What's your thought - "Ask not what your lover can do for you - ask what you can do for your lover..
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A married early 40 man just want to see your thoughts on this topic, any comments/ideas are welcome here, email or msn by <a href="mailto:[email protected]">[email protected]</a>
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quiet silent
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extract fm US President's speech, changed "country" to "lover"
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<br>sharing here
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Why we have a additional realtionship if it does not bring us enjoyment?
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pizzalover,
<br>It's a good query!
<br>I think every relationship is build up by two individuals.
<br>And, each realtionship is independent.
<br>For sure, we are chasing fresh, fun n enjoyment for a new relationship
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Hi,
<br>to have a new relationship here?
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not exactly, intend to know, chat n share more about relationship. it's quite difficult to handle n manage,right?
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tale
<br>yes, what can you do for your lover's if u are married? I would like to know too.
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sngle, married man are adult, an individual indeed as has it's own mind and thoughts.
<br>each individual has 24 hrs a day, has own lifestyle, interest and hobbies, make friends and arrange time to do whatever he wants.
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tale
<br>Why stated the obvious?
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it's free to disclose wat you are thinking of.
<br>jsut chat, relax, nothing to hide if you feel to speech as it is worth to share, right?
<br>that's my character
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tale
<br>I am very relax, just wondering why u are stating the obvious only, and of course everybody are free to express their thoughts
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agree!
<br>so, what is your thoughs then!
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tale
<br>there are nothing that an married person can do for his/her lover's
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Are you sure?
<br>Pls tell and share here.
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tale
<br>i already expressed my thoughts
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tale
<br>would love to know, what u can do if u has an lover's??
<br>would u divorce for her? hahahahaha..........
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that is true, if I love the gal, sure I want she feel happy.
<br>so I will do my best to make her happy.
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agree with WC.
<br>do you have such relationship?
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<br>seller,
<br>just want to tell every relationship is independent, don't mixed up...your idea?
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tale
<br>'every relationship is independent'? please elaborate
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tale
<br>'every relationship is independent' meant the relationship with your wife is different from the relationship with your lover's?
<br>yeah, i wish that's possible too. lol
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What is relationship?
<br>To mean,it depends on how you think the relationship with each another, they conver family relationship, friend relationship, lover relationship....
<br>All are one on one relationship and independent
<br>Each can brings up a special, unique feeling.
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seller replied at 2011-05-17 2:24 pm
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<br>tale
<br>'every relationship is independent' meant the relationship with your wife is different from the relationship with your lover's?
<br>yeah, i wish that's possible too. lol
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<br>exactly as all are individuals, chemisty effect while relationship builds up amongst two.
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tale
<br>i am afraid your wife would defined it differently if she knows that u have an lover's. lol
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May be you are right!
<br>That why secret lovers presents...
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tale
<br>btw, i dont think an friend relationship would ever affect your marriage verse an lover's relationship.
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tale
<br>'That why secret lovers presents...'
<br>that's your choice! n why not? if all parties involved are happy about such an arrangement
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agree! guess she gals n guys do!
<br>secret lovers will bring happiness amongst two if they are handling smooth and running properly.
<br>otherwise, will get worse.
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tale
<br>good luck!
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seller,
<br>guess you come across such experience in sl, can you share?
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"Ask not what your lover can do for you - ask what you can do for your lover..
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<br>haha, my quote.
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<br>"Do not ask your lover to do things for you."
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It is impossible not having an expectation on someone you love, but asking him to do things for you is another question.
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interesting.
<br>i think if you can do watever u can to your lover.
<br>u don't need to say anything like your comment "Do not ask your lover to do things for you."
<br>she'll react and do it for you by heart feeling.
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fate start fate end.....
<br>just hope u wont regretted it at the end
<br>hahahahahahaha.........
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seller,
<br>adult should responsible what he/she did.
<br>nothing regret at all as William says
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why expect an sl's would do things for you? it's normal that she wont, if she do things for you it's an bonus
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tale
<br>responsibility?
<br>are you an responsible person if u have an sl? lol
<br>are u trying to rationalize your action?
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i mean everyone should do it well for yourself first and then for lover. The more you give to the lover, the more you will get the return if they are really compatbabile. Nothing related to money, just feeling and flow...
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sorry, i dont think it's an blessing for a married guy to have an sl
<br>infact, it's an tragedy, if the married guy really love both women.
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tale
<br>what if your wife has an sl's? can u accept that?
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it's a fair game.
<br>I can't control what she did.
<br>as she is an individual, not a slave of mine
<br>in turn, do you want to be a slave to your hushand/bf?
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seller replied at 2011-05-17 3:45 pm
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<br>why expect an sl's would do things for you? it's normal that she wont, if she do things for you it's an bonus
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<br>Expectation arised in a close relationship, in some exetreme situations, I feel that I am entitled to have such expectation, however he may do nothing or thing which is out of my expectation. Can't blame him and ask more, he is just doing things within his limitations, so do I.
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<br>Bonus is not an usual income, yet it is still subject to tax but no provisional payment shall be made. The tax department quotes. lol
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tale
<br>if u think it's an game, so be it!
<br>i guess slavery was abolished eon ago? were they not?
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tale
<br>'it's a fair game.' remember those words! lol
<br>hope it wont come back and haunt you.
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true lover
<br>omg, dont tell us that u are working for the IR. lol
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true lover,
<br>sounds good and impress, feel what you said.
<br>limitation, expectation in love afffairs always are critical factor that we are struggling in our life no matter what relationship we are facing.
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<br>seller,
<br>sounds terrible, should have way to hide and seek that limit it haunts
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want to know what is IR?
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perhaps i am too decent. hahahahahahaha............
<br>true lover, are you an married woman that's having an sl's relationship with an married guy? hmmm......mind telling us how's the relationship?
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IR=Inland Revenue
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curious why you are talking abt IR?
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