不是想像中的堅強
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面對多次感情挫折,親人離別..我以為自己會變得成熟、堅強......
但當我放下緊張既生活...我以為我一早放低2年前既男友..但原來唔係..諗返既以前既日子時候都不自覺流眼淚近來幾晚發夢都見到佢..我幾日諗返起佢..我好掛住佢..今日做做下野流眼淚
當時我地分手係佢對我不忠先,還有其他不因
但2年後今日,他已結婚....根本冇可能吧
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if he is married, then send him with best wishes. In fact it is normal that u feel sad cuz u still have feelings toward him, it doesn't matter whether he cheat u or not as it won't affect your love.
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<br>Sometimes face yourself will help you to recover from the dark end
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Jealousy hurts so bad!!!
<br>It's not necessarily all bad. I would like to say, under many circumstances, jealousy stems from ---- anger? no, anger is the father of hatred, resentment ---- love. I mean, sometimes jealousy can help us to realize whether we care about someone, or love someone. It's not wrong to be jealous. The thing is, it is important to learn how to keep it in good control. :)
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Maybe u just havent found someone to take his place.
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但曾經..我地拍拖時..佢一直都對我不忠..佢出面收埋件上海妹..佢係將我放響 first priority...如果我肯同佢結婚..佢會放棄上海妹..if not, 佢仲有個 back up..
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<br>2年前..所有野都冇可能容許我去考慮結婚呢一樣野...仲有大家相處時間太短我唔覺得要去咁急結婚...
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<br>分左手1年後,..我知佢同左個上海妹已結婚啦..分左手2年姐係今年3月佢突然unblcok 返我 msn
<br>我真係唔知佢想點
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I dont think he can be faithful to one girl ... maybe he wants u to be his sp or sl.
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我曾經有2次unblock 返佢 msn..睇下佢係咪有說話想同我講..但最後都冇..咁我 block 返佢囉
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If he really wants to communicate with u, he can call u or sms u ... no need to unblock u on msn. He has made his decision to marry her so u should forget him and move forward. This will only bring u misery.
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ト黎ト去無意思
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<br>他已是人夫了!
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as I mentioned, we had blocked each other after breaking up.
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<br>After 2 years, why he suddenly unblock my msn ? why ?? i really want to find out the reasons
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既然人地都結左婚,唔好再諗佢喇,諗黎都無結果,事情亦唔可以返轉頭。
<br>當初你選擇同佢結婚會唔會帶黎更好既後果呢? 亦都無人會知。
<br>有時,痛苦都係自己帶畀自己…要放過自己,就要放低佢,好好愛自己,快快搵下一個值得你愛既人填補左呢個位置
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Maybe there is no reason ... maybe just curious of how u'll react. I think u r fantasizing about him wanting to get back with u ... stop thinking that ... its not what he wants. If he wants that, he would make it very clear to u.
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他可能意外unト你里
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so....for the coming days, should i keep block or unblock in msn.
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both not
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I would advise u either 1) if u really want to know y he unblocked u, then u ask him directly what he wants .. or 2) block him and forget about him forever.
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i believe he is not ACCIDENTALLY unblock me.. "JUST CHAT" why are u sure there is no reason for unblock my msn
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咁如果佢係真係有意unblock你咁你打算點先…? 知道左又點? 你打算同返佢一齊?
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Like i said b4, maybe i m too cynical, but maybe he is not a "one girl man" and he wants u to be his sp or sl. I could be wrong ... but if u really want to know the reason, u ask him directly .. u got nothing to lose.
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for me, i cant do anything.. it depends on him.. i don't care we can together again if he divorced..of course it is impossible.
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好清楚:問題在妳
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<br>妳un卜他啦・・・・
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just chat: i cant guarantee he is cynical in the future. i wont ask him directly. i agree u mentioned that he can sms/ email/ call me if he decided to communicate with me again. Yet, i think the probability is too low. One more thing is, i am going to leave hk for a period of time. Should i let him know indirectly by typing some words on the msn space bar ??
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So why do u want to know the reason? Whatever the reason, it doesnt matter coz u just said u wont be together with him.
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No, no need to tell him. Lets just part way with him. U and him dont have any connection anymore.
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你可必問我地
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<br>你跟本就想跟他一起,但又怕背負悪名
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U know what ... i think u should block him AND delete him so u can forget him easier.
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don't u think he is PK from his behavior
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Yes, but i didnt want to say that outright ... haha
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ok.. thanks for your words
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No problem ... just get on with your life and dont think too much about unnecessary things. :)
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i am easily think a lot when i am not under pressure.
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Mentally, i believe i am ready for a new relationship. However, i still have not met a good one
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then maybe u should concentrate on work and keep yourself busy .. :)
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Once u find a new bf, u'll forget about him.
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yap, my life is quite busy.. yet, i still have to take a break sometimes
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Good ... so u r leaving hk? Where r u going?
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canada
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但2年後今日,他已結婚.... 根本冇可能吧
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<br>點解你吾搵個男友結婚..
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<br>做乜重諗住ex...
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ic ... van or tor?
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zxy: 你唔好玩啦..結婚乜真係可以講到咁簡單既咩..如果咁簡單我一早同ex 結左婚..今日你地亦睇唔到呢個 post 苛
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我響我最堅強既時候....我同自己講.今日佢對我做既野佢一定會後悔