Seeking a boyfriend, serious one, 30 or above
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James,
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<br>I think I'm a nice lady. But still no one wants me...
<br>Most of ppls thought that I have bf already...they can't beileve I'm single
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jane,
<br>good to hear that your hard time has gone
<br>don't worry about me, i am not that sad actually
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hi jane jane n EYE:> How are you? It seems you guys here do sharing some good feeling n comment...may I join in?..i'm a 35 single guy.
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pp
<br>I am 32 and I am signle too... Don't worry as you cannot hurry in relationship issue. haha
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James,
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<br>I have my story..very long story..tell you later if we have chance to talk in the future
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Good evening everybody.
<br>It appears we all are single here in this thread?
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PP,
<br>U better settle down yr bad feeling first. Once you meet yr Miss right, you will have plans and energy to chase her!
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james,
<br>i do agree that men at early 30 need not start to worry that early.....but for my case i do have difficulies meeting new friends
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PP,
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<br>I agreed with Eye..I think you're not ready yet
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haha, welcome new comers.
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<br>Gee...we are having a single party right now.
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jane jane:> it is good to have a new start n you will have a happy ending, no worry.
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<br>EYE:> I guess we all would be attracted by charming people, just how can we find the way we prefer n make sure it is charm not just a flash only,don't u think?
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jane = jane jane..
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i wanna join ur crew, welcome me ?
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eye,
<br>well.....i get used to the stable life for so long and i have given up my social life.....just feel that it's a bit hard to start over again
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I have the same problem as you, pp.
<br>My office is full of ladies.
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mk,
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<br>Thanks! are you in MK look?
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Jane
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<br>Yes, looking forward to hear about your story.
<br>ppl don't believe I am single too.... but how unfortunately that it is.
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eye,
<br>please let me join your company, haha
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pp
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<br>I understand how hard for you in this situation. But it seems that you don't have much choice. But to open up yourself for new living again.
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Jo, welcome!
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<br>Well, FLASH... I needed it occasionally.
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James,
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<br>We have a same case! All of my friends are not worry about I'll be single in the future!! But I do!
<br>Acutally really big changed on me in this year..became more mature in career minded and relationship
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PP
<br>Haha, welcome to our office.
<br>The guys in my office usually have stable relationship.
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oh so i just goy my boarding pass to start the cruise
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jane:> I wish i would be that young to have such..MK look..I'm a 35 single guy..so should be a bit mature look somehow....mk is just an alias nothing special...n u?..what kind of look u r?..haha~~
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PP
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<br>I also used to the stable life and job. But I need something new and change on my job and my life...
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EYE:> u seem really need something to break through ur normal life...yes flash does give u some instant excitment but it would only last shortly.....
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jane,
<br>so what are you planning to do, can u share?
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Jane
<br>Yes, when I was in 29. I became more mature too. It is understandable that you think about all aspects around you over and over again. And I think that is a good preparation for the next stage of your life.
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<br>Um... I guess I know how you gals feel.. some of my female friends share their feeling to me lately when they are early 30s.
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SOmetimes I got the strong feeling to have a close boyfriend.
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<br>But, when I step forward, no one gives me a warm hug.
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<br>Thats life
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jane, what would that be then? a catalyst? some incantations? open sasami? to reclaim the lost passion that once squated u while ur a little gal?
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Eye
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<br>I like the term "That's life"! hahaa
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yahyah.
<br>Thats life, Thats fate!
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<br>We can blame all the stuff on life and fate, haha
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Single party, that's gorgeous!
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<br>To me, a thirty something guy/gal isn't necessarily to be more mature than a twenty something. Age is not a problem; what matters is if you two can communicate.
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<br>Excuse me if I'm off the track...
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MK,
<br>Lonely can make someone to do some abnormal things.
<br>That's why I need some changes in my daily life
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Eye
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<br>I think it is better to appreciate your life and fate rather than blame it... coz good thoughts turn out good results. :D
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Playwright
<br>Dont worry. You are on the right track (trap), haha
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eye,
<br>are u living alone?
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Yes, being lonely for too long will drive one mad...
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No matter what, think positive is very important. It's better to think about what you have and what can achieve, what you can get; instead of mourning for the misfortune happens around.
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Dear all,
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<br>Same as James' mentioned. I don't want to changed of my life. I was so happy and satisfy of my life. However, it's broke up end up now. I have thought for over a month. what I've done are all for my ex bf...I have to do nothing for myself, from now on, I have to do something for myself..actually do everything for my own self and my parents
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PP, nope
<br>I live with my family.
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<br>James, I do believe what you have said.
<br>Good results come from good thoughts.
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<br>Sigh, unfortunately, I do not always have good thoughts..so... !
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Mourning is a good term too.... haha
<br>many ppl like to mourning all the times. But never appreciate what they had already.
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jane,
<br>seems like you were not having a peacefull ending with your ex
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eye like what?
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EYE:> I think making some changes do help u to break through ur life u are having now. What kind og changing u have in mind?
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Really really long story....hard to explain in shortly, anyway, we have a peaacefully end up with my ex bf
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Jane,
<br>Cheeeeer up lady!
<br>All the people have their own history.
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<br>All exeprinence can help you prepare for the next relationship.
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<br>For me, I will try to be a SMARTER girlfriend in the future.
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eye,
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<br>Thanks! Actually I'm fine!
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<br>I become smart on relationship and self improvement
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james,
<br>Good point - appreciate what you have. You're already better than many others, aren't you?
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<br>jane jane,
<br>I can understand your feeling. A fresh breakup is bloody painful, I know. I've been there. But ensure you won't be sorrowful for too long. Stand up, and put the focus back to yourself. Live for yourself.
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Jane
<br>Seems that you are on the right track now... hope you can find the happiness by yourself.
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<br>Sometimes ppl just put too much hope on relationship. And mistaken that happiness should be come from the companion. However, it is all because of the ppl him/herself.