我只係鍾意事業形既男人, 做野做到冇時間陪我都冇所為, 如果男朋友成日有時間陪我, 我會唔鍾意咁既男人....
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有冇人有意見
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Now a day, most of the guy only want to have fun....no forus on his career
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其實重視工作唔代表工作第一, 女友/老婆在後bor
<br>一个有責任心嘅男人係想保障將來大家生活有問題咩?
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重視工作嘅男人,我同意你既講法...so我覺得男人將事業放係第一係冇問題...同埋做得佢地既女朋友,就要體諒佢地...
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我都做到...但佢地feeling gulity
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guilty becoz they r not just focusing on work lor, they might be busy socialising
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不過我覺得有d女仔既然做事業男既女朋友就要預左佢地冇時間陪...如果真係忍唔到,咁當初何必要一齊呢? 怪人,我都做到,但有d人就話你一定唔得果d!
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nice to see all.. may i join to chat now
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點解唔索性搵個男人包起妳就算?
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hi,mike :)
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mickey,
<br>are you a career minded woman?
<br>mal
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mickey,
<br>What do you mean put you in 2nd or 3rd place?
<br>You don't mind you bf see you once in a month?
<br>Talk to you maybe once a week?
<br>Always on the plane flying to some city?
<br>Talk to business partners more than talk to you?
<br>The only time you have together is dinner or in bed?
<br>How un-important you want to be to him?
<br>Yes I would say you are a bit strange?
<br>mal
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y u ask me that,mal?:)
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mickey,
<br>cause it think nowadays it is a bit tough to have quality time together, work is everywhere and all the time, there is really no working hours any more. A lot of people are working 24/7 if necessary.
<br>And with PRC and Macau' economy a lot of men are away most of the time.
<br>But that doesn't make it ok to position yourself 2nd or 3rd in his life!
<br>I think is sad to think like that!!!
<br>I'd admit all women like to see her men successful in his field but still quality time is needed between you and him!
<br>To share, to build, to communicate...
<br>If he place you 2nd or 3rd or 4th you might as well get ready he either has a lot of 2nd and 3rd or your relationship will not last.
<br>This is only my humble opinion.
<br>mal
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mickey,
<br>i asked you if you are career minded is because you might be the same kind of person to have come up with this kind of thinking.
<br>mal
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are you?
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mal,幾la!只不過我愛佢,我就要體諒佢既工作時間果d!
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怪人
<br>你真係好怪.如果你識上身就好la.我會揾番曬d ex gf 叫你上佢地身
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advice,i'm not怪人!but hope你可以搵到一個會體諒你既gf :)
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mickey,
<br>If he loves you he will make time!
<br>Not even Bill Gates and Steve Jobs need to work 24/7!
<br>So "I am busy" is the worst excuse you can give to your lover!
<br>Life is easier when you have this excuse "Honey, I am always busy, you know that"... very lame, very bad!
<br>Do you really want a relationship like that???
<br>Think about it!
<br>mal
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mal,謝謝你的意見!我會好好去choose男朋友:)
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Mickey,
<br>Good Good!
<br>Wish you will find someone who has a successful business, loves you and want to see you all the time o既 bf!
<br>Doesn't mean he can but at least he wants to see you and be with you!
<br>That's very different.
<br>Good luck!
<br>mal
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mal,其實你係唔係事業型男士(我直覺覺得你係..哈哈)!?
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mickey,
<br>Before, long time ago I remember my ex was complaining on the phone and my exact answer was: "You know what business I am in, I am always busy... what do you want me to do?" That kind of bull shxt... Come to think of it, i'd regret saying that... So from that time on I'd try my best.
<br>Me? I would like to think I am a 事業型, but how do you define one?
<br>By the money he earns, the conference call he made, the company he owns or the hour he put into work?
<br>You tell me!
<br>mal
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mal,the hour he put into work!:) 冇ar!見到你講自己d feeling出黎,我就覺得你一定有過呢d經歷...so就ask u la
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sweetie,
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<br>mind if i do wanna ask u a question?
<br>em... for a long time dun u ever question whether ur bf wld b really luv u or not?
<br>coz... mostly likely u cld hardly feel wat he's really thinkin' abt as they jus keen on hidin' it...
<br>won't u feel a suffer for da?
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well... that's why I responded to your topic.
<br>Then yes if you judge by the hour then I am a 事業型 but I try not to ignore my family, friends and girl friends.
<br>I think unless is you own business, working for someone or some company is just a job, of course you should give 110% into the work but
<br>a job is a job.
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sometimes as u know..
<br>he might got really no spare time for myself as well to think of personal stuff..
<br>da's always pity for a gal da's wit a career-mind ppl lei..
<br>gotta sacrifice a lot lei..
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<br>so i do feel u r really cool @some pt..
<br>i truly mean it..
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but gals always find 事業型men are more attractive!!
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of course Feli, I think successful men has this light around them! No only to girls but also to men!
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find them attractive.
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they must hv many gals around~
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that being said, you should not judge a person by how successful in wealth and fame. A lot of men are doing a lot of meaningful things but they might not be rich or famous...
<br>Cause there are a lot of successful but horrible men out there!
<br>mal
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not necessary! if they don't know you are successful and rich! then they won't come hang around!
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You are sooo rite, there are really a lot of successful but horrible men out there! I bumped into many!
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yeah sure they jus got kinda charm & never worried for gals..
<br>but u know.. for a gal to b his gf simply they often lack for kinda security indeed..
<br>em.. mayb if u'll sure know wat i'm talkin' abt if u hv da experience lei..
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so are you two 壞人Ryan and malcome are those successful men?
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nonono... sweetie...
<br>sure not... i won't say da for sure...
<br>still gotta a long way 2go & strive for & i jus cld hardly believe i cld compare wit de really smart genius da i'm really admire ...
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<br>and i'm not da old either 2say da....haha...
<br>i'm jus a bad guy.. hee..
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at least not for me...haha..
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No Feli,
<br>I am far from successful! Just drop by mickey's topic to express so thoughts.
<br>Why? Do you like successful men Feli?
<br>mal