40+ single people's club
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<font color="#666666">newlife replied @ 2009-05-18 1:50 pm<br /><br /></font>
<br><div style="OVERFLOW: hidden; WIDTH: 600px">a lot of single mother la <br /></div>
<br><font color="#ff00ff" size="3">may be more than that of Married Mothers</font>
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Emma_MM replied @ 2009-05-18 4:40 pm
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<br>newlife,
<br>my nervous feeling of marriage was gone, I quite enjoy being single especially living alone, free as a bird.
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<br>>==== I can drink to that! long live freedom!! LOL
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Emma, good la
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rothchild, i think because u got your own place to live. It's the biggest point to be freedom and of course u got enough money to enjoy ma.
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any tips on stock?
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rothchild,
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<br>what is your definition of playboy?
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<br>when I was in early 20's, I used to go to disco on every weekend for dancing only, no fooling or sleeping around, this was not qualified to be a playgirl I supposed.
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I want it too.
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<strong><font color="#7d2500">Emma_MM</font></strong><font color="#666666"> <img src="http://community.she.com/messageboard/images/icon_nickname.gif" align="absBottom" alt="" /> replied @ 2009-05-18 4:52 pm</font><br /><br /><font size="3">Certainly NOT, that way</font>
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Emma - my tips is simple: don't get greedy. I almost went broke back in the late 90's on my investments in real estates and stock market.
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<br>Newlife. I don't have money but having a small but cozy place to stay sure helps alot not having to worry about rent or paying the mortage. Plus I don't have to worry about paying for cosmetics or children's school tuition - that's a real relief.
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newlife,
<br>no tips at all...recently I trade the same stock, one and only one.
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newlife - what do you want ? a place of your own or freedom ?
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<br>Emma_MM
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<br>You were nocturnally active and outgoing. No you were not a playgirl. I define a player as someone who dates a lot, sometimes stepping on two boats or more at the same time, and not willing to put genuine feelings into a relationship that easily.
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<font size="3">exactly, + sleeping around....</font>
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rothchild,
<br>don't get greedy. I almost went broke back in the late 90's on my investments in real estates and stock market.
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<br>I have already learnt from the asian financial crisis in 1997, now I will be more careful.
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LOL passerby - I like your talents in touching up words. You are very useful.
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rothchild,
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<br>will you find a new relationship or on your own in the rest of your life?
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what about u, Emma
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Rothchild, of course, a place to live and freedom too.
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As I didn't have wild life before, now i want to do what I really wanted.
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Emma
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<br>sometimes I still flirt with girls in stores and in she.com. Bad habits diehard but in the past 2 -3 years I have no intention to start any relationships whether it be causual or serious.
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<br>My plan so far is to live a solitary life.
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<br>I treasure friendship more as I grow older. True frienship outlast everything.
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<br>I use to share a joke with my good friend. I would ask him: " what if one day we fight over cardboard boxes in the streets ? would you hate me for it and beat me or would you let me have them so I could buy a box of ham & egg rice. sorry I got carried away haha
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newlife replied @ 2009-05-18 5:21 pm
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<br>As I didn't have wild life before, now i want to do what I really wanted.
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<br>If you were given a second chance, say you can travel back in time in your early 20's, you want to try to become a bad girl and experience all the bad things in life ?
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newlife,
<br>a companion...最好唔一齊住, 因為我自己一個住太耐, 怕適應唔到兩個人一齊, 唔想因生活習慣不同而磨擦.
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rothchild, maybe i would say yes, and i think i lost a lot of chances before.
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<br>Emma, it's good to hear that u got your own place to live.
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Emma - I totally agree.
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<br>Living together is a dead end in a relationship (or many). Knowing too much of the other person might not be a good thing. It is sad that I learnt many marriages husbands and wives have his/her separate rooms.
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newlife,
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<br>your remind me something...
<br>I have asked a few married men..."why you look for affair?" they said "後生時未玩過". I'm wondering if people really have no regret if they had 玩夠before married?
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that's what wanted before i die. haha......
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Emma - you want to hear it from a man's point of view ? Deep down inside with no hypocrisy ?
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<br>後生時未玩過". is "fon pay". Once a person's mind is corrupted would be like taking drugs. Once you take K jai you would want to experience it to the next level and try something more higher. Men have affairs have nothing to do with their inexperiences in younger lives. Infact the more lovers he had before marriage the more likely he would have an affair. It is like an addiction but it can be stopped it one is determined. Unfortunately many men are weak when being seduced or simply they don't love their wives enough to understand the meaning of loyalty and devotion.
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<br>I'm not a saint but I draw boundary if I were a father or a husband. I would try to look the other way when being tempted by ladies with low cuts or short shirts. Run away if I have to. But that's just talk, easier said than done la
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newlife
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<br>True story. I met a girl back in college. She was an abc. she once told me she wished to be a virgin and gave it to me instead of her ex bf. So if you wish you could have played more, the chances are you may regret it now. I'm not only implying in a sexual situation, but trying to say something in life should be left untouch. Knowing less is sometimes better for the mind.
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newlife
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<br>你想點玩?...單對單, ONS, 一腳踏兩船 or 一腳踏幾船?
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emma, of course, one to one, but just dont' think of future too much. Need fun.
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newlife
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<br>"Need fun"...it is not difficult in here as long as you are female.
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I mean not easy to find someone who will put whole heart on it.
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I mean not easy to find someone who will put whole heart on it.
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<br>the chance is minuscule as most people at our age are married.
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yes, that's true.
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<p><font size="3">does your whole heart means 100%?</font></p>
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Emma_MM replied @ 2009-05-18 6:28 pm
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<br>the chance is minuscule as most people at our age are married.
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<br>Maybe there are still some who are divorced or still single like me. The worst is when people lie about both.
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<font size="3">lie is never a good practice</font>
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Hello, everybody.
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good morning, everyone.
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hv u found ur new love?
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hihi, i am less than 40+, can i join, because i love talk to mature people, i am 30+.
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lv, still can't find my real love.
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Hi, Mictat, of course, u can join us.
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hi newlife, how are you?
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hi all