我同老公分房訓幾年，完全無左夫妻生活，平時佢又唔痴家，但又幾鍚我，諗緊離唔離婚，好矛盾

ladymarmalade

半唐番，　開口埋口fxxk fxxk fxxk , 但又話香港粗口好 un耳

ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-12 8:07 pm
 
 唔會承認大家情侶關係，　只會叫對方做Friends or fxxkmates, 當然乙水你上床拍淫照而咩sweetheart darling都講得出口啦，　但其實大家都知道究竟發生緊咩事囉
 
 ===============================================
 
 呢D關係,我真係接受唔到
 好荒淫

ladymarmalade

咁你就要做個從一而忠的好男人了，　ｄ衰野諗都唔好諗呀

ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-12 8:07 pm
 
 唔會承認大家情侶關係，　只會叫對方做Friends or fxxkmates, 當然乙水你上床拍淫照而咩sweetheart darling都講得出口啦，　但其實大家都知道究竟發生緊咩事囉
 
 ===============================================
 
 呢D關係,我真係接受唔到
 
 ________________
 
 batman dont pretend la!!
 好荒淫

everyone.. is time to stand and dance.. dj benefit here..
 
 first song.. 'let me be your fantasy'..

second song.. 'dj sammy's heaven'

8899，
 
 係呀，３４歲都唔細，其實係好唔捨得佢，因為咁多年應情，但唔想成世都係咁囉．
 同佢一齊搞到我連自信心都無埋．

ladymarmalade，
 
 你講既關係我好接受唔到囉，我覺得做愛呢樣野係相愛既人至做得

third song.. ' hafia wehbe - arabic'

fourth song.. '印度F4 (字幕版)'

fifth song.. 'Missy Elliot - Work It'

Herby replied @ 2008-12-12 8:37 pm
 
 8899，
 
 係呀，３４歲都唔細，其實係好唔捨得佢，因為咁多年應情，但唔想成世都係咁囉．
 同佢一齊搞到我連自信心都無埋．
 
 仲以為自己"豆皮mu雞",老公唔想掂自己吖~~~~哈哈哈
 
 完全明白妳既感受^^

sixth song.. 'sailor moon - listen to your heart'

Herby replied @ 2008-12-12 8:38 pm
 
 ladymarmalade，
 
 你講既關係我好接受唔到囉，我覺得做愛呢樣野係相愛既人至做得
 
 靈慾一至~~~~~~~~好!!!

8899，
 
 可能我老喇，唔正卦，哈
 你咁明白既？試過咁既情形？

8899，
 
 同意你，靈欲一致好重要，同心愛既人做，感情至可以去到更高既層次

Herby replied @ 2008-12-12 9:01 pm
 
 8899，
 
 可能我老喇，唔正卦，哈
 你咁明白既？試過咁既情形？
 
 我係30+靚佬老婆又正
 茅呢d情况~~~~~~~哈哈
 我仲大過妳^^

冇話即刻叫你搵個人撲野，只係話俾你聽現實世界真係有ｄ咁既人存在
 
 一係你就繼續等你老公會對返你好ｄ，但要係全馴服，不可以有半點怨言，要開開心心咁做個好老婆
 
 一係你果斷ｄ結束呢一段打擊你自信心既關係，追求你想要既野
 
 每一個選擇都有ｒｉｓｋ，　你要自己承擔
 
 離婚前搵ｓｌ，　ｓｐ係最省時有效益最保障自己既做法，但同樣都有ｒｉｓｋ，　你唔細，　冇可能再諗住用時間換取空間既戰略
 
 時間會改變你的思想，　我經歷左一ｄ野，　覺得一段美滿既愛情婚姻係由上天賞賜，　人既力量真係好少，　或者呢段不太完美既婚姻就是你的宿命，沒法改變．　只好改變自己心境去安然接受
 
 命裡有時終需有．．．．

8899，
 
 咁我不如叫你靚佬啦，哈
 好幸福呀，有個靚老婆，咁一段正常婚姻關係應該都唔似我咁架啦
 但係靚唔靚都好，如果愛佢，佢係全世界最靚既

ladymarmalade，
 
 咁我都相信有人係會咁做，每個人都有自己既選擇
 無架啦，我同佢傾過好多次，次次都推我話下次先啦，又話咩無時間，心情唔好等等，心都灰曬
 如果我要一段咁既婚姻，我情願冒險離婚，就算一個人都無所謂，反正我呢家同一個人生活都無乜分別

ladymarmalade

介紹你睇 American Beauty 美麗有罪

Herby replied @ 2008-12-12 9:12 pm
 
 8899，
 
 咁我不如叫你靚佬啦，哈
 好幸福呀，有個靚老婆，咁一段正常婚姻關係應該都唔似我咁架啦
 但係靚唔靚都好，如果愛佢，佢係全世界最靚既
 
 其實妳有咩决定唔梗要吖
 最梗要係"傷害性"最低
 退1步既関係(分開)未必唔好
 可能有更大既溝通空間(因為變左朋友)

ladymarmalade，
 
 American Beauty 以前睇過，但唔記得講乜，剩係記得幾好睇，有機會都會睇多一次

ladymarmalade

唔知道你外表點啦，　但我好希望你離開佢之後，　要脫胎換骨重新做人，　做一個無敵索女，媾死仔，　談戀愛係女人天生最大既權利和享受
 
 改變自己外表（減肥，扮靚買新衫）絕對係可以趕走哂ｄ衰運，就算媾唔媾到仔，都俾自己感受到自己係一個新造的人，　新速忘記以前唔開心既野
 
 得閒黎clubbing thread搵我啦

8899，
 
 我都覺得兩個人如果有問題，補救唔到既話分開未必一件壞事，我仲係好愛佢，但係變左另一種感情，希望分開既話會令到大家舒服ｄ

ladymarmalade，
 
 我外表應該都唔太差卦，哈，但做一個無敵索女就炆ｄ
 談戀愛係女人天生最大既權利和享受＜＜呢句話好同意，我希望重新建立自信
 咁我都希望你越黎越索啦

seventh song.. 'Beautiful Day'

eighth song.. 'Korean dance music video : Bin'

ninth song.. 'In da club - 50 cent'

ladymarmalade

Please post some quality Classical Music Clips to my hunny Federic's thread. He likes it !!!!
 
 I'm waiting to see KISSIN with him this coming March

施主..既然妳心中自有答案又何必自作煩惱呢..
 
 好好用愛去軟化妳老公，佢愈是玩佢對佢愈是要好..
 
 令他感受到妳對佢的支持同信任...令他回頭是岸...

=)
 
 will do so after mid-nite when the night is more lonely..

stay tone.. dinner sin..

honeyp

Herby,
 你既忍耐力真係好高, 不過忍著不是好事, 好辛苦,
 好似我現在忍著扮唔知我老公有sl, 真係好辛苦...
 不過我老公無同我分開訓, 仲對我好好, 咁至係令我
 放棄唔到佢既原因...

honeyp

真的可以嗎? 男人會回頭是岸嗎?
 我真的很希望這天出現

honeyp

HAITB replied @ 2008-12-12 9:49 pm
 
 施主..既然妳心中自有答案又何必自作煩惱呢..
 
 好好用愛去軟化妳老公，佢愈是玩佢對佢愈是要好..
 
 令他感受到妳對佢的支持同信任...令他回頭是岸...
 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
 
 面對我老公現在有sl, 唯有用這個辦法,
 但你估要用幾多時間呢??

其實我想問點解版主會同老公分房訓既?

唯有係咁做嫁乍..一係坦坦白白講清楚分居還自己一個自由
 
 一係就去愛妳的老公...就算知佢唔改..最少自己心態想都好過d..
 
 一味去唸點對老公報仇, 點憎佢...但妳唔係同佢分開但日日又要對住
 
 最終辛苦都係自己......做人最緊要係快樂..好多野一唸之差..
 
 一係愛..一係放手..唔好以憎恨, 報仇黎睇呢d事..

應該可以立即離婚.
 
 因為佢地已經分房一段時間啦

版主 :
 
 我同妳情況都幾似,又係分房訓,我同個仔訓的,起碼4,5年都冇搞了,但佢對我又幾好的,出糧扣曬d開支後都比曬我咁滯,一星期放一日假,有時family day出街玩,有時我話要同d fd出街,佢都會幫我看住個仔,佢一定冇女人=.=,晚晚放工都返屋企,除左冇搞野外,佢係一個完全顧家和負責任的男人,我發覺佢好似當左我係妹咁,有時摸我個頭,攬下,撘下膊頭鍚下都會既,係唔會搞埋一齊囉.可能我細佢8年掛.
 
 但係我個樣都唔係差,湊個仔返學放學,d同學仔和老師都誤會左我係佢家姐,行出黎個個都話我唔似呢年個紀,似23,4

ladymarmalade

Totally idealistic to wait for his repentance
 
 When he realizes repentance is salvation, it too late.
 She's changed. She's no long the timid one who used to cry him over a river.
 U can never step into the same river twice.
 
 Dun be deceived by the male chauvinist fairtales!!!
 
 
 卻知道緣來緣盡在你與我之間愛已有著裂縫
 感覺不再相同熱愛今天已是凍
 
 Hey lady
 You lady
 Cursin' at your life
 You're a discontented mother
 And a regimented wife
 I've no doubt you dream about
 The things you never do
 But I wish someone had a talked to me
 Like I wanna talk to you
 
 Ooh, I've been to Georgia and California and
 Anywhere I could run
 Took the hand of a preacher man and we
 Made love in the sun
 But I ran out of places and friendly faces
 Because I had to be free
 I've been to paradise
 But I've never been to me
 
 Please lady, please lady
 Don't just walk away
 Cause I have this need to tell you
 Why I'm all alone today
 I can see so much of me still living in your eyes
 Won't you share a part?
 Of a weary heart
 That has lived a million lives?
 
 Ooh, I've been to Nice and the isle of Greece
 While I sipped champagne on a yacht
 I moved like Harlow in Monte Carlo
 And showed 'em what I've got
 I've been undressed by kings
 And I've seen some things that a woman ain't s'posed to see
 I've been to paradise
 But I've never been to me
 
 (narrated)
 Hey, you know what paradise is?
 It's a lie
 A fantasy we created about people and places
 As we like them to be
 But you know what truth is?
 It's that little baby you're holding
 And it's that man you fought with this morning
 The same one you are gonna make love to tonight
 That's truth
 That's love
 
 Sometimes I've been to crying for unborn children
 That might have made me complete
 But I, I took the sweet life
 I never knew I'd be bitter from the sweet
 I spent my life exploring
 The subtle whoring
 That costs too much to be free
 Hey lady, I've been to paradise
 But I've never been to me, ooh
 
 (I've been to paradise)
 Never been to me
 (I've been to paradise)
 Never been to me

ladymarmalade

???
 
 How old r u then ? How can u keep that young ? teach me !!!
 
 R u fine with the no sex marriage ? do u really realise the reason leading to that ? SEX is very crucial to maintain a relationship, tho it's not the sole support

ladymarmalade : 我28,我老公36,個仔10歲都黎喇 n.n
 
 我冇特別keep啊,仲成日好夜訓,晚晚冇3,4點都唔訓 =.=" ,skin care都唔用(因為懶)平時洗臉係用水咋,飲食方面我都係唔理的,鐘意食乜就食乜,仲成日鐘意食辣野,但喉嚨痛就多過爆瘡,爆既咪幾粒咁,咪又由佢......
 
 我係屋企雖然夜訓,但就冇出夜街,冇夜生活的,出街撘埋車返屋企頂盡最夜都係2點多,平時都冇飲酒,食煙......唔知關唔關事呢?

咁平時冇搞開野既,就唔會諗的,所以都慣左.
 
 有時佢攬攬鍚鍚時,會摸,但佢又唔會冇套就搞,因為驚瀨野,佢又唔會買定套,我又唔會=.=",咁佢次次摸到慶恰恰時就碌去廁所洗臉......
 其實佢唔搞仲好,咁耐冇搞,反正我都唔係咁想,得閒係度玩電腦,睇書仲好......=.=
 
 不過我都同意妳講,搵sp/sl呢樣野,就算冇諗住離婚,但如果同自己另一半冇性生活既/有問題但又唔想離婚/想搵拍拖feel,咁呢d人就最岩,因為佢地就算點玩都知自己做梗乜,大前提係唔會影響自己正常生活,家庭

ladymarmalade

Sex must not be only penetrative, coz not all women can get orgasm thru normal copulation . Every little sensational kiss and caress can be equivalent to normal sex acts. U know many men feel very perplexed for their sex life with wife. Sex life is deemed a routine duty to prove their loyalty and wholeheartedlness to marriage. Such a low quality sex is totally jeopadizing the relationship. Better none than done !!!!

我明妳講什麼既...
 
 妳d英文好好...=.=
 
 祝妳戒煙成功

ladymarmalade

I'M THE SEX EXPERT HERE !!!!

mike ~~~ 65533773
 msn : [email protected]

i ll be a practicing consultant..

ladymarmalade

I'M THE DANCING QUEEN IN LKF
 I'M THE SEX QUEEN IN SHE.COM
 
 YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO