SL真係難搵. 見親都唔合適! 大家有冇同感?
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very agree
<br>first time meet just ask for sex
<br>if no sex then bye
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hi,
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<br>you are male or female?
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<br>of course it is not easy to find a secret lover, be patient and give more time!
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我係男.
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SL doesn't focus on sex....
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<br>sharing and caring is more important!
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SLC9
<br>First time ask for sex is SP, not SL !!
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你地多唔多經驗呀?
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jacky36
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<br>I take much time
<br>but both unhappy more
<br>make me no mood find again
<br>how about you
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係嫁
<br>我arm人地 人地又唔arm我
<br>要不然係掉番轉
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<br>慘
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SL-c9,
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<br>add my MSN for chat more ?
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<br>[email protected]
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duplicity
<br>我都明.你拺人.人拺你.
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SL-c9
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<br>just keep a normal heart, be friend and chat first, no much expectation
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it doesn't matter if you 2 go ML at the first date, i think
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<br>more important is, do have more communication before everything
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lady
<br>somehow it is not easy to communicate with the lady.
<br>they simply don't give the men straight answers.
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lady,
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<br>agree with you
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bemysl,
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<br>that's yr problem, not the lady's problem!
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bemysl, umm, of coz lady need to protect themselves, be patience is very important
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jack
<br>may be that's my problem, but i suppose communicate is a two-side thing.
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lady
<br>honestly i am too patience to wait. most of the time the ladies are not patience.
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bemysl, sometimes woman will hesitate before starting a new relationship, she will think if u r the right one for her.... try to talk MORE, and give her some confidence, it will help.
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<br>and if that lady is not patience enough, then you two may not be match lor
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bemysl,
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<br>i don't know your case, should not comment!
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<br>lady,
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<br>you are right! lady always want to know more about the man, chat and understand more before opening herself, i agree with it and we should put our time and effort to gain the trust!
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lady
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<br>thank you for your advice. however i have to say some women are not well in expressing themselves. in particular in secret relationship we need to talk more and agree the disagrees.
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thank you Jack
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bemysl,
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<br>sure some people are not good at expressing themselves, you cannot expect the lady will tell you everything without any condition.
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<br>please try to understand her mind more, use your method to know her, lead her to express her feeling to you, then you can catch her!!
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jack, yes totally, to me, trust is very important, you dont have to tell me all about you, but you shouldn't lie to me, thats very basic respect in every relationship especially SL one.
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<br>bemysl, maybe they are not sure if they want one SL relationship yet? you better find one experienced partner
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Jack
<br>In fact I am not trying to "catch" them. Just want to be friend at the beginning. Whatever may happen is next.
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lady
<br>experienced? i don't think i can ask for one here.
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bemysl, i mean those who have SL before....
<br>and yet its good to start everything with friendship
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lady
<br>do you want to look for one?
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lady,
<br>of course "being honest" is important, is no reason to "lie" in a secret relationship. SL always require more and more understanding.
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<br>yup, we don't have to tell each other everything about us, the feeling, sharing and caring of each other is more important
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bemysl, yes or no, for now I just look for chats here.
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<br>jack, you have no idea, too much stories been read here, so much liars and cheaters, I don't understand why people have to lie, why dont we just open our hearts and be truth to each other?? I kind of lose confidence to men here.
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hard? no
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lady
<br>understood. in case you want to start from friendship, i can be reached at [email protected]
<br>chat here, in private, in person are all fine to me.
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lady,
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<br>understood what you mean and what you feel now. i am just sharing here only, time to go, have a nice day!
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<br>but sure there are still some good people here!!
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bemysl, sure thanks, I am comfortable to chat here for now, are you at work?
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<br>jack, me too, just sharing, not intended to looking for anyone, good day to you too.
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lady
<br>i am home now. ready to out for lunch
<br>hope you all can come back and chat.
<br>how about tonight we chat again?
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sure, I am about to go out to lunch too, see you tonight
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bemysl replied @ 2009-06-27 12:42 pm
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<br>duplicity
<br>我都明.你拺人.人拺你.
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<br>揾sl好難, 揾到但大家又唔係成日揾對方喎.
<br>不如男sl講下要求女sl點.
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bemysl replied @ 2009-06-27 12:50 pm
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<br>lady
<br>somehow it is not easy to communicate with the lady.
<br>they simply don't give the men straight answers.
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<br>What straight answers?
<br>Do you mean answers on "Can I kiss you?", something like that?
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what is the definition of SL?
<br>no sex but just care and ...?
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Hi all,
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<br>may i come in and join?
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哈佬
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good evening, anyone here for a chat?
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hello lady.
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hi too lady!!
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<br>what are u doing n ow?
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<br>what do u want to chat?
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hi Y and daddy, we can chat here if you don't mind, thank you
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lady,
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<br>sure 可以....我都唔係一個一開始留msn嘅人
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Y, sorry for the late, are you still here?
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Hi