Should I initiate meet up with him?
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<p>We have chatted for a couple of months, yet we never meet in person. We have exchanged a lot and we share very similar mindset in a lot of things. He did suggest to meet up on a weekend. Finally it didnt happen as something unexpected pop up on his side. I long for meeting him in person but would I sound desperate if I initiate meet up?</p>
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no la.... Dun be silly...
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eight, are u a guy or gal? Just wanna know if that's from a guy or gal's perspective.
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even nowadays, woman is always in a passive position in this kind of thing .. I really want to meet him as a real person but just don't know what to do. Any thoughts from guys?
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maybe he found another girl already
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well .. there's the possibility .. But we still communicate daily..
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<br>So, what's your opinion? Should I just wait and see?
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sorry guy
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幸福在妳手
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eight, my friend who is a guy, said if he is intersted, he'd hv suggested another date when he couldnt make it...
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<br>I just dont know what to do .. butterflies in the stomach..
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thx all of your thoughts. I need to log out now. Please leave me message here and I'll check tonite. I really need some insights.
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give him some signals like there will be a good movie coming up ? or long time no K........
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<br>See what will he do. If still no action, and you know he is not a shameboy.......
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for sure , he is not interested to meet up with u. He just want a chat mate to spend time, and I am sure, he got another target girl ...
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it's not you to initiate but him of coz, juz sth happened as u said! To me, it's juz a reschedule of meeting date! Cheer up and add oil!! ^^
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如果你覺得佢見得過,咪主動問下佢幾時得閒囉
<br>或者叫佢陪你買野
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So, should I just wait and see? If he doesnt mention it again, I should forget it?
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he is just not that into u or he is shy / busy not keep dating u? actually busy is not a gd reason (busy still ve to eat/sleep) as he still keep contact with i guess he don't want to reject u directly at least u might ve a BACK UP space.. cheer.
<br>or u just slow down a bit. just treat he as so-so friend.
<br>dont' think too much. coz he just one of the passenger. guys all over the world.
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he is just not that into u
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ture, I guess you're rite.