Another Christmas, do u feel the same as before
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<p>feeling so different this year .....<br />and i lost my mood going out too, just want to stay with the computer and be alone.</p>
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How come don't want to go out?
<br>Can we chat : [email protected]
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this christmas i back to single, big different!
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Luke,
<br>Not sure if its good or bad for a single guy, mind to share
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want some1 be with u @ home?
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if i don't think about her, that's good, but it could be easy to think of her if i go out, that's bad!
<br>what make you stay home with good weather?
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My close frds are staying with their family, and i dont bother to ask everyone and see who is available to go out with me, and staying home is not a bad thing indeed
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I can accompany u, either @ home or out, or, both, how do u think?
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i see, i normally enjoy stay home with her, anything with her is enjoyable, reading, listen music, taste coffee or bake cookie, now i have to adapt how to enjoy it alone.
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Luke, being alone is not bad indeed, i enjoy to hv my personal space
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<br>Passerby, thx, you are very kind!
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yes, alone donesn't mean lonely. ^^
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of course i know that, but we can't control our mood and clear those memory, right? just need some times to adjust.
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right, we need to in touch with our feelings and experience the moment, an effective way to let things go. You are doing fine, pal ^^
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maria, have u thought about spending time with family ?
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why feel so different this year? you used to have party and lots of function during christmas?
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I've been stayed at home for two days also..
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Benefit,
<br>it is strange that this christmas just seemed normal days to me, i dont feel i need to do anything special. I will leave the family days for CNY.
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Hi Karie,
<br>Why u choose to stay at home ar
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anyone would like to go out now and pass the afternoon with leisure and pleasure ? i want to find someone to go to Stanley or Sai Kung for food and drink !
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maria, i feel the same this year without dating any friends or going to church..
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<br>but then.. i think the x mas decor is pretty..
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<br>also, i walked through nathan road, which had many ppl singing and counted down at canton road.. the best count down so far in my life..
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<br>all these with my mom n dad..
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<br>but yes, understand the anti-climax..
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<br>did your work place had x mas party ?
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me too stay at home 2 day also
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MERRY CHRISTMAS, AND HAPPY EVERY DAY!
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Benefit,
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<br>it should be nice to enjoy the christmas with your love ones
<br>I just even too lazy to do that..... maybe its becoz i cant be with whom i wanted and so i just lost mood on everything....
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um..
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<br>i lived abroad for long time.. so i learnt to be lonely and cherish little things..
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<br>too lazy.. um.. well, i managed to pull myself together and send x mas greetings to all my friends on facebook.. (400+)
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<br>i guess.. sometimes.. ie..i like to shop alone.. you still need to physically get up and go out ?? =)
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Benefit
<br>Get you point, we just execute in a different way.
<br>i wont focus on one day or just a few days to celebrate a festival or birthday now, coz i believed we dont need to wait till mothers day to express our love to mom or wait till a anniversary to tell someone i love U. I like to do it whenever i want to and cherish every ordinary days..... that why i dont feel i really need to party or do sth special in christmas ^^
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good to know ar..
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<br>i do that every day as well =)
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which field u work in ?
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Maria
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<br>Be frankly.. I have less friends in reality.. so no one date me out
<br>it's common
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karie, u ve been asking to go to clubbing or parties .. any success ?
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Benefit
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<br>Sorry, no one ask me to go out for party.
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ic.. no need to say sorry.. anyways.. party doesn't automatically means you will have fun..
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<br>need to learn how to live alone with happiness..
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hay ladies and gents, i didnt go party this year too
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not too disappointed i hope ?
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Benefit
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<br>I always stay alone..
<br>so envy of other ppl that can have a party with their friend
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Right, it could be boring if you dont know how to enjoy yourself even you are in a party. I guess we need to create what we want and shouldnt be depend on others, too high expectation would lead to disappointment too.
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my christmas had been always alone until 4 years ago
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<br>now, i realized that one should not impose self-limits by the past
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夜還未深
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<br>朋友問我誰會伴我這聖誕 我話其實我喜歡一個
<br>以風為伴 最平淡也是最容易過
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<br>寒冷夜裡城裡面聖詩傳來 襯著無盡晚空煙花播
<br>不眠夜 我還是要獨個來渡過
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<br>有一刻真的想不管一切去找你 卻又明白再不應出錯
<br>你這一刻定是歡欣興奮開心不過 共聚又是如何
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<br>夜還未深 愛還未可 難過亦要經過 已是離別 我很清楚
<br>未眠如我 不止一個 誰沒有癡過夢過
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<br>曾努力過 曾快樂過 擁有過 也就其實已經很不錯
<br>都明白 卻還是渴望你陪伴我
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karie, o well, i m the opposite. i go to parties too often and am a bit tired of going there. though bored, i prefer having a time for my own or a time with my beloved
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i have been living alone since form 4, now 29..
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<br>envy ppl who have partying friends.. well, i do envy.. but then..
<br>one needs to learn how to be happy and independent..
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<br>that's part of growing up i think..
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benefit, actually there's no point to be envied on. i know many ppl from parties but can only keep friendships with v few of them. ppl there r always lookin for their own desires. they hardly speak the truth and share their own feelings
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agree.
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<br>am grateful i think i have quality friends.. or to be honest.. i rather other think i am their friend..
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