男友要同我分手, 原因係俾唔到將來我

Sa
 講梗係咁講.

捱的定義唔同人有唔同想法!
 問清楚佢好喎?!

Sa，妳只係 21，可能仲係同屋企人住，最多平時食平 d ，唔花費係高消費野上面，根本就未感受到現實中"捱"既苦況。佢話唔想妳同佢捱，只係個藉口。

我覺得佢係覺得妳拖緊佢多 d 喎。唔知係乜，精神上或者唔知咩上，佢覺得妳係佢既負擔。佢而家想賣甩佢。但又唔想做出來比人有野講，所以講埋 d 聽起來佢好無奈既藉口。

sa
 仲有你得21,同幾多個男人交過手?

我都幾同意coda的想法!

nokiss，我係男人我梗係明 d 男人既諗法喇 ;-)

我會等！我會同佢好朋友講我仲好愛佢，我唔會放棄！我唔知會等到幾時，就正如佢所講，佢比唔到將來我一樣！係我自己一個人既決定，無人可以阻止！
 
 我係傻，但我咁去愛！

9527...你害死版主啊.....
 
 a 21 year old wait for a 27 year old??? wait for what? wait for him to grow up and be more mature?? hes already 27.. jeez

等咩野？等到我愛佢愛到盡之後，走！不過係由我自己決定！佢理得我呀！

27 doesn't mean to be mature
 
 no set rule.
 people act differently in term of pressure or inexperience
 
 easiest way with such pressure, they simply turn to the worst and get to the end ( game over)
 
 sa... u give him sometimes and support him by sms him, email or mail him

9527... so u would wait for someone u love(even if he doenst love you) until ur in your 70's??? until you die???? and then just wait alone while he goes out with another woman, gets married, and have children and grandchildren????
 清醒地啦
 
 ninjatoo - exactly, hes already 27 and still not mature enough... how many years do u think it will take for him to grow up? 3? 5?
 sa is already not eating and not going to work.. how long can she keep this up while waiting for him? so is she not gonna eat or go to work for the next 3-5 years?
 
 u said "give him sometimes".. i hope u mean like 1-2 more days.. otherwise this is just a waste of time and youth

eh....其實係唔係等一世，邊個知？亦都無人可以保證到！
 
 我淨係知，如果我e家愛佢，我就唔會放棄，我唔會好似佢咁無gusssssssss！

not every girl is as brave as you i guess :p
 
 besides, if he doesnt love her any more.. and she 唔放棄, continue to call him and send him sms... wouldnt that just make her seem so much cheaper? like "if this guy doesnt want her, no one else will want her" that feel
 
 can she handle this feeling?~ seeing how she's very undecisive and "冇食野2日, 工都冇返".. i dont think she can handle any more of this pressure.. so i think shes much better just forget about him and move on
 
 i know you are very gutsy and offered your advice.. but her personality is too much different from yours.. thats why i dont think waiting and keep chasing is the best decision for her

catdream

dear sa...我男友都用過呢個原因,仲要同你男友係一模一樣,佢講分手時,我又哭又求...佢講o黎講去都係話愛我,但知佢俾唔到幸福...之後佢又話唔捨得我,我
 o地好返..但唔知咩原因...我覺得佢唔同o左..依家我們己有幾天冇搵大家了..頭幾日佢有sms..話掛住我,叫我起身等..
 我都唔想接受佢鐘意o左其它人(even我唔知佢有冇),但好多sis都講得o岩,真係愛的話就應該唔會放棄．．．所以我都開始知道咩一回事,我依家都好掛住佢.但我唔想佢心軟而又哄返我..所以我冇主動搵佢..依家我諗等大家冷靜下!!
 sa 你努力啦..我知道好難受..那次我在街上哭得成個癲婆咁...你先要平靜自己你唔先,話俾你男友知道你唔介意同佢去面對一切唔好o野,如果係相愛咩都可以解決!我支持你呀...

sa你要好好take care自己..!!

我有同佢講過, 我唔介意, 我地既將來係大家一齊去建立, 我好愛佢, 係佢支撐我每日既生活, 開心定唔開心佢都係我身邊, 我先感覺到幸福, 我好需要佢, 佢出面冇其他女人,我肯定, 我只係想佢返黎我身邊, 咩都可以解決到

你什麼都以你男友為中心.
 有時會令果個男人覺得好累同好驚喎.

你什麼都以你男友為中心.
 有時會令果個男人覺得好累同好驚喎.
 
 by nokiss - 07/05/07 10:51
 
 同意.
 
 版主, 我都認為下下都以男朋友為重心, 唔太好.
 
 一來, 男人真係會覺得累.
 二來,.... 0者係, 攪到好似你依家咁, 真係會崩潰的.

太依賴喇.... 應該係適合0既時候學習獨立.

可能你年紀仲細.
 等你大D,經歷多D,你就知人是要靠自己的

年紀輕輕真係好~~~
 如果無負擔0既緊加好~~~
 
 可以愛得死去活來, 轟轟烈烈....
 
 但人大左, 就有好野煩, 好多野諗~~~ 唉~

fannysum replied 13 mins ago :
 
 版主, 我都認為下下都以男朋友為重心, 唔太好.
 
 太依賴喇.... 應該係適合0既時候學習獨立.
 
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 自己都未結婚白頭到老﹐邊有資格話人以男友或老公為中心係錯

自己都未結婚白頭到老﹐邊有資格話人以男友或老公為中心係錯
 
 
 
 by 錯 - 07/05/07 11:17
 
 你邊隻眼見到我講個"錯"字呀~?

我只係話唔太好, 無話到佢一定係錯定0岩.
 
 只係想話比版主知, 合適0既時候要做返合適0既野.
 
 唔該你唔好斷章取義.

樓上你煩唔煩d呀

點解你可以咁肯定佢無第二個呢?

烏托邦
 我都想問阿"Sa"同一條問題.

F字頭成日都扮家姐自己講就得人地講就唔得﹐講一句駁足你十句添

nokiss replied 37 mins ago :
 
 可能你年紀仲細.
 等你大D,經歷多D,你就知人是要靠自己的
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 我都認同, 你而家仲可以覺得會同佢捱, 當你再大 d 又唔會咁諗, 有情飲水飽只會適合年紀較細, 都唔知咩叫做捱既女仔, 仲有, 一段感情唔係話斬就斬, 一定有某 d 推動力先可以去做, 至於係咩, 就要你自已回想下先知, 女人既直覺好小錯, 不過女人好多時都將直覺變為錯覺, 因為希望自己既直覺唔係真, 所以情願完全信任男人既美麗謊言.

烏托邦
 我都同意你的講法.
 
 好似'無�鼳\唔得'呢D說話,過多幾年可能佢會講�鬫n多次.

nokiss
 我地既想法都好似喎^^

其實呢個世界冇話冇�鷖鉽茩爣o��.
 睇你睇唔睇得開囉.

sa
 未問清楚點解不必為他人所說的如果而落結論
 世事難料無人知道因咩原因會令你男友有呢種決定
 就算結果並非你所想的﹐至少你堅持﹐嘗試﹐努力過﹐今生無悔
 總好過在不知內情下做左個可能令你後悔一生的決定
 無論點都好我地會支持你的決定﹐加油