婚前的錯事....(有sex內容, 不喜勿入..)
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我今年30歲, 同而家男友(即係未婚夫, 32歲)一齊左3年, 今年9月會結婚,<br />近排都忙住搞帖, 酒席之類既野, 做到個人有d散<br />我一直以為結婚前既人, 一定係會好開心好興奮,<br />但到而家先發覺原來唔係咁<br />冇乜心情不特止, 反而仲成日有d好失落既感覺....<br /><br />我一直都有教琴, 但因為要結婚, 決定左今年教埋3月就唔再教,<br />其中有個男學生J, 佢21歲, 跟左我學琴已經3年<br />我一共有10個學生, 佢係最tum得我開心既一個,<br />佢係果d好識tum女仔開心既人, 今年2月我同佢講話教埋3月唔教,<br />佢好唔捨得, 到2月尾就話請我食飯, 直到一晚我同佢出左去dinner,<br />果排係我最唔開心既時間, 差唔多可以話係抑鬱期, 但係同佢一齊時會有d令我忘記唔開心既感覺,<br />就係果晚, 我好意外地同J上左床, 佢都有講話其實一直對我都有好感,<br />其實佢對我黎講, 好似有種令我拋開煩惱既作用咁, <br />我有時都好想知, 係結婚令我有好大壓力, 先會咁樣, 定係其他原因,<br />因為我同佢上床其實都好內疚, 因為我知自己就快要結婚, <br />但直到到而家, 我一共同佢上過5次床.....<br /><br />最大問題, 我呢個月仲未黎PERIOD......<br /><br />有心既人可以俾下意見我, TKS!!!
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by the way, i think your desire to get married is not so strong, rite?
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平淡是福.
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去驗啦.... 唉~~
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成年人, 要對自己0既所作所為負責任, 唔好後悔亦無得後悔.
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睇醫生
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快D落咗嗰仔啦,第日比你老公驗出嗰仔唔系佢,發生倫常慘案都有份
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同個21歲o靚仔行.個o靚仔仲有大把時間玩.
<br>你就成30歲.仲可唔可以搵到個人同你結婚.
<br>知足常樂.
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你娶唔過, 就算娶左你老公都必定有二奶或其他女人
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u should have a year of trouble, if u r Horse woman, born in 1978. BoBo CHAN can't get maeeied bcos of Edison
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<br>don't u know safe Sex? at the age of 30?
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佢都有講話其實一直對我都有好感
<br>fxxk 佢玩妳咋
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做個成熟的決定,驗孕.如果,有bb,要決定要,還是不要.
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<br>無論bb要還是不要,都要影響自己結婚或繼續同學生仔一齊的決定.結婚要因為想同對方一生一世的誠諾.因為結婚證書就是一張證書,是你人生的一個記錄.
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<br>如果你可以同一個學生仔有關係,結婚後情況都未必能改變.先要對自己負責任,先可以對其他人有誠諾.如果婚後仍然有這些關係,最傷心和痛苦的是你先生.
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Whats wrong with Julie? Many Japanese girls have similar experience....Be wild when you are young and single.....Better than to regret after marriage....The main theme is: Did she loves her future husband and did she really wants the marriage?
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add 我msn, 等我了解下, 俾d意見你
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俾我係你學生,明知你就結婚,我都一定唔介意同你上多幾次床wor...
<br>人地tum 女仔叻一件事,而30歲既女人應該唔會咁2俾0靚仔tum到先係ga..
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30女同個21男???????????
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<br>so excited~~~!!!!!
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你好似v太案的女人
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<br>咁鐘意其他男人, 唔好結婚啦
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同自己講第時你老公包二奶,三奶,四奶....
<br>自己都要忍,
<br>因為呢D應該係報應黎
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你有第一次
<br>必有第二次
<br>你愛你未來老公,放過佢啦
<br>等佢搵個唔會偷食的
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點解要都覺得有bb先覺得呢段關係有問題?
<br>after第1次應該考慮啦
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julie
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<br>吊完你又唔洗負責任. 你真死蠢
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你同佢發生第一次 當你好唔開心 亂左 都算
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<br>之後仲有發生 . . . . 5次. . . .
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<br>為左自己忘憂 就唔理未婚夫感受
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<br>希望你唔會有第 6次 = . =
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julie
<br>hihi,do u need any suggestion.i am working in medical field.may be i can help u.my msn is [email protected]
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(就係果晚, 我好意外地同J上左床, 佢都有講話其實一直對我都有好感)
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<br>我就黎40歲, 係我以前的年代
<br>暗戀係好美麗, 對像結婚, 會默默祝福
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<br>而家的細路, 暗戀等於暗中想食
<br>人地結婚,走去破壞,正xx
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fix the BB first, then the relationship, then marriage
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阿飛 : 同意 = . =
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阿飛 : 同意 = . =
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<br>感動, 呢度d人多數話我out
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可能我既表達令人會誤會
<br>事實上我而家唔係俾人呃, tum左上床, 唔係呢一回事
<br>我點解會同佢一次之後又一次, 到而家一共做過5次
<br>係因為我會覺得, 面對住佢, 好似可以脫離到現實
<br>唔駛煩惱咁多野, 咁大壓力
<br>或者我男友屋企人, 都俾左唔少pressure我, 或者係婚姻本身既壓力
<br>我唔知.......
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<br>對住我學生, 感情上我會覺得冇可能,
<br>但佢能夠令我覺得relax到, 亦係一個事實
<br>同時我都feel到, 佢都有俾心意出黎關心我既狀況
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<br>頭一次同佢上床, 我同自己講, 係俾藉口自己發洩
<br>第二, 三次, 我覺得好似想麻醉自己咁
<br>所以呢3次我都有用condom
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<br>但之後, 我覺得感覺唔同左, 所以冇用到....
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Dr.J,
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<br>are u really a doctor??
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<br>u can help??
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同時我都feel到, 佢都有俾心意出黎關心我既狀況 .....
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<br>同鋼琴老師上床, 係好多麻甩仔的性幻想
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<br>俾著我, 我都扮下關心,去maintain 呢個relationship
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<br>如果你話對佢有感情,咁唔好結婚啦, 試下同佢拍拖
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<br>唔好呃你男朋友
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<br>身體同感情都係你的, 我唔想話你錯對
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<br>但涉及第二個人,你就要有d責任感
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自已賤格就賤格啦,搞左一次仲唔夠,仲要搞夠5次,跟本自已搵藉口發姣,本生對條o靚仔一早流哂口水,好心你拿拿聲同自已個男友講清楚,唔好害人害物
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Dr.J,
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<br>are u really a doctor??
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<br>u can help??
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<br>搵家計會或者其他醫生啦
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<br>你30歲, 有乜依郁, 影響生育啊
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唔錯都錯左, 你最好冷靜一下
<br>好好諗清楚, 女人係易動情既動物
<br>你愛上小男生, 係真定假呢?
<br>你去買野驗左有無BB先啦, 可能因為緊要者。
<br>就黎結婚, 你愛佢嗎
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你以為自己拍緊戲呀? 可以NG再黎過? 30歲人都仲咁唔理知既. 要唔用DOM都可以食藥啦.
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連妳自己都分唔清自己既感覺
<br>有邊個答到妳 ?
<br>第一次就話可能係壓力
<br>妳已經係第五次
<br>完全係縱慾啦
<br>一場夢就令妳變成咁
<br>可想而知妳對感情係幾咁兒嬉....幾咁脆弱....
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頭一次同佢上床, 我同自己講, 係俾藉口自己發洩
<br>第二, 三次, 我覺得好似想麻醉自己咁
<br>所以呢3次我都有用condom
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<br>但之後, 我覺得感覺唔同左, 所以冇用到.... <-------- with a different, and "unexpected" result!?
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<br>you want to marry the kid? Elder Sister Young Brother affairs?
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Hi Julile,
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<br>may i give u a advise? i have this experience before. same as you.
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<br>[email protected]
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the important thing for you to think about is who you love most? your fiance or the kid? do you still want to get married?
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<br>why didnt you do protection for the last 2 sex? becoz u've alreadly fallen for the kid? or some other reasons?
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<br>if you realised its a 錯事, try to fix it..it becomes unfair to ur fiance. Honestly, i dont think it's a really a big deal of having fun with the kid as everyone makes mistake..we are all human..we are not saint. Nevertheless, u have to think thoroughly what the next step is...it's all on your hands..no one here know more the real situation than yourself...ur have to make up your mind...
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<br>Good luck
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你夠姜就講比你未婚夫聽。
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依家令你覺得煩惱既事係你無黎M, 你都已經係30歲既成年人, 我都相信你知自己做緊咩事, 既然你選擇唔用套, 應該知道後果係點?
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<br>你都係去睇醫生驗下先, 之後再諗下一步, 我相信你都係有經濟能力既人, 你都係擔心唔知有無人認頭?
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As a man, i will eat what ever i can eat. Wake up.
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我只覺得你未婚夫好慘
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<br>不過你的post 都係好事
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<br>最少不再只說男性衰 有時女性更衰
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細個呀媽教你要誠實,你應講比你未婚夫聽。
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其實我從來冇講過, 我係個堅貞既女人
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<br>我都知, 響呢個時候做呢d野係會令我男友好hurt
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<br>我post上黎, 都係想舒解下自己, 唔想收收埋埋
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<br>同period未黎果方面, 想聽d advice
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<br>有時我會覺得, 男人自己想要sex時, 就會講到sex係件好普通既事
<br>好似食飯咁普通, 係人都需要, 男女都唔需要壓抑自己
<br>但係終有一天, 聽到有個女仔通過sex去舒發自己
<br>就會拎返哂d道德觀出黎講, 話點樣唔應該......
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<br>我承認同學生J上床係有D反叛, 對抗既感覺
<br>有人覺得係我俾佢呃左
<br>但我反而覺得似我利用左佢多d...
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what a bitch you are !!!!!
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<br>stop the wedding and tell your 未婚夫 la, slut.
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confrim your pregnancy sin la
<br>thats the priority
<br>without that bady onone can charge you of disloyalty to your hubby ga
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真搞笑~
<br>如果係咁 你是否都不介意你未婚夫 同你一樣出去滖 ?
<br>定你們結婚之後 各有各出去搞
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<br>你把自己有問題做錯的事 說到自己覺得合理 - . -
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我覺得你唔應該結婚...免費搞出悲劇....繼續你既亂七八糟性生活
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julie replied @ 2008-04-25 12:08 am
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<br>其實我從來冇講過, 我係個堅貞既女人
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<br>我都知, 響呢個時候做呢d野係會令我男友好hurt
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<br>我post上黎, 都係想舒解下自己, 唔想收收埋埋
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<br>同period未黎果方面, 想聽d advice
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<br>有時我會覺得, 男人自己想要sex時, 就會講到sex係件好普通既事
<br>好似食飯咁普通, 係人都需要, 男女都唔需要壓抑自己
<br>但係終有一天, 聽到有個女仔通過sex去舒發自己
<br>就會拎返哂d道德觀出黎講, 話點樣唔應該......
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<br>我承認同學生J上床係有D反叛, 對抗既感覺
<br>有人覺得係我俾佢呃左
<br>但我反而覺得似我利用左佢多d...
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<br>你點知佢投入愛妳?
<br>佢都係可能玩下
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<br>而且, 佢唔會大肚, 你會, 佢可以拍拍屁股走人,你要諗下養一個細路或殺一個未成型生命
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<br>新思維, 性解放唔係話做就做, 你醒下
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julie
<br>nothing wrong with what have you done, all expect one
<br>you want to play, play safe
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