我21歲, 男友50歲.. 原來年齡真係會有影響..
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我今年21歲, 而男友今年就50歲..
識左幾年, 拍拖差不多半年喇, 但呢段時間愛得如火如荼..
我同佢相處得好好, 沒有年齡代溝等問題, 因為大家性格上都好夾,
而佢亦都唔似一個50歲既人除左工作既時候, 同時佢都超級就我..但一諗到將來, 問題就出現喇..
當你好愛一個人既時候, 你會想同佢結婚, 就算唔結婚, 你會想同佢有BB"
雖然我知依家咁早諗到呢度係時間尚早, 但都要計劃一下, 對不?
但係我依家先21歲, 而佢50歲.. 當BB十歲時, 佢已經60了..
會唔會好大距離呢? 佢依家都有個小朋友未夠10歲的, 但佢地相處應該幾好..
又或者萬一佢變心了, 我咁後生又帶著小朋友.. 我既將來會點呢?
又或者.. 當BB廿歲時, 佢已經70了.. 我唔知佢可以有幾多年命..老實講, 有機會我真係好想有同佢既愛情結晶品, 我好愛佢, 我亦感覺到佢都一樣"
但佢年紀都真係唔細喇, 雖然佢身體機能外表等各樣野都睇唔出..
我好想知道男人去到大約幾多歲會冇左生育能力?
如果可以我想過多一兩年等大家真係好穩定就生BB, 但我怕到時佢唔得..
我又怕再等, 佢同BB距離又會仲大.. 好似好趕咁...頭痛...
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我今年21歲, 而男友今年就50歲..
<br>識左幾年, 拍拖差不多半年喇, 但呢段時間愛得如火如荼..
<br>我同佢相處得好好, 沒有年齡代溝等問題, 因為大家性格上都好夾,
<br>而佢亦都唔似一個50歲既人除左工作既時候, 同時佢都超級就我..
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<br>但一諗到將來, 問題就出現喇..
<br>當你好愛一個人既時候, 你會想同佢結婚, 就算唔結婚, 你會想同佢有BB"
<br>雖然我知依家咁早諗到呢度係時間尚早, 但都要計劃一下, 對不?
<br>但係我依家先21歲, 而佢50歲.. 當BB十歲時, 佢已經60了..
<br>會唔會好大距離呢? 佢依家都有個小朋友未夠10歲的, 但佢地相處應該幾好..
<br>又或者萬一佢變心了, 我咁後生又帶著小朋友.. 我既將來會點呢?
<br>又或者.. 當BB廿歲時, 佢已經70了.. 我唔知佢可以有幾多年命..
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<br>老實講, 有機會我真係好想有同佢既愛情結晶品, 我好愛佢, 我亦感覺到佢都一樣"
<br>但佢年紀都真係唔細喇, 雖然佢身體機能外表等各樣野都睇唔出..
<br>我好想知道男人去到大約幾多歲會冇左生育能力?
<br>如果可以我想過多一兩年等大家真係好穩定就生BB, 但我怕到時佢唔得..
<br>我又怕再等, 佢同BB距離又會仲大.. 好似好趕咁...
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<br>頭痛...
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兩個人相愛唔一定要生BB姐係咪?
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咁我想, 而佢亦都喜歡小朋友
<br>而且我同佢未一齊之前, 佢同我講過話佢其實想生多個
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<p>你呢個issue都係事實。<br />咁個男人對現在(或之後幾年)生育有mud看法呢?</p>
<br><p>男人比你幾勁,過左六十都老態漸見。介時還是仔細老婆young,都幾吃力。</p>
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咁其實男人去到幾多歲先冇左生育能力..
<br>佢有講過如果我有左就一定生唔會要我落BB"
<br>不過其實我一直都係食緊藥
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如果你地兩個覺得OK既咪生囉,覺得唔OK咪算囉
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其實我同佢一齊既日子尚淺, 所以我冇同過佢講
<br>但以上既都係我自己諗姐...
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前兩日睇到一則花邊新聞,話外國有個七十幾歲既大叔同細佢廿幾三十年既老婆生左個仔,覺得係奇蹟
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咁咪係囉,你地都未去到果個地步,會唔會係你諗多左?
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60歲都仲得, 不過當BB十歲時, 佢已經70...
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"如果可以我想過多一兩年等大家真係好穩定就生BB, 但我怕到時佢唔得.. "<br />_____________________________________________<br /><br />可以將此刻的強壯精子貯藏。可以有需要時拿出,做人工受孕。。。。是辦法之一。
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咁真係好奇喎..
<br>男既都咁老喇, 女既都最少4,5十..
<br>唔收經都高齡產婦....
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世界之大,無奇不有
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CS_She replied at 2010-06-07 2:34 am
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<br>"如果可以我想過多一兩年等大家真係好穩定就生BB, 但我怕到時佢唔得.. "
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<br>可以將此刻的強壯精子貯藏。可以有需要時拿出,做人工受孕。。。。是辦法之一。
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<br>又係喎.. 但係我唔知點樣同佢討論呢個話題好
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Stanley何 都一把年齡先同三奶,四奶有細路。。。。但係我懷疑(純粹自己opinion),Dr Ho 都有做"手腳"。否則,咁容易各房都生龍鳳胎?!
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下, 我又冇留意呢D野喎, 你唔講我都唔知佢地個個都生龍鳳胎...
<br>但可以做咩手腳?
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<p>但可以做咩手腳?<br />______________________<br /><br />我所講的手腳,咪人工受孕lor。</p>
<br><p>但係,最終,係你現在已五十歲的bf對再生育有mud看法。你想要,或他不想, 都是conflict。 <br /></p>
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佢而家個仔先至得10歲,供埋佢讀大學都中有十幾年,佢都就黎退休,揾錢能力大大降低. 佢又吾係冇細路,有乜原因要再整多件,嫌吾夠辛苦,負担未夠重咩. 就算生,有冇諗過自己養吾養得起? 而家要養個細路都好大責任.
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<br>咁作為女人都當然明白女人會諗嫁左個大自己咁多既男人,日定會早自己去,到時淨返自己一個孤零零點算? 如果有個細路,相依為命都好丫...
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<br>不過你地而家只係拍拖階段,你同佢年齡差咁遠,睇怕大家對呢段關係既expectation都未必相同. 睇定d先啦,呢d野點可以自把自為,都要同佢有相有量至得. 佢可能根本冇諗過要再生,而家可能只想揾個伴罷了.
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<br>請問你兩位拍左幾耐?
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CS_She replied at 2010-06-07 2:45 am
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<br>但可以做咩手腳?
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<br>我所講的手腳,咪人工受孕lor。
<br>但係,最終,係你現在已五十歲的bf對再生育有mud看法。你想要,或他不想, 都是conflict。
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<br>我知道佢好鍾意小朋友, 早幾年未一齊時佢講過話依家一個唔夠..
<br>所以我估計佢都想要囉..
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toto replied at 2010-06-07 2:46 am
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<br>佢而家個仔先至得10歲,供埋佢讀大學都中有十幾年,佢都就黎退休,揾錢能力大大降低. 佢又吾係冇細路,有乜原因要再整多件,嫌吾夠辛苦,負担未夠重咩. 就算生,有冇諗過自己養吾養得起? 而家要養個細路都好大責任.
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<br>咁作為女人都當然明白女人會諗嫁左個大自己咁多既男人,日定會早自己去,到時淨返自己一個孤零零點算? 如果有個細路,相依為命都好丫...
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<br>不過你地而家只係拍拖階段,你同佢年齡差咁遠,睇怕大家對呢段關係既expectation都未必相同. 睇定d先啦,呢d野點可以自把自為,都要同佢有相有量至得. 佢可能根本冇諗過要再生,而家可能只想揾個伴罷了.
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<br>請問你兩位拍左幾耐?
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<br>如果生BB, 經濟呢樣一定唔係問題.. 難聽D講, 佢係個有錢人..
<br>佢係高學識人士, 有自己既生意, 而佢都講左只會半退休"
<br>上面講左大約半年, 不過我都未同佢討論呢D野, 只係帶過下佢話我有左就一定會要
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<p>對不起講句,現在拍左右1/2年,緊係甜蜜架。現實的事還未浮現。現實嘅係大家差距三十年, 大家目前甜蜜,無想將來係no problem。 但係好似現在板主諗生育, 現實嘅問題便出晒來。呢啲現實,係無得避。 <br /><br />板主,你只係諗男人幾時唔得,無諗bf有無公共協議,又有無諗個帶個細路父母都需要多少精力?到時,只有你有energy,但係bf無, 介時還甜蜜嗎? </p>
<br><p>還有,50歲男人,離過婚,有細路。。。。。現在有個20歲嘅gf, 他對你,是否人到中年的所謂midlife crisis。 搵個年輕gf, 證明自己還有"貨"?係未做人世, 你問下佢先啦。<br /><br /></p>
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咁當然如果真係生我都會同佢討論一下先..
<br>不過現實佢係唔係為左証明自己我就唔太清楚喇,
<br>但我感覺到佢真係好錫我同愛我, 而且我地識左幾年, 佢鍾意左我幾年先一齊既..
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<p>他是有錢人,你有他baby,他不會待薄你兩母子,將來生活係financially仲有保障tim。 </p>
<br><p>但係如果為有financial 保證而同他出。好似大劉,林建uk啲gf咁, 生左個個女人都仲有$$$ and 地位tim。。。但咁樣生bb意圖就是利用bb做棋子。令自己榮華富貴,最後,是否值得尊重呢?對不起,我的opinion不是針對板主的。</p>
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咁當然我有呢個諗法, 就唔係因為將來經濟問題..
<br>而係我真係好愛呢個男人, 如果係為錢, 我都唔會提到將來佢變心點算喇"
<br>而媽咪都同我講千奇唔好咁樣所以生仔, 如果我係30幾佢唔會理我
<br>但我後生, 唔需要咁做..
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純粹好奇心,板主的媽媽爸爸是否還年輕過五十歲bf呢?
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是的, 媽媽42爸爸45..
<br>不過媽媽表明不介意, 最重要係我真係鍾意佢而佢又錫我
<br>而爸爸一向唔係好CLOSE, 佢冇咩意見
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29 years difference can be a problem
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the largest difference i know is 34 years
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depending on what u want to get..........Professor YEUNG Chun-ning is older than his present wife by 60 years
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Mr. LI Shing-chak was born when his father was 60+
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Young Girl replied at 2010-06-07 2:30 am
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<br>咁其實男人去到幾多歲先冇左生育能力..
<br>佢有講過如果我有左就一定生唔會要我落BB"
<br>不過其實我一直都係食緊藥
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<br>Dr. Stanley HO has his youngest son when he was 78
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Young Girl replied at 2010-06-07 3:30 am
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<br>是的, 媽媽42爸爸45..
<br>不過媽媽表明不介意, 最重要係我真係鍾意佢而佢又錫我
<br>而爸爸一向唔係好CLOSE, 佢冇咩意見
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<br>is your mother a Monkewy women born in 1968?
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thanks for ur info.
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my pleasure
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were you a Snake girl, born in 1989?
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YES
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how about him, 1960 Rat man?
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the Snake month in 2010 has just passed.........
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yes, thats y i said im 21 he's 50
<br>wat snake month?
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Snake month is 巳 month, while 1989 Snake is 巳 year
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u get problem in 2010 Tiger year, if u know some basics of Metaphysics
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dunno wat u talkin' about..
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我知我今年犯太歲, 好似係沖太歲
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Young Girl replied at 2010-06-07 4:02 am
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<br>yes, thats y i said im 21 he's 50
<br>wat snake month?
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<br>not everyone can count exactly
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1989 people can be 22 if they were born before 4-6-1989
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likewise, 50 years old man can be born in 1959 when his birthday is after 8-6-1959
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我唔係好明喎, 就算1989年6月1號出世
<br>計返依定都係2010-1989都係=21姐...
<br>都唔知你點計, 但如果農曆蛇年年尾咁計..
<br>先會係有可能係2010年係20歲... 你點計個22出黎?
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<br>但都同TOPIC冇關..
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Young Girl replied at 2010-06-07 4:05 am
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<br>我知我今年犯太歲, 好似係沖太歲
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<br>sort of