我發覺, 同男朋友相處, 如果有爭吵的話, 女方靜落黎, 唔吵唔鬧, 唔發顛, 咁樣仲易令到對方"緊張"你.
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不變的定律
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exactly
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扮弱者一向都剎食~
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係ga,唔出聲老公就煩到死gala,鬥嘈無著數,男人鍾意做道理王,haha
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靜, 唔係代表扮弱者.
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<br>而係本身大吵大鬧的你, 突然間點解會咁靜呢?
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道理王~好抵死~~
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靜落黎, 唔吵唔鬧, 唔發顛, 再加埋唔出聲. 不過最好唔好黑面. 自己要控制自己既情緒, 咁bf會tum番你架喇.
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<br>不過當然佢tum你果時, 你又唔好好似win哂咁既資態!
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bowie728728 replied @ 2008-03-26 12:11 pm
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<br>靜, 唔係代表扮弱者.
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<br>而係本身大吵大鬧的你, 突然間點解會咁靜呢?
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<br>>>> 因為要放下強者姿態...以退為進
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以退為進, 永遠都係最好0既, 但係唔係個個都可以保持住.
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Katie,
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<br>you must be a good gf ^ ^
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Katie又o岩wor,我次次黑面就仲煩,老公一邊say sorry其實一邊勁唔gur
<br>唔黑面反而佢真心tum返好快無事
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bowie728728 replied @ 2008-03-26 12:19 pm
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<br>以退為進, 永遠都係最好0既, 但係唔係個個都可以保持住.
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<br>>>> 係ar~ 所以要時刻提醒自己
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尤其是係皮四超唔好0個0的, 我依家都改緊.
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E...呢招我以前都成日用ga wor....不過都係被插....
<br>"你出下聲la?"
<br>"你到底有冇聽緊ga?"
<br>"死蛇爛鱔咁想點ar?"
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其實如果你bf唔係大男人
<br>以退為進一定sure win~
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Den_Nis,
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<br>Aren't you a boy???
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Den_Nis
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<br>請問你男定女?
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我.......皮四超唔好 + 記仇
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<br>3歲定80...好難改
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如果EQ甘好,抵你男友緊張你啦
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honey)))))))))))) ^3^
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如果EQ甘好,抵你男友緊張你啦
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<br>by rosy_shadow - 03/26/08 12:24
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<br>都話改緊咯.
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<br>唔只為左佢, 對我自己本身都係百利而無一害.
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male ar...kaka
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不過, 我0的FDS話我冷靜左.
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kiki@shun,
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<br>呵..咁要提防你喇~
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Den_Nis replied @ 2008-03-26 12:22 pm
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<br>E...呢招我以前都成日用ga wor....不過都係被插....
<br>"你出下聲la?"
<br>"你到底有冇聽緊ga?"
<br>"死蛇爛鱔咁想點ar?"
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<br>>>> 呢招對男人....唔work ge ^^
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其實我都唔明
<br>點解情侶會哎交
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我以前無拖拍0既時候, 真係好識得咩野叫做自得其樂, 我日日都過住0的好似神仙般0既生活, 得閒就呢到去0個到去 (雖則依家都係一樣).
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<br>但自從拍左拖之後, 個人開始變, 皮四愈黎愈燥. 可能係因為多左個人係身邊掛... 我唔知啦~ 所以, 我為我自己好, 我依家都改善緊.
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rlcm_she,
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<br>我以前就係成日大吵大鬧同發顛既gf, 後來就比一個”溫柔”既女子搶左個bf. 不過後尾發現”溫柔”係只係岩岩拍拖先有.
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<br>後來學識左自己控制自己既情緒. 你大吵大鬧都係想個bf認低威tum番你o者, 你愈係企梗, 佢咪愈難搵個位入黎tum你囉.
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<br>而家同bf拍左4年拖, 次次有意見分歧既時候, 都好快無事. 有時佢唔知點tum, 佢都會扮無事講左第2d野, 而我咪要識趣扮”dei”問佢做咩唔tum番我囉. 永遠唔會有嬲多過一日!
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<br>有時女仔都要讓下步既.
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bowie728728,
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<br>拍左拖開始緊張身邊既人麻, 由其係係she.com睇見咁多偷情例子. 唔到你唔驚.
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<br>大吵大鬧只會令個bf走得快d.
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Den_Nis replied @ 2008-03-26 12:22 pm
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<br>E...呢招我以前都成日用ga wor....不過都係被插....
<br>"你出下聲la?"
<br>"你到底有冇聽緊ga?"
<br>"死蛇爛鱔咁想點ar?"
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<br>如果你係男仔, 咁同個gf講只會令佢更燥.
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katie
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<br>佢"接受"左我0的皮四三年. 佢會覺得我唔發皮四反而會好奇怪..... 咁0既男人都有....
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<br>不過算啦, 我都唔想比自己再為0的少事郁0的就咁勞氣.
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試下對佢好d囉, 講真唔改, 佢都可能有一日因為"接受"唔到而走.
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<br>我同我ex都3年.
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其實近期我都係到諗, 係咪應該再同佢行埋落去.
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<br>唔係話皮唔皮四0既問題, 而係好似相處唔到咁, 又或者係我自己要求多左啦.
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通常大吵大鬧係想表現自己在爭吵過程dominate 個situation.
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<br>Bowie suggested 得好, 在此情况靜下來, 才是可控制得到局面. 自己EQ, 修養都提升的!
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<br>細路仔時朋友仔撩交嗌, 呀媽最大錦囊便叫我不作回應. 真係交都鬧唔成好冇癮走開. 此錦囊仍可活用.
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點相處唔到?
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CheerfulSweetie: hey u changed ur profile photo? I sent u an email a month ago, wonder if u have rec'd it.
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知易行難呀....我都係改緊,不過真係好火個陣通常都控制唔到
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baby努力呀!
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Hey, guilty me:
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<br>Yeah, I changed my profile pic.
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<br>I didn't receive your email.
<br>here again: [email protected]
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<br>How things going? Hope things are well with you and your family!
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katie,
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<br>無錯,我當你係自己人,又點會同你嗌交呢,到我真係會同你嗌既時候,我已經唔多愛你喇
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Katie, thanks呀,我會努力
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而家既”嗌交”, 可能都係大家想人tum, 想人就o者.
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<br>男人都要人tum下既.
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<br>rlcm_she replied @ 2008-03-26 12:28 pm
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<br>其實我都唔明
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<br>你地都無嗌交?
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無牙
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其實我覺得反而認真既關係先多交拗,因為大家會對對方有比較認真既expectation,會覺得兩個人要相處落去就一定要compromise一d野,唔認真洗咩鬧姐,日日都sweet sweet都得啦
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好既example, 我都想同bf諗野可以一致d. 唔好有分岐
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係既
<br>不過唔嗌交
<br>唔等於唔會比對方知
<br>我唔鐘意你d咩野
<br>你唔鐘意我d咩野
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有道理, 咩都要同大家講既. 有咩唔岩講到岩囉.
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點相處唔到?
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<br>by katie - 03/26/08 12:55
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<br>我自己都唔識點答你.
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