很想知道,男友背叛你一次,會再有第二次嗎? 我感覺到.......

傻佬,
 可以咁話, 不過都在我個post答左你~

kay,
 傻婆的確可以咁樣試下佢bf,但如果佢bf真係唔著緊,Й妳認為傻婆會就咁放棄咩
 
 by 傻佬 - 08/20/07 03:15
 
 傻佬,
 作為女人, 如果佢bf咁都唔著緊, 佢根本冇留底既理由.. 因為佢bf連做下戲都慳返! 佢bf唔著緊還好, 佢比較容易死心. 最慘係佢bf想留住一個對佢咁死心塌地既女人, 假意�晉\唔比佢走又唔係真心先最衰...
 
 by kay - 08/20/07 03:19

kay,
 睇到,thx.
 好明顯,傻婆冇人咁硬淨,係要真係要俾佢bf整到死心先肯走果隻,所以我先suggest佢去find out. 世事往住就係咁,愛你的人你不愛,你愛的人不愛你,唉!
 anyway, nice to chat with all of you here. i am late for my football match already, good nite.

傻佬 88..
 
 傻婆,
 我想幫你, 我了解你既心情...

可以咁講，d男人做完衰梗唔認咖，你唔信可以問下d姊妹！我都曾經中過招，諗住佢會改，比多次機會佢，但係仍然廔勸不改囉！

姊妹,
 大家見過咁多男人, 男人都係人, 試問人既性格生成係咁, 會改到嗎? 所謂一不離二. 有d野, 信下自己既直覺, 好準的.. 因為我地係女人~

Sor Lo,
 
 Well the thing is...I dont think I am able to sort things out. My mind told me to look at the evidences but my heart..my heart...my heart listens to him..everytime i ask him he say NO, he said he has NEVER betrayed me..
 
 i am trying to LEAVE him but perhaps the day wont come until he leaves me again....
 
 it's kinda sad isnt it?

Kay, totally agree what you said..
 
 but when someone you love still bother to lie to you...you just cant leave so easily ..

stephanie,
 be strong, rememer? if u think u can, u can! 你打定輸數你就注定會輸~ 你試下唔好咁依賴佢, 搵下自己既朋友, 多d自己私人時間.. 真架, 佢個心係向住你佢自然會緊張, 唔係既, 佢成日跟住佢都冇用, 佢個心都唔o係你度..

you girls think too much...
 sometime you have to learn how to "forgive" & "forget"...

oldman,
 男人做錯事當然想女人forget & forgive, 不過點解我地要咁縱容你地呢?

same as the girls...
 don't tell me girls won't do anything wrong to the guys...

其實有d野唔見當唔知會唔會好過d

我同意kay 講法，good呀！我想講我個case之後4個月，我識到現任男友，佢仲對我好好，而家都一齊3年啦！所以話踩過屎後，就知屎臭啦！近日我仲見返xbf，個樣勁殘，所以呢d會有報應咖！所以分手都未必錯得哂咖！

點解會困在苦戀當中呢？我覺得要先遇過一些難關，在固中才會明白、得到經驗，當你能解決到這些困難，你才能會遇到最好那個！

Thanks Kay....I used to depend on him a lot i thought he is THE ONE , he is not just my bf, but also my best frd and family...i didnt know that things will turn out like this... I have been learning to be more independent now and I meet with friends more often and i sometimes go on dates with other guys too.....but sigh i still cant let go of him....it reli takes time you know..
 
 
 Old man..We are no angel, no saint afterall...so I think women can forgive, but its just difficult to forget.

KarenB,
 恭喜你..
 
 stephanie,
 努力, 做得好.. 慢慢來

http://community.she.com/messageboard/sex/?action=view.topic&id=1923849&page=2
 
 I talked about my isse on a thread in "sex page"...aiya i feel so bad about what the guy/woman 自負人 said ... I'm so silly..
 
 I didnt blame it all on my boyfriend, I know we both are responsible to this relationship....

姊妹們,
 擦亮眼睛看清楚, 如果愛佢對佢好已經係妳生活的一部份, 就慢慢將佢從你生活裡面退出吧~ 比d信心自己去嘗試, 同自己講唔可以再比機會佢去hurt妳... 好嗎?

我都被人玩過....算吧,他只会陸續有來

散啦。如果無藕斷絲連o既話呢個人都算可以，浪子回頭金不換。藕斷絲連，無咩意思，早晚自己再傷心。

可能真係因為已經習慣有佢係我身邊......

o甘又點？前兩個月拍o左7年幾拖o既女朋友都離我而去，依家我都好唔習慣。無計~~~

lazyman
 可以講點解嘛??

傻婆
 人一出世就係一個人, 有咩叫"習慣有佢係我身邊......"
 到你死時都係一個!
 
 拍拖求開心, 做咩要torture自己?
 同佢一齊係開心既, 就拍個開心拖, 咩都唔好諗
 如果唔開心, 立定心腸, 斷咗喊吓, 好快無事

當一個人唔再愛你，歡笑、關懷、承諾都會隨愛而走。愛是雙方面的，缺少一方都會是悲劇。

我都想分享下我嘅經驗比大家, 兩年前, 我覺得男友有一段時間有d好唔平常嘅行為, 令我起了疑心. 之後有一次, 佢係我沖緊涼時同第二個女人傾電話, 我一行出嚟佢立即收線. 我都覺得有d怪, 之後佢行開咗, 而佢個電話有人send message比佢, 咁我一攞嚟睇, 發現個message係寫: 你收線之前都未kiss我! 我當然好嬲問佢究竟咩一回事, 佢當時不停否認, 之後攪咗一排…. 我勁hurt啦, 因為我同佢住, 果時同佢一齊都成6年, 好唔開心. 我返咗媽咪到住, 佢係果段時間都成日搵我, 我唔理佢, 晚晚都同朋友出去, 佢見唔到我, 日日早上都係我樓下等我, 佢知我一定唔會唔返工, 佢想車埋我返工同想我原諒佢. 幾個月內, 佢廋咗十幾磅, 成個落曬形.
 
 最後我當然唔捨得啦, 而家都同返佢一齊, 不過佢都好明白如果佢再有下一次, 我唔會再比機會佢. 佢而家都對我好好, 我覺得佢真係轉變咗.
 
 所以如果可以的話, 放自己一條生路, 果時我發現佢有第二個女人時, 都hurt 到想死, 好似世界未日咁, 仲覺得搬返屋企住會好唔慣, 原來唔係架, 屋企人永遠係最好, 同埋離開咗佢並唔係咩咁慘, 反而覺得好清靜, 心靈得到真正的休息, 仲好好訓tim!

過來人 ..我同女友拍拖4年幾時都有同樣o既經歷，佢都好似你o甘原諒o左我，我好感激，亦無再犯錯。之後我地十分恩愛地相處o左3年幾。但最近佢提出分手。無奈！講真我都好明白你男朋友當時o既心態、心情。