Hard to find bf or start a relationship when u r over 30?
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<p>cos we lost our attractiveness or simply guys love young gals more?<br />pls dun tell me those 'kong gals' thing, as Im pretty sure Im not one of those<br /><br />I just want a simple guy who I can hang out with and share happinesness & sadness together<br /><br /></p>
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im 35 male<br />mature and tall<br />please add me have chat <br />nice to meet you <br />[email protected]
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hihi~
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nice to meet you, i'm 33 years old, single, male, live in T.S.T, back from canada, this is my msn : [email protected]
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Hi, I am 31 years old single,
<br>wanted to know someone for a long term relationship.
<br>could we share something in the future?
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Hi Autumn,
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<br>Mind to have a talk with a mature single guy at 41.
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<br>I am working in marketing field.
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<br>Tall and decent looking.
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<br>[email protected]
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Autumn, i want to find a lady like u, lets chat in msn ok? [email protected]
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im 35 male
<br>mature and tall
<br>please add me have chat
<br>nice to meet you
<br>[email protected]
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Autumn, it's not about age or attractiveness, it all about ppl in this century without patient anymore.
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And no matter guys or ladies, most of them here just relate in cyber, few of them will come to reality.
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hi all<br /><br />chambered,<br />yes, u r telling the truth but still maybe ppl hv high expectation of wht they might 'see' when they meet<br /><br />samerica, timothy, ken & hi<br />here u r , keep practicing yr copy & paste technique, add oil!!!<br /><br />mature man,<br />looking for a gal like me? interesting answer, maybe I should what r u looking for here?
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Autumn, agreed with you too.
<br>Time for me to sleep, wish you have a nice chat.
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anyone here?
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緣份既野好難講既
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very hard to meet nei
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其實又唔一定既, 參加多啲活動, 機會都會多啲
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many man is not cup of my tea nei....
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g,
<br>你注重外型多啲?
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30+ 都仲有好多型仔型女的 , 而且 , 後生女雖然有青春 , 但缺乏了女人味、韻味、學識、見識 .... 男人未必喜歡太 young 的!
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LandRover,
<br>agree , but mosy (Just most) of guys still hv that preference , right?
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<br>g,
<br>yes, being yr cup of tea is important
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<br>But I got a question here, how come guys are less mature than same age group of gals?
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nice to meet you, i'm 33 years old, single, male, live in T.S.T, back from canada , this is my msn : [email protected]
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share happinesness & sadness together<br />==========<br /><br />做到呢個程度都唔可以叫簡單喎!<br /><br />簡單既定義, 係米應該無欲無求? 直到兩人充分了解, 繼而互相體諒, 再接再厲地發展互相包容咁呢?<br /><br />一開始就要求有回報? 包生仔就已經唔SIMPLE 啦!<br /><br />
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hi Autumn,
<br>i'm 39, still finding my ms. right
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cool<br />guess u had misunderstand that, what Im trying to say is the honesty in the relationship, willing to share not just $$ but also feeling, no matter its good or bad<br /><br />hi 39<br />how r u tonite?
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性格缺定命運
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bored at home law, how about u?
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do you know why? be honest, from what your words i can feel you are a "ma-fan" girl. just like most "kong girl".
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39,<br />staying at home seems not a bad choice..esp after a hard day<br /><br />ivan,<br />wht makes u think that?
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one or two day is ok, but i stay at home everyday....>.<
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39,<br />cos no dates? :P<br />come on, Im sure u enjoy hanging out with yr buddies, right?
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from the first impression.
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This is copy from another thread: http://community.she.com/messageboard/relationship/?action=view.topic&id=2195815
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<br>Why it is so difficult to find another half after 30+ ?
<br>Some scenarios:
<br>1.A high quality lady (interm of appearance, income or education): if over 30 still single, she must have very high expectation of her partner, good men over 35 are mostly married already
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<br>2. A girl having good character but no good appearance: unfortunately most men would pay very much weight on their appearance. Although there sone good guys do care for girls' character, it takes long time foe a man to know the good character of a girl, therefore, apart from being colleagues, their chance from other source is pity slim.
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<br>3. For man who still single over 35, ther are either:
<br>a) enjoy their single lives and not bother to find their half anyway
<br>b) poor quality men that no girl will like them
<br>c) some problems in character that girl won't like them
<br>d) good quality men (in term of education, income or appearance) but have some defects, eg, divorced. As their quality is good, they would have some expectation as well, however, those good quality won't choose them as they have defect.
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<br>To conclude, it is very difficult to find another half after 30+ , haha
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your first few words showed you should be quite "inch" as many "kong girl". anyway, it's just my advice. i am not saying i am hating you in any sense.
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no target to date....>.<
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msn chat: [email protected]
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I also want to fish bf here too
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Hi Autumn
<br>I am 33 yr, 5"10, sincere & nice , working in design field.
<br>Our life is like design to solving problems around us. No matter good or worst things.
<br>Most important is the heart want to solve the problems or not.
<br>Nice to meet u here. Since I am not always here. If you have time & interest to chat can add my msn: [email protected]
<br>Thx,
<br>CK.
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Just read your post, 微涼的秋天, nice to meet you. May I give you MSN ID by mail? My address is [email protected]
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<br>Thank you!
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Autumn, you are the only who could judge whether you are losing your attractiveness.... if you think you are, then you really are!! and my guy friends told me, girls are the most attractive when they turn 30.... because they are knowledgeable, stylish, mature....
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sorri all, been a hack today n just get off from work<br /><br />ivan,<br />no offense, just want to be frank in here n ask wht I want to ask, if thats the 'inch' attitude, pls accept my apologies.<br /><br />Alison,<br />good point, cos we hv the charm that is totally difference from young gals, n hopefully will attract the right guy..haha<br /><br />fishing,<br />the word 'fish' seems abit awkward here, wrong impression might be given from that
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so u shouldnt downgrade urself to compare with whoever that is not in the league.... hahaa... and i believe everyone is attractive in her/his own way, so dont worry, no comparison out there. :-)
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<p>Alison,<br />i know its silly to compare with others, as every one in this world is unique<br />However, when u see couples on the street..some 'jealous' la n wanted to hv someone to share with also</p>