mature gentleman inviting mature lady for a casual chat.
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hihi
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hi lady0149,
<br>thx for dropping by, u r at home or in office.
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home now....boring
<br>you?
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home also.
<br>i am in my 40s n married, do u mind to tell me a bit about urself.
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icic.....today should be your family day wor....any kids?
<br>I am 30+ yrs old. I have a bf, not married yet.
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hi all
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no kids. wife went out for lunch, so i am all alone.
<br>any plans to get marry, how long u hv been going steady with ur bf.
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hi nelnelson............
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hi nice to meet u polo and lady@0419
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hi all
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nelenlson,
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<br>Hi hi
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<br>polo,
<br>nearly 10yrs lu....marriage is not suitable for me. ;p
<br>lunch yet? I had already....enjoying mango now...heehee
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hi lilys...........
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sound and taste good
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Hi ladies
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lady0149,
<br>dating for nearly 10 yrs, wow, its like a marathon.
<br>all these yrs, do u hv any affairs with others.
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say "hi" to lilys & Eric
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<br>Polo,
<br>really like a marathon......haha
<br>what kind of affairs you are referring to nei?
<br>how about you....? :-)
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i was asking if u hv had any intimate relationship with others.
<br>i did hv some encounters, can't say i am perfect.
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polo,
<br>How long you have been married?
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almost 20yrs.
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polo,
<br>wow......20years...you have found a life partner.
<br>some encounters....me 2. Do u have now?
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lady0149,
<br>what brings u here.
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polo,
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<br>I am here becoz of boring & curiosity. How about you?
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no. my status doesn't allow me to built up a lasting relationship unless the other part would accept n understand, n it just doesn't come by, if u know what i mean.
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polo,
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<br>other part means someone but not yr wife...???
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well, i guess i am here just to try my luck.
<br>i am not looking into anything in particular, but it would b nice if i can come acorss with someone who i can commuicate and with understanding, then may b v can start from there.
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other part means someone but not yr wife...???
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<br>by lady@0419 - 04/21/07 14:14
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<br>YES.
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polo,
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<br>so, did u have luck here before?
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i did, actually i met 3 gals here.
<br>i had dinner with them all, n had a brief affair with one, it lasted for several months.
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polo,
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<br>several months...half year?
<br>why is it over...? would u mind to share?
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almost half a yr.
<br>she has a steady bf also, n one day, she told me she doesn't want our relationship to continue coz she is planning to get marry. its a bit sad, but i respect her decision.
<br>so, may b ur turn to tell me something about u, how about to answer the same questions u asked me.
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polo,
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<br>it is welcome to ask my questions wor.
<br>what kind of relationship did you keep with her? SP / SL ?
<br>i had a SP for 2 years. It stops becoz he is busy on his new work. He is also married.
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i am quite confuse about this sl/sp relationship. i mean i don't want just to hv sex to hv sex, for me, there's got to b emotions n passions attached.
<br>if simply sex is needed, its more simple, i just pay for it.
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do u mind to describe a little about urself, such as ur work, weight, height, ect.
<br>how's ur relationship with ur bf.
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polo
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<br>um.....In my mind, SP relationship is the one you have feeling/like to have sex with him/she, both match to each other on the bed and can get the happiness and satisfaction. But you will not concern/care about other aspects on his/her lifes.
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<br>SL = secret lover.....really like a bf/gf but underground...much more than sex.....
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<br>Tha't what I think.
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polo,
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<br>166cm, 120lbs nearly...you?
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that is why i am confused, i would like to care for the well beings of my partner as much as to enjoy sex with her.
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5'9" tall n 125lb.
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polo,
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<br>guess she was most likely yr SL.
<br>wow...u are slim type bor. I am fat when I compare with you...haha
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polo,
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<br>is it difficult to arrange the "time" becoz of your marriage?
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i am slim alright.
<br>so, tell me ur relationship with ur bf.
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yes, u could say that. first of all, there wl b no sundays n saturdays if u know what i mean.
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polo,
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<br>my bf is nice. He treats me well. But he needs working on Sat/Sun. So, I feel boring sometimes.
<br>Our relationship is stable but lack of excitments.
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ic, i guess excitments is always an issue ........ i guess thats what i am lacking too.
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yup...really an issue.
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do u think we can establish some channel of communicaton to keep in touch.
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polo,
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<br>some channels....fine.
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Ooops....
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<br>sorry for typo in alias....it's me!