男人會唔會欣賞有男人性格既女人?

我唔明點解一段愛情關係入面需要"控制", 我見到果d咩呢個食住果個果個又要就住呢個, 真係有d恐怖... 係因為對自己/對方/呢段關係信心不足!?　愛唔係要愛一個人既全部? 唔係應該坦誠同尊重對方? 接受對方既性格同行為? 控制, 係長久, 健康, 性樂既事? 要對方失去自我/自由/自主? ... 不過呢個世界已經唔同哂, 人既思想同關係愈見複雜, 亦愈見失常, 本末倒置.... 唉...
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 大把女人係咁樣，可能對自己冇信心卦！
 中意老公/男朋友聽晒自己話，應酬朋友又話唔得，最好一放工就即刻返屋企食飯訓教，網都唔准上。

candy replied at 2010-10-20 3:20 am
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 八兩金幽默風趣兼搞笑，同佢做朋友都幾開心囉！
 之但係唔會有投緣果種感覺，唔可以話對耐咗會麻木，唔會對耐咗佢就生高幾寸襯番我。哈哈哈~~~
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 你個人都好極耐下,用既例子都好極端.你覺得八兩金好幽默風趣,點解我唔覺...其實你想講乜啫,即係樣比性格重要?

睇嚟版主已瞓,zzzz,如果有興趣,得閒大家在msn交流下. 88
 
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zzzz replied at 2010-10-20 2:55 am
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 不是小鳥依人 replied at 2010-10-20 2:49 am
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 有 D 唔明，既然你有你所講既男人性格，點解會問“男人會唔會欣賞有男人性格既女人?”
 
 我自己都唔係會嗲既女人，所以好自然有 D 男人唔會愛上我，但同樣地，我亦唔會愛上只鍾意小鳥依人既男人.
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 首先, 我從來冇generalize過女人=小鳥依人. 你睇返我既Posts,我絕冇咁講過.如果有人自己寫出來話「女人=/=小鳥依人」,這已證明佢自己先入為主有這個perception.
 
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 我唔係呢個意思，我只是打個比喻。用文字表達好難加入“語氣”，好易被誤解。不過吹水係咁架啦，越講越遠。。。。。。。；）

即是話乜嘢性格都會有人中意，人夾人緣。
 眼緣好緊要，冇乜人會因為欣賞性格而中意一個唔合眼緣既女人/男人。
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 家下又冇話有性格就一定冇樣，有樣就一定冇好性格。
 兩樣都可以同樣擁有嘛！

zzzz, care to chat? you gave me a feeling that you had received certain kind of training to analyze and your brain simply sorts things out by logical equations, lol...not sure if it's a right guess :)

呢種性格又唔係一定大女人,唔係乜都要話哂事,只「辯論」係冇咁warm,同埋好少埋堆,好討厭social. 如果你講既嘢唔啱數,佢就會同你「辯論」,,不能忍受歪理或大男人主意,男人會頂得順嗎? 有點懷疑...
 
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 版主呢種性格無嘜特別,慢熱,討厭,不愛埋堆愛「辯論」,好多人都係我都係.....其實人與人之間不多不少都存在佐你本身喜愛什麼性格同外型,真係不用問,不過我相信如果係孤僻的,十問九不答的,說真係有問題

From the respnonses of threadhostess's own and other women's sour ones, I think she has well exhibited the difference, I can see her point... :)