我好掛住我男朋友

男友工作好忙，呢排再忙d， 佢應承左同我去旅行，但都未confirm到佢係咪去得， 我要自己好乖錦study好所有旅行既野，之後仲要唔知去唔去得成， 攪到去旅行既動力都開始減退．．．我明既，佢忙，唔應該煩佢。 早幾日佢忙完佢d野攪到４點先返到屋企訓，第二日仲要返工， 放左工出離見面，佢個樣攰到死錦，食飽飯就返屋企，我明既，佢忙，唔應該煩佢。 如果成日都係錦我怕我地會生梳，我講左咁多係想請教各位，特別係好忙既男人， 你地想你地專心做野既同時，女友為你做d乜野會令你地記得佢，會感到溫暖呢?

sms to convey your regards or love messages (not asking questions). One or two is enough daily/every second day.
 
 2. (sometimes) morning call to wake me up if you can.
 
 3. night call before sleep every day. if you sleep earlier, call me before you sleep.
 
 4. "sometimes" come to my working place to have lunch/dinner with me, or if I am really too busy, just bring some of my favourite food for me to eat with you.
 
 5. send me pic with your sweet smile, so that i can save it in my phone as wallpaper. I smile in my heart every time I pick up the phone and see your sweety pic.
 
 6. Buy some clothings/tie (which I like) for me to wear when working. I can always feel the clothing during work and remember you (optionl).
 
 7. buy me wallet so that every time I take out the wallet, I remember you (optional).
 
 8. buy me a watch so that every time I look at the watch for the time, I remember you (optional).
 
 You do not need to do all of the above, two or more are enough. I will be disolved by your passion and your love. I will try to take some time out to be with you if I can, no matter how busy I am. I work so hard for OUR future and to give you a better life.

男
 如果我想追一個好忙既男仔,我可以點做先令佢對我有好感

Give him a break !

L E A V E M E A L O N E ! ! !

Stay away!!

迷茫
 
 如果我想追一個好忙既男仔,我可以點做先令佢對我有好感
 
 你地係咪同事先
 如果唔係都幾難追到

我同佢唔係同事,係一個朋友既朋友,我同日日都會傾電話,但如果我約佢出黎既話佢多數話好忙唔出,唉...我都唔知點好

如果我約佢出黎既話佢多數話好忙唔出,
 
 by 迷茫 - 05/07/07 14:47
 
 Frankly, I don't think he has a feeling toward you, he just treats you as friends.

最好乜都唔好做
 最多只係send 個SMS / email 俾�
 仲要唔好 send 咁多、同埋唔好問問題

I miss "him" too.
 I used to be very much attached to him, both emotionally and physically. i always asked to see him, and always did sweet and caring things for him, thought that he'd appreciate and feel the sweetness too.
 Not that he didn't feel the sweetness, but he just found all those things I did a lot of pressure for him.
 He finally asked me to leave him. He didn't like the pressure.
 He's always so busy about work. All he has in his mind is work and career and wealth for future.
 In the past few months he had finally gained a lot of his personal space for his own things. and he could also concentrate on his work without having me to bother him and keep telling him how much I love him.
 Instead, that surprisingly made a positive effect. He finally missed me so much. he now realized that he really loves me and cannot survive without me.
 So my advice is, if you love your guy, give him space. If he loves you back, he will come for you, in the end no matter what. Sometimes when you love a person (or a person is loving you), you don't need to say it. Love lives inside our heart, not outside.

上星期六, 老公由早就做野, 到12:30am才回到家, 我那一個星期六真係好悶, 個個都唔得閒陪我, 咁我就做下自己想做的事, 上下網, 睇下書, 聽下歌. 落街買一d本來佢應承陪我一切買的東西(因為佢話重喎), 狗糧(很多我估有成廿幾磅一包), 厠紙兩大條; 因為我知佢一定會好攰, 唔想真係樣樣野佢做曬. 咁做左好多野, 時間就咁過啦. 買定d食物俾佢, 如果佢返到家餓都有得食.
 
 自己叫自己千其唔好立即同佢講好悶, 因為咁樣就係壓力啦. 就算同佢講, 都要係係佢無事好relax的時候講, 佢一返到家, 我就問佢是否很累, 佢話唔係, 就睇佢想點, 同佢傾下笑下, 但係我一向都唔會主動找佢, 因為咁係好辛苦的.
 
 我估係佢free time同佢肯陪你的moment, 你可以sweet一點向他表逹, 咁就好好了.

我衰左啦
 
 頭先我同佢一齊食晚飯
 食完之後佢話馬上要返家訓覺
 我嬲左佢唔聽佢電話
 
 不過我嬲佢其實仲有其他內情
 但總覺得一忍唔住發左脾氣
 好似又再另呢段感情既傷害增加左
 
 個心好矛盾

我男朋友都好忙, 我地仲要係岩岩開始左無耐...我做過既野同"男"所講既都差唔多, 如果你真係鍾意佢既應該多d係佢方面到諗, 最緊要唔好成日check住佢, 每日我都會morning call佢(其實佢有較時間起身返工, 但我會想佢每日第一把聽到既就係我把聲), 到中午同放工會send個sms比佢. 有時佢無假放, 我老遠都會出去搵佢食個lunch, 又或者買d小禮物...佢忙到連我生日同情人節都無慶祝(生日只係食左一餐dinner), 但佢會知到你對佢好....其實見少d咪掛多d law....

我老公今晚又會做到好夜. 我同老公係大學同學, 拍左拖十年才結婚, 結左婚一年. 但係老公都好"痴"我, 好sweet, 可能大家真係太忙了, 所以樣樣消閉活動都特別有新意, 特別sweet. 對老公/男友sweet, 係唔需要時常的(當然因人而異啦, 有人鍾意柔情似水, 有人鍾意爽直爽朗, 你可以test下, 多d留意伴侶的表現, 表情) 有時你覺得sweet, 但係男人好能覺得無聊, 多餘, 只要唔過量, 間唔時sweet下, 會有趣味一點. 好多時拍左拖耐左, 大家做一d習慣性的事/活動, 大家都因為係習慣而已, 如果身邊有友人/同事提起, 而佢又想起女友/老婆, 當然佢會好滿足, 係一瞬間, 佢會好自豪, 有心肝的, 那一晚佢會對你溫柔一點.
 用自己來說, 我老公真係十分之體貼, 係因為講開咁講, 人才會計分咁想起佢真係好好喎. 但係平日又會好少咁諗, 所以會發佢脾氣, 會嬲佢. 男人都係一樣, 都係人.
 
 Purbee 講的好值得參考, 你越想做一起事去please佢, 並不一定有回報, 亦有可能係反效果. 男人想女人聽佢地吹水, 其實女人一笑, 男人好多壓力都會無左啦.