[討論] 40+的單身女人會如何處理處理她的單身問題 ?

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I know one who actively ask the others for introduction and even visit the marriage agency. However, the result is negative so far.

其實30+都可以講嘅.

I'd let it to fate! Not eager to look for a bf!

v: Thanks for your reply.
 
 However, my friend still desperate for that and her attitude has made the others scared.

D
 I can say, everyone has diff character! I have a gf who act the same as your fd! so? there is no absolute I can say!

如果從未有愛情經驗,可能會積極一點搵男友,
 但人嘅心態會隨著年紀而改變,當人過40時,
 人生經驗多左,思想成熟,唔會咁執著,
 可以輕輕鬆鬆對待單身,最緊要保持心境開朗,
 就算一個人都無所謂.

我都覺得急反而會搵唔到.

any further view?