
<br>有得必有失無可能兩全其美
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所以吾係好明你講o既family-oriented
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唔難找呀!我就係啦!yeah~~
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mc
<br>事業心唔強烈唔表示佢係唔勤力做野係咪
<br>只不過唔係ambitious個type
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<br>男人一個
<br>乜真係有咁多好男人﹖
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有,但真係唔多。
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妳有冇男朋友?係咪呢一類?
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我以前d男友係呢類
<br>我係鐘意呢類
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妳回覆都幾快wor.
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妳而家有冇男朋友?妳幾歲呀?
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koi
<br>吾知點解, 我見到d有仔萬事足的男人, 我就吾希望自己係�
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MC 係男定女?
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男人一個
<br>obviously i am single
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<br>mc
<br>人各有志﹐你知道自己個aim係咩咪得囉﹐一定有某個type既女仔可以match到你
<br>可能到你reach某個age你又有一番新見解 呢﹔其實就算family oriented既男人一樣可以兼顧事業不過呢類人一定結曬婚
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but i am still single...
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koi
<br>我意思係.."喂大家拍下擋, 今日做夜少少, 趕埋個project. 有個有仔萬事足o既, 說: 吾好意思呀xx,我要早你地少少走..番屋企睇下個仔呀"
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<br>其實我吾係反對重視家庭, 只不過講起呢樣, 諗起d吾好野
<br>其實你想你個男人係點呢?
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我一定會放家庭在第一位,如果唔係賺多多錢,冇家庭成員同我分享,都係冇意思的
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lfokh
<br>你工作又真係太忙
<br>如果你肯抽番d時間識下女仔
<br>有事業心+家庭觀念既男人
<br>一定大把女仔鐘意你
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<br>mc
<br>他日你有個家庭既時候可能你都會係咁﹐其他野都係身外物﹐有咩野重要得過屋企人﹖不過你同事應該take番自己既responsiblity唔防礙到其他人進度比較好。
<br>我公司結左婚既女士夠鐘放工都係急急腳走去買�R煮飯﹐我體諒到既﹐ 所以有時幫佢做埋d手尾
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<br>我想我個男人有strong既家庭觀念
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koi
<br>你結過婚嗎?
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loi u like the koi fish?
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男人一個
<br>that is my point
<br>四川d人依家一無所有流離失所
<br>就算幫佢地起番間屋又有咩用呢
<br>親人都死光光啦
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mc
<br>interesting question
<br>我無結過婚架
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<br>q_la
<br>no, koi is close to my chinese name only
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其實重視家庭都有幾種方式
<br>努力搵錢養家都係一種. 男人都係要有番事業, 以家庭來為事業發展不濟作借口的男人,我認為是懦夫行為
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<br>如果family-oriented的男人定義係9點出門, 晚上7點回家..日日如是...我就很難想像那會是一個怎樣的男人.
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koi, i c
<br>nice to meet u anyway:)
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mc
<br>no u have a wrong concept
<br>重家庭觀念唔等於9點出門, 晚上7點回家
<br>就算9點出門11點回家/經常要去b trip都可以好有家庭觀念
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q_la
<br>nice to meet you too
<br>you may share your thought here too
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koi replied @ 2008-05-23 10:24 pm
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<br>就算9點出門11點回家/經常要去b trip都可以好有家庭觀念
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<br>i m glad u think maturely
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Koi,你好似未講你幾歲
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mc
<br>其實重家庭觀念+事業心重既男士當然係perfect既伴侶
<br>只不過我著重family oriented而呢類男人多數唔係ambitious
<br>所以我話無十全其美﹐做人唔可以太貪心
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koi
<br>聽到你咁講都好d..可能"重視家庭"令我容易理解
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most of fds are both ambitious and F-O
<br>but they are nearly all married
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(i mean my guy fds)
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q_la
<br>其實女人知道你個心有自己﹐有break既時候打個電話關心一下﹐就可以放心比你去專心事業
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<br>男人一個
<br>我30出頭
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koi
<br>吾ambitious的男搭個ambitious的女人可能會好d
<br>兩個都吾ambitious..可能得個生仔湊仔..咁又一世
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<br>男人有所為, 有所不為, 養妻活兒, 只是基本要求
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咩係好男人?
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MC@SHE replied @ 2008-05-23 10:31 pm
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<br>koi
<br>聽到你咁講都好d..可能"重視家庭"令我容易理解
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<br>---sorry to confuse you 其實我接受唔到住家男人﹐男人應該做番男人做既野
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Q_La replied @ 2008-05-23 10:33 pm
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<br>most of fds are both ambitious and F-O
<br>but they are nearly all married
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<br>--- i know the truth. so sad.
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MC@SHE replied @ 2008-05-23 10:35 pm
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<br>koi
<br>吾ambitious的男搭個ambitious的女人可能會好d
<br>兩個都吾ambitious..可能得個生仔湊仔..
<br>男人有所為, 有所不為, 養妻活兒, 只是基本要求
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<br>---兩個都唔ambitious就平平淡淡過日子﹔有家庭既時候係要有某方面既取捨
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男人一個 replied @ 2008-05-23 10:37 pm
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<br>咩係好男人?
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<br>---- 每個人既definition都唔同
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呢個thread竟然吸引唔到女士入黎chat﹗
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dont be sad la :)
<br>i m sure there are men like that here and outside too
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q_la
<br>thank you
<br>it is somewhat fate
<br>i take it easy
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koi
<br>去"親子王國論壇", 開類似thread..會有很多女人覆你:p
<br>其實呢個年代, 我諗追求家庭生活為首要目標的人吾多
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<br>所以聽到d男人話佢以家庭行先...我都打個突
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親子王國論壇我都未去過..你去過﹖
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<br>其實呢個年代, 我諗追求家庭生活為首要目標的人吾多
<br>---- 仲有好多女性都一路追求緊喎
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<br>所以聽到d男人話佢以家庭行先...我都打個突
<br>---- 如果呢個年代無男人再以家庭行先我先會打個突﹗
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koi replied @ 2008-05-23 10:56 pm
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<br>其實呢個年代, 我諗追求家庭生活為首要目標的人吾多
<br>---- 仲有好多女性都一路追求緊喎
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<br>所以聽到d男人話佢以家庭行先...我都打個突
<br>---- 如果呢個年代無男人再以家庭行先我先會打個突﹗
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<br>koi
<br>..hmm..點講呢..政府統計的新婚對數, 同埋出生率都吾係咁支持呢個講
<br>法. 當然有好多女人想嫁個好男人係真. 由其依家女多男少..好男人更少
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mc
<br>統計只係一堆數子﹐有無想過真正原因呢
<br>現今女性有自己事業﹐�M唔到一個理想伴侶寧願唔結婚﹐因為呢個年代既人既包容性唔似得我地父母既年代﹐而hk既經濟都係表面風光﹐好多人收入唔足以養妻活兒。
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