How are you?
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worm
<br>is it good enough if i still want him at this moment?
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<br>who knows what will happen tmr.
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gal thought that she is in love with someone special, it would be just an illusion.
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<br>tmr, when you wake up, the sky is not falling because of him. The earth is still running.
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kate,
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<br>I don know your story, but I hope that he would want you as much as you do.
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he do want me, i am sure about that.
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Kate, I agree with Worm. 'Want' is not love and you can love something but not necessarily 'want' him for yourself.
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<br>But human are selfish so we do tend want something we love but not necessarily we love what we want:)
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my case is simple, i love him and i want him.
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good if you can look at it so simply.
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kate,
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<br>you are lucky person, you know what you want and you believe what you have loved. it is a gift.
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Wai,
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<br>are you going to see him again?
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yes i believe ppl know what is love it is lucky.
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wai
<br>i guess, i know who you are missing
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Worm, I don know if I am that lucky. It depends on fate, courage, and a touch of forwarding-looking to possibility.
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<br>That is hard correct? I am so afraid to even think about it.
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Wai,
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<br>between you both, who has the right to determine the meeting / seeing / touching / contact / whatsoever?
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<br>is that you? it seems to me that you are in control.
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kate,
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<br>your heart must be full now. :)
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wai
<br>if u dont have the courage, what else is there for 'him'?
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worm, that is a very good question that I never though about. I can initiate but if he refuse to see me or talk to me, then he has the control. But if he initiate and come to me, then I will take control and make sure the all those 'times' we were brought together by fate, will not wasted.
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<br>I wish you are right but no, he has the controlling rights to what is possible between us.
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<br>Its up to me though if I want to try and see what is his reactions, but I am afraid that he doesnt even want to hear from me.
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<br>if you are me, what will you do? take a chance or not?
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wai
<br>of coz should take the chance. even if the outcome disappoint you.
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Wai,
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<br>what advise I can give?
<br>I have been both situtations with different person. Let to share some of my experiences with you.
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o, craigmount, I don expect to see you here.
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welcom craig. I'm not afraid of disappointment. I just afraid that we cant be friends after.
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<br>its good to have a man here. You think he will be happy to hear from me or not?
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wai
<br>i think he is dying to hear from you, if i am not wrong. lol
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wondering.....what's the topic here..
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wai
<br>thz for the welcome, i hope i am not intruding
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Wai,
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<br>1. if I don want him, I would not bother to talk to him, neither on phone, msn, sms, email, whatsoever. if he initiates any kind of contact, I would run away, no answer is the best answer to stop the relationship.
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well at least you guys have someone to miss and love. consider yourselves lucky!
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wai
<br>if the end result is u guys cant be friends after. so be it!
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leona,
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<br>good point! i am here for that reason. ;-)
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Leona
<br>yes i know that.
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worm, love to hear your experiences. You wan to share here or MSN?
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<br>Craig, you think he is dying to hear from me? why you feel so? He was the one who don want to answer my call or sms but i think he still cares.
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<br>babe, someone you miss is the topic.
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Leona
<br>'love' is an 2 edged sword, i could make u extremely happy or extremely sad
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oh...someone i miss..
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<br>if i miss someone, i will go and call la...^.~
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- if I do want him but for some reason, I cannot continue the relationship, then I would not initiate any contact neither because it would be hopeless and pointless to do something stupid.
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wai
<br>u must have hurt him totally?
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craigmount, you sure? Are you declaring your love for me?
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<br>it's a very funny typo. ha!
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baby
<br>i like that, that is the most simple way to show u are missing him/her.
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kate, i'm kinda straight forward....unless....he/she...dun wanna talk to me....then, i will give up...^.~
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Wai,
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<br>dun be naive! I wont think it is true tho. Care is not love/want/like
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worm, you sound so objective here. I cant think right now as nothing make sense.
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<br>craig, i guess we both hurt each other at different time and in different degree. Its not about hurt anymore, its about how we 'see' each other going forward. can we be friends or not.
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craig,
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<br>you hv one leg with someone in this thread? what a surprise! hahaha...
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Leona
<br>i dont know what 'love' is anymore. lol
<br>i wish i can declare love to someone, but i'm in a very confuse state right now. hahahhahaa
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Wai,
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<br>pls accept my stupid statement above... i am just ... too straight.
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wai
<br>why cant u guys be lover again? is that an impossibility?
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worm
<br>what do u mean by 'one leg'? u meant ' one hand'? lol
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worm, i know care is not love but I don expect much. frienship is good if that is all it is.
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<br>craig, why are u in a very confuse state? you are in love with someone who hurt you now?
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- if that person want me, and I have no rejection feeling (exactly is ready to accept), then I would initiate a little contact to test him, response to him when he asks for it.
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craig,
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<br>one hand is hkie speech.
<br>one leg is taiwanese speech.
<br>basically no diff gai.
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I need to sleep now but like your company here. hope to see u all here again tmr.
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<br>Wai and Kate, tmr ok?
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<br>Craig, you are welcome so much but you are here so late, see u tmr.
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wai
<br>if u are her. u already know the story la :)
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Wai,
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<br>umm... if you are satisfied by knowing that he is still alive. maintain a fdship is good tho.
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good nite wai.