16 mnths w/out a gf! why is it so hard to find a decent gf?
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<p><a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a></p>
<p>I just want to open up a thread for guys who is looking for stability! </p>
<p>I m not sure if I will be infront of my computer all the time but I left my email: <br />hope to get some reponse!! I m a male, 28 working CWB , ugrad, outgoing and friendly! hope to really find a decent girl to share my life w/ me! </p>
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how old r u?
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hi,
<br>age 28 already!
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hello woman,
<br>how r u doing?
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hih
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helo am,
<br>how r u?
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i am bored... hehe...
<br>how about u?
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I broke up w/ my gf 16 mnths ago! been w/ her for 7 yrs.....very very sad but I can't do much!
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pm, alrady 16 months.. u will be ok soon..
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am:
<br>why r u bored? did plan anything up today w/ friends?
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hi zoe,
<br>thx! I m ok already but somewhat can really find the right girl get to start my new life!
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no, i pushed away plans becoz of some silly "妄想" ...
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<br>16mths u still can't forget ur ex?
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no...we r best friend b4! we've been w/ each other for 7 yrs.....but unfortunately....we can't make it to the end!!
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am:
<br>what's something silly came up that pushed ur plan apart?
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pm,
<br>good to hear. i got similar experience but for me after 3yr, still cant get over it. . so v happy for you.
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o...icic... it's quite hard when ur gf = bestfd...
<br>but don't worry... lots of singles out there searching for mr/ms right!
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pm
<br>haha... thought someone would ask me out ... but didnt happen!
<br>now stuck at home...
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<br>what about u ? just relzin at home today?
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am: r u one of them? r u male/female?
<br>alot of ppl saying that there r many singles out there...but I guess my time haven't arrive yet...
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am: yeah...will me up my friend for snooker soon!
<br>but I guess sometimes staying home to relax is not a bad thing.....!
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pm:
<br>me female la...
<br>actually i am bit complicated... but sure still searching ... haha...
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time being alone.. giving your spaces, can think.. can understand yourself much more..
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zoe:
<br>sorry missed out ur post 4 mins ago..
<br>U hv to be strong! so r u over w/ right now?
<br>so u hv been single for 3 yrs now?
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zoe
<br>hihi~
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am: oh...u experienced the same thing like me as well? my philosophy is, don't rush it and be patient!
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that's ok. no worry..
<br>in life, we always miss something easily.. or not at the right time. hehe..
<br>not really over, cos im silly.. yup.. 3yrs.. i think i need some more times.. :op
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zoe: that's true...
<br>u will be more dependent..u will love urself more and u can get a really peaceful mind! but after I broke up....i travel quite a bit to different places...see different things just to kind of forget abt the past....haha!
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pm ,
<br>not the same as u, i never hv been lucky enough to be with someone for so long! ... hehe... mayb it's my problem?
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zoe: take care urself more la...
<br>stop being silly anymore.....I mean memories will always be in ur heart.....n better fortune will be ahead of u....
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am: how old r u?
<br>r u very demanding?...i believe that for a relation to last long.....2 person need to be in the same channel
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hi, am..nice meeting you..
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<br>hi, pete.. that's a nice name.. made me thinking of my best friend..
<br>yup.. i am a diff person now.. i also travelled a bit.. :o)
<br>but i didnt try to forget my past.. i just put it deep in my heart.. deeper and deeper..
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pm,
<br>i don't think i am demanding... but... i get bored easily ... :p
<br>24 lu...
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<br>i always start wrong relationships...
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pm,
<br>my silliness. just not opening myself to accept a new relationship..
<br>that's ok.. i have my family and many friends around. hehe..
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zoe
<br>i have same measure as u...
<br>put her deep in my heart, but will u compare yr new "potential bf" with yr ex all the time?
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zoe:
<br>haha...then i guess i shld use pete as to post my msg!...when i ask u to forget...I guess I m really asking u to store it deep in ur heart...i do the same thing as well...!! some can never be forget..
<br>so do u travel alone of w/ friends?
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not opening myself to accept a new relationship
<br>haha.....seems we are same person..
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am:
<br>u will never get to know when u don't actually start the relationship...!! that's my problem as well...
<br>I am really cautious...that's why I can really start anything yet....just sometimes I get lonely...and really want to find someone to talk to.....
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Zoe and Man:
<br>I think I m somewhat the same as u guys!
<br>don't open up.....!!
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pete123
<br>the reason for me is i always compare new fds with my ex, and still think she is better..
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hi AM,ZOE, and MAN
<br>really nice to talk to u guys!
<br>but I really hv to get going...
<br>if u guys don't mind, leave ur email ah?
<br>so we can chat later on in msn/email!
<br>if u guys still here to nite......
<br>would love to chat again soon....! thx for the cheering.... take care!
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man:
<br>i m afraid I will do that as well...
<br>but is not fair to ur new gf?!...
<br>that's why is even harder for me to really start a new relationship....!! or maybe I need more time...
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man & pete,
<br>i do compared. but at the same time, no potiental guys around. hahaha. i just compared male friends with my ex. so silly..
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ok, pete, catch u up later..
<br>have a nice night.
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am,
<br>dont worry, just not the right time yet.. believe in fate..
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<br>pm,
<br>still around? i may go soon..
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o...seems everyone are leaving soon...
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hey zoe,
<br>how old r u? what type of guy r u really looking for?
<br>anyways...i hope to see u guys again soon!!
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man,
<br>open up.. said is easier than done.. hahaha.. :op
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pete, how come still around?
<br>Im 30 and 4mo.. hahaha. :op
<br>I am not looking for anyone now.. i thought i can start a relationship again, but i dont.. i still keep in touch with ex.. i told myself except he get married 1st.. i wont give up..
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see this is my first thread: and I m really happy to see response!
<br>Zoe, AM and Man, I don't know if u guys enjoy happy hour but....if u guys r don't mind of chatting in a coffee shop or a pub....let's plan something out, so we can chat in person la....!! really going now...
<br>see u guys later!
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i am trying..even 6 yrs already..still not sucessful..haha
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pete, good idea.. i love to relax in coffee shop or pub..
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<br>man,
<br>i totally understood..
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<br>chat tonight.. need to go now..