男朋友對每一個女仔都咁好,是好是壞?



  • <p>如果男朋友對每一個女仔都咁好,其實可以點?<br /><br />有時我真係好呷醋,我覺得佢唔重視我。佢直認自己對每一個女性朋友都很好,咁我會諗,我呢個女朋友同果班女仔有咩分別呢?<br /><br />我唔想為左呢d野嗌交.... 佢對女仔好,所以佢身邊都有好多女仔,我覺得好無安全感。<br /><br />我知道晌呢個case,大家只能講個「信」字,大家又點睇?</p>



  • 有無同佢反映過先?



  • 是壞



  • 有同佢反映過,但佢覺得無問題... 我又唔想搞到自己好似好小氣咁。



  • 改變自己心態



  • guccifop replied @ 2008-05-07 6:12 pm
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    <br>有同佢反映過,但佢覺得無問題... 我又唔想搞到自己好似好小氣咁。
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    <br>是壞,
    <br>仲要係好壞



  • 同好壞冇關.
    <br>你信同按受咪繼續囉.



  • 我覺得好矛盾...
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    <br>定係鍾意佢,就要忍?





  • 忍唔到
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    <br>走



  • guccifop replied @ 2008-05-07 6:23 pm
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    <br>我覺得好矛盾...
    <br>,就要忍?
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    <br>忍得一時,忍吾到一世
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  • 有時對其他女仔太好,會令D女仔誤會你男友對佢地有意思,或令d女仔對你男友產生不受控制既遐想。
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    <br>我覺得你作爲女友,絕對有權表示不滿。
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    <br>男仔應該對女友以外既女仔維持基本禮貌,但唔應該對佢地過份好。
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  • rosy_shadow replied @ 2008-05-07 6:53 pm
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    <br>有時對其他女仔太好,會令D女仔誤會你男友對佢地有意思,或令d女仔對你男友產生不受控制既遐想。
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    <br>我覺得你作爲女友,絕對有權表示不滿。
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    <br>男仔應該對女友以外既女仔維持基本禮貌,但唔應該對佢地過份好。
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    <br>最慘佢bf就係想令d女仔產生不受控制既遐想



  • 講個信字
    <br>佢咁好
    <br>d女仔可能會鍾意�
    <br>睇如你信佢愛你
    <br>那也不是問題.......



  • 有時對其他女仔太好,會令D女仔誤會你男友對佢地有意思,或令d女仔對你男友產生不受控制既遐想。
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    <br>我覺得你作爲女友,絕對有權表示不滿。
    <br>
    <br>男仔應該對女友以外既女仔維持基本禮貌,但唔應該對佢地過份好。
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    <br>最慘佢bf就係想令d女仔產生不受控制既遐想
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    <br>我都覺得我男友係想令女仔鍾意佢,佢enjoy女仔鍾意佢果種感覺...可能同女仔鍾意男仔追一樣?不過作為一個女仔,一個我唔鍾意既男仔追我,我唔會覺得開心,但我覺得男仔諗法又唔同。
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    <br>我淨係想佢知道,佢出面有幾多女仔都好,我係最好果個。
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    <br>我亦認為佢係知道的,唔係佢都唔會同我拍拖。



  • 我淨係想佢知道,佢出面有幾多女仔都好,我係最好果個。
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    <br>男人係要死果一刻先知道
    <br>邊個女人係最好



  • 我淨係想佢知道,佢出面有幾多女仔都好,我係最好果個。
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    <br>男人係要死果一刻先知道
    <br>邊個女人係最好
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    <br>或者係...佢仲細,得24歲,都未玩夠。
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    <br>唉,以前就好想搵到個條件好的,好啦,而家總算遇到了,原來問題也不少。
    <br>有又煩,無又煩,想搵個好伴侶真的不容易。



  • 對我黎講, 不論係男仔女仔, 對個個異性都好唔係一件好事
    <br>只要講番轉頭, 做乜事要對人人都好呢? 如果係朋友, 咁有需要幫忙, 係應該既.
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    <br>但如果對異性朋友都攪到好似對男/女朋友咁好(有時跟本係會好過), 咁會唔會果個人已經唔知道咩叫朋友同情人既分別呢.
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    <br>以guccifop黎講, 本身佢bf係有目的地對人好, 咁真係好難原諒喎, 係唔係調番轉, guccifop都對個個男人好, 成日同d男性朋友傾電話, 單獨去街都無問題嗎?
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    <br>我情願我另一半係對全世界都衰, 只係對我一個好, 都好過對全世界都好好lor.
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  • if u are young gal, then u have time play with your bf
    <br>try with him more a few year,
    <br>but if u will be 30 ages, pls leave him la
    <br>coz u have not much time find more good guys
    <br>bad guys have much, coz I have many ladies fd has not bf
    <br>up to now they will be 40 ages more la
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  • 我情願我另一半係對全世界都衰, 只係對我一個好
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    <br>大力,我都認同你的講法。
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    <br>其實我find out我男朋友一樣野,就係佢有時真係突登對d女仔好,令d女仔誤會,甚至投懷送抱、鍾意佢。但佢同左我一齊之後,已經收儉好多,但佢d女性朋友仍不時找他,d女仔不求什麼,亦唔需要負咩責任。我男朋友係ABC,我明白可能這是基於文化上的不同,佢會話全部都只係普通朋友,但我有時都會唔開心......
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    <br>我好鍾意佢,唔想無左佢。
    <br>有時我會proud of有個條件好的男友;但相對地,「擔心」的成份也很重呢。



  • coz I have many ladies fd has not bf
    <br>up to now they will be 40 ages more la
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    <br>miss, 我今年23歲。但我都想穩穩定定搵個男朋友。雖然我可能仲算細個,但拍幾年拖,都30啦,講緊係順順利利會同呢個結婚喎,不過at this moment,我唔覺得男朋友係我結婚對像,probably係因為我覺得佢無諗過結婚,i mean晌佢既life入面暫時無呢個念頭。
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    <br>我都知道,年紀大了,更難找對像,所以我先俾咁大容忍我男朋友,因為難得我真係好鍾意佢,而且條件很好,很有事業心,做事很認真,我怕自己再遇唔到咁好條件的。佢對我又唔係唔好,只係衰在keep meeting girls,加上我地long distance,對彼此要有很大的信任先至維繫到。



  • Girl:
    <br>He is just taking advantage of being ABC in HK.
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    <br>HK people misconceived ABC as open and sexually casual. Like that bull sh it "Gwan Mui" personality.
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    <br>I know ABC, they are only friendly, but not promiscuous.
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    <br>In your boyfriend's case, he is just using a lame ABC excuse to flirt with girls. Guys act like this(all guys, not just ABC) simply keeps their eyes open.
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    <br>The guy you have is enjoying getting attention from girls. There is nothing you can do about it to make him stop.
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    <br>Like he can't make you stop going for a shopping fun.
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    <br>He is not a keeper, if you ask me.
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  • 我都知道,年紀大了,更難找對像,所以我先俾咁大容忍我男朋友,因為難得我真係好鍾意佢,而且條件很好,很有事業心,做事很認真,我怕自己再遇唔到咁好條件的。佢對我又唔係唔好,只係衰在keep meeting girls,加上我地long distance,對彼此要有很大的信任先至維繫到。
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    <br>我同你一樣........ 我同我bf都係long distance,不過好似衰過你,因為佢係鬼仔 =.= 有時我都好介意佢對身邊d女仔好好,不過,咁多女仔撲埋去,有邊個男仔唔開心..... 所以我都由佢,同佢傾過,佢就成日叫我dun worry, dun worry。就算佢對d女仔無野,我都勁擔心啦!真係你講個句,要對彼此要有很大的信任先至維繫到.... 真係超難keep囉


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