明知老公有sl,明知應該要選擇離開,但做唔到,好辛苦、好傷心...可以點?
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因為你愛佢, 所以你更加要挽救
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我有, 但佢仍然繼續瞞住我去揾sl
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u find sl too
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你還愛你husband, 亦想他回頭, 他一天不離開他SL, 你心一天都會流血, 心神不定....
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<br>你離開不到, 不是這樣的簡單.
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<br>你老公知你知嗎? 他有什麽反應?
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我唔會囉, sl 同第三者有乜分別? 點解要將自己變做第三者..
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佢知我知佢以前有sl, 但唔知我發現佢而家繼續揾, 佢亦都唔認佢有sl
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重犯????
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<br>你們是否有問題? 上次SL 之後, 大家有做怎麽補救及防預?
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how do u know he is finding lei?
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上次之後, he promise me 唔再揾, 但俾我發現佢繼續上forum 揾 sl...
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it will takes sometime for ppl to adjust it, just give him sometime and u will see if this man is worth to love
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ha? he post thread to find SL ar? my god..
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or maybe he is finding frds ja?
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你老公搵 sl,你接受唔到,但又唔離開佢,咁你貪佢有咩好呢?
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short_tools:
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<br>What do you mean "adhust"? you mean my husband needs to adjust of not finding sl?
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Yes, he post thread to find sl...我都唔知佢有咩好, 或者一齊太多年, 唔捨得...但未發現佢有sl 前, 我吔真係好開心, 佢對我都好好
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セreason 都好, bottom line 係佢唔放你在眼內.
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<br>你唔離婚, 可能仲好love佢, 或者唔愤氣, 或者要靠佢生活, etc....
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<br>佢而家可以第二次, 以後都會再有第3,4...次.
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<br>佢咁既時侯, 你又會點? 繼續傷心?
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<br>不知你情况之下, 作以下假設:
<br>1)接受現實= 容易他有N個SL, 自已心傷, 感覺被遗棄
<br>2)攤牌= 尋回尊嚴
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yes ofcoz, what if that woman comes to meet you face by face, or keeps disturb you and ur husband? why dont give him sometime and try to bring his heart back at the time u knew that he's trying to ignore that woman? so the key point is he is trying to ignore
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CheerfulSweetie, 我唔止一次提出離婚, 但冇用嘅我最終都氹番佢, 我知我已經冇曬尊嚴...
<br>Short_tools, if he is trying to igore, he won't keep finding sl..
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CheerfulSweetie replied @ 2008-10-13 1:30 pm
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<br>你唔離婚, 可能仲好love佢, 或者唔愤氣, 或者要靠佢生活, etc....
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<br>我覺得要靠佢生活係主要原因,排除呢個原因...我唔覺得一個人可以明知對方搵去 SL 都可以忍受得到。
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面對這樣的情形, 妳唔想再傷心難過, 最好就係自己搵一個sl,
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<br>唔係要報復老公, 而係有一個人關心妳陪妳, 到時都唔得閒理個死佬啦~~
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cheerfulsweetie
<br>agree你咁講!
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傷心人:"我唔止一次提出離婚, 但冇用嘅我最終都氹番佢, 我知我已經冇曬尊嚴... "
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<br>你唔係冇用, 只係對他, 你還有希望, 還未死心...
<br>有些女人, 心軟, 是一次又一次原諒老公, 卻一次又一次失望, 由本來望女下靓女都唔得, 底線越拉越低, 只要佢識返屋企就得...
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<br>男人一生好多女人, 在家老婆卻是心傷的等他....
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<br>你有為自已打算嗎?
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我唔需要靠佢, 我自已有一份好好嘅工, 收入唔錯, 絕對可以自給自足
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how long since last time he told u that he will be changed
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只係對他, 你還有希望, 還未死心... --> Yes 因為佢應承我會改, 雖然佢做唔到, 撇除佢揾sl, 佢對我真係好好
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short tools:
<br>Last year I found out he had sl..after that, he promised me he will change..but throughout the year, he keeps finding..
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did u ask him what does he want from that woman? cant u do it?
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傷心人:"因為佢應承我會改, 雖然佢做唔到, 撇除佢揾sl, 佢對我真係好好"
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<br>"撇除佢揾sl, 佢對我真係好好"
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<br>吓???
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<br>你老公唔怕你, 都係知道哂你d弱點: 只要對你好d, 佢作反就冇事ga la!
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<br>係男人作反返到屋企都對個老婆好ga la.
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he didn't admit he has sl...
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如果佢一世唔改,你又選擇唔走,令我諗起以前上一代D couples,好多都係老公出去滾,老婆啞忍,一路到若干年後,大家都老了(好話唔好聽,都已經冇本事出去滾了),終於守得雲開見月明,仔大女大,兩個人去邊都秤不離跎,BUT 當中老婆流左幾多眼淚,真係冇人記得。
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<br>SORRY 唔係想話邊個岩與唔岩,OR 探討應該走與唔走,純粹忽然諗起je....
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cheerfulsweetie: my friend also said that...佢知我唔會離婚, 所以先咁大胆, 我啲朋友都勸我要離開佢
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wednesdaygal :"終於守得雲開見月明....BUT 當中老婆流左幾多眼淚,真係冇人記得"
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<br>Exactly!
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<br>呢個明月, 真係自欺欺人囉!
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堅貞不移的愛,在哪裡可以找到?
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傷心人
<br>咁你有冇問你老公點解要搵sl呢?
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堅貞不移的愛,在哪裡可以找到?
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short tools:"did u ask him what does he want from that woman? cant u do it?"
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<br>你係男人麻? 男人like GalA sexy, GalB诮雲, GalC 吸引....
<br>最like 係偷既刺激lor!
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did u ask him what does he want from that woman? cant u do it?
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short tools:"did u ask him what does he want from that woman? cant u do it?"
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<br>你係男人麻? 男人like GalA sexy, GalB诮雲, GalC 吸引....
<br>最like 係偷既刺激lor!
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傷心人, 你的處境同我現在一模一樣, 我也覺得很傷心,
<br>很無奈, 但我現在暫時仍忍耐著....
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可能你咁講都岩, 但只係部份, 唔係全部. 雖然我太爺有3個老婆, 但對每一個都忠貞不二, 我阿爺同我老竇更加係冇得彈
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honeyp, 你都係忍緊? 有冇諗過分開?
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short tools, my husband didn't admit he has sl, so he won't tell me why he finds sl...
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short tools:"雖然我太爺有3個老婆, 但對每一個都忠貞不二, 我阿爺同我老竇更加係冇得彈"
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<br>呢d係時代既acceptance, 3個老婆係你太爺年代米少lor. 分分鐘d老婆叫老公搵多幾個, 仲要搵自已個妹呀, friend 呀共待一夫tim....
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<br>而家冇呢枝歌ga la. 所以米偷情lor.
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當然有諗過分開, 但有多野要冷靜處理, 同埋要顧及身邊好多因素
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honeyp: do you have kids?
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I'm working in office now, maybe talk to you tonight!!
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我今晚一定再上來同你再傾
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honeyp, i seldom online at night. Do you have msn? may be we can talk via msn later?
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呢d係時代既acceptance, 3個老婆係你太爺年代米少lor. 分分鐘d老婆叫老公搵多幾個, 仲要搵自已個妹呀, friend 呀共待一夫tim....
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<br>而家冇呢枝歌ga la. <<
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<br>就快有, 因為男女失衡