我同老公才新婚不夠3個月, 但大家已經日日吵架, 很灰, 不知道應該怎麼辦
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who can give me some advice?
<br>i really feel disappointed
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why argue. for different living style, money or relative issue, pls tell.
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how long you be with your husband before marriage? do u both really understand each other?
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我想過離婚, 但才3個月不夠, 好像很荒謬
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咁結婚前一d事都冇?
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add me msn
<br>[email protected] ok
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mind tell us what usually are the subjects of the argruments?
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我和他拍了差不多4年才結婚, 之前大家都有吵, 但都很快和好
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<br>婚後, 大家一起生活覺得不能相處, 他的情緒經常失控, 大哭大叫很可怕, 我由最初會�挾f佢到現在我已不再理會, 也不想再��, 因我實在太累
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any possibilities of mental or emotionalsickness? pls don't mind for my wording. sorry.
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離婚啦
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yeap, should separate or bring him to see doctor. How about you live with him rest of your lift. he is terrible.
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吵架的內容都不外是信任問題和與他的家人相處(尤其婚後)
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I will recognise it as an usual and ordinary argrument points between couples of a marriage.
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<br>I believe that nothing is unchange. Do you belieive it too.
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<br>If you want to change, hold and grasp your beliefs first.
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how old are you? you may move out to let both side to calm down first.
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做人最重要係活得開心,唔開心的話就不如分開好了,不過都拍左四年拖先結婚,佢係咩性格你都唔清楚,你自已都好.........唔醒目。
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faye, men conceal their behavior and feeling easily. You won't discover it unless living together for a period of time
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婚後, 大家一起生活覺得不能相處, 他的情緒經常失控, 大哭大叫很可怕, 我由最初會�挾f佢到現在我已不再理會, 也不想再��, 因我實在太累
<br>by bb - 02/13/07 15:16
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<br>妳老公要搵情緒輔導, 去社署問下.
<br>香港人嘅精神壓力比其他地方高.
<br>婚前妳應該察覺到~~
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bb, 人唔會一來就大哭大叫,你係咪講0左d激起佢情緒既野呀?
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bb
<br>I also just married for 3 mos. Actually it is not easy, I also feel disappointed somehow, but now, we are better. From my experience, first of all, one of you should be claim down and stop agure. REMEMBER, one mouth can't make agure.
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<br>Then, you have to cool down and tell your husband that you really want to work out our relaitonship. Make him to speak out his problems and his feeling.
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<br>Leaving is easy but it can't help on the case.
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樓主走左老?
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should get a marriage counselor.
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一段關係要兩個人努力先唯繫得到。而家你好似係放棄既狀態,咁落去大家都唔會開心。
<br>好似上面咁講,試下搵社工或心理治療師幫手,兩個人係埋一齊應該守望相助。
<br>如果搵人幫手都解決唔到先考慮離婚啦,起碼你都有努力過挽救呢段關係。
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Sorry for my late reply
<br>I tried to discuss with him, but he don't listen to what I have said
<br>I told him it is very common to have quarrels between couples, we should calm down first and discuss the problems. But he haven't calm down at all.
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Consult with your sisters or close fds which know your husband and try to check out the reason for his changes after marriage. 4 years is a long time and so you should well know your husband, so you should find out what make him change. If this is his original charactor and betray you 4years, you should leave him.
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其實我一直很想挽救, 他由拍拖到結婚郪對我很好, 什麼事也照顧我
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<br>但一發脾氣, 他就變了另一個人, 我曾平心靜氣跟他說我希望他會收斂一下脾氣, 這樣我們才可以好好傾問題, 但他不理會, 只要一有小小不滿就發嬲, 我不妥協跟他理論就嘈, 一係黑面, 一係大哭大叫, 我很怕, 我說發脾氣根本不可以解決問題, 只會令我們關係更糟, 他都聽不進去, 我還可以怎樣?
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<br>講真, 我已厭倦了��, 開始時�晉\只是不想把小問題弄大, 影響感情, 但一直下來, �晉\好似已變成理所當然的事, 即使多愛, 也不可能永遠這樣…
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how old are both of you?
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會唔會你屋企可能有污糟野呢??
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這4年不是沒試過這樣, 但過後他會道歉, 沒想到結婚後他的脾氣愈來愈差, 自問是一個稱職的妻子, 我想不到為何小小事都要大吵一輪
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去拜和合,搞下d風水
<br>唔好咁輕易講離婚呀
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好多時一個男人會大哭大叫, 都係可能屋企有D污糟野纏身~~~
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me - 29
<br>he - 31
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丫,唔記得講,我哥d脾氣都好差,但自從佢食齋之後成個人變曬,妳試下比多d蔬果你老公 食
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i proposed to seek consultation, he don;t agree
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1978 or 1977?