i am a single male and totally in love with a married lady....how stupid can this get ?
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same here
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<br>I am single and totally in love with a married man..... But I don't think I am stupid as I have no expectation from the relationship....
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but if you are in a relationship and in love, weren't a moment when he is needed but not there for you ? i can accept zero expectation but i am sure there are moments where you wished it was different ?
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I totally agree with you and sometimes I was upset becos of these....
<br>but we shouldn't be, right? We should know our 'position' and leave this kind of relationship when we couldn't accept anymore
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<br>what we should do is being happy and enjoy every moment when being together and love each other
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lady, you are right about appreciating the moment but again, it is always easier said than done. if it was just a casual sex relationship, i suppose leaving is easier but when you are actually emotionally attached (and hooked), that can be a pain :-)
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of cos I understand as I have same situation as you...
<br>I am emotionally attached with a married guy, we love each other.....
<br>I couldn't call him or meet him whenever I want to or whenever I need him, maybe this is fate...
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<br>Am I too "ah Q"?
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i wont say if that amounts to ah Q or not ( i dont even agree with that statement, haha)
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<br>cant call, cant meet, we wait for his/her beck and call and i dont know about you but hate the idea of them sleeping together, intimate time together. so so jealous.....
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I think i am quite 阿Q sometimes....
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<br>but deep inside, I am upset and blue....
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<br>maybe i seldom think about their life, which make me happier
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that's ok...
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i suppose thats the downside of it.
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<br>you fall in love with the person and in the end, u suffer alone. doubt if he/she really care if we are upset or blue at all.....
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maybe he/she doesn't really care if we are upset or blue at all
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<br>everyone is selfish, right?
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i am in total agreement with you.
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<br>how long have you been with him? how do you both usually communicate?
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i have been with him for around 9 months, we talk thru phone, sms and msn usually
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<br>how about you?
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It's time to go, he is waiting me.....
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<br>Have a nice evening!
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stupid here too, but different is she has a boyfriend, not husband
<br>i really want to quit but i love her so much, every time if they are together, then leave me alone, really really sad...
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we usually communicate via sms and phone. rarely we use msn as she has to attend to her husband when she is back home...
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<br>you have a nice evening too !
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sg - i can understand you feeling. it sxxks big time....
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lady我又可以同你傾嗎
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at least you guys are loving each other...
<br>i'm loving a guy, seriously, who doesnt even like me, not to mention about love... but still, i'm happy that i have someone in heart...
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<br>should be glad that we are still willing to be stupid to fall in love... :)
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