愈來愈覺得老公冇用...



  • 唔知仲可以同邊個傾...

    老公同我差唔多年紀,幾年前結咗婚,一直租樓住,其實我一早知道佢份工唔會搵好多錢㗎喇,我一路都有叫佢試吓轉工,(我以為)人人都想進步㗎嘛,初初大家畢業出嚟,佢月入都有14K,我自己低佢少少,不過一直有進修,唔知係際遇定性格問題,我依家月入60K,佢一直都係around 19K,今年公司仲cut人cut咗佢出嚟,跟住佢話要創業,做下d散job(時有時無),唔想做full-time,所以依家可以話係0收入.

    我哋一早講好咗婚後財政獨立,即係大家放錢喺一個pool,由嗰度俾expenses,一直都OK,就算佢失業唔去搵工走去創業,我都話如果佢可以維持倒每月仍然有錢放落個pool度就OK...開頭幾個月佢都有咁做,最近佢話已經冇錢,要我俾哂d租,我問佢咁我俾到幾時先唔駛再幫佢俾,佢話唔知,不過佢話佢會揾工...到依家我已經俾咗3個月租...

    鬧又鬧過,同佢屋企人又傾過,佢都好似冇咩動力去搵份長工咁,唉...



  • 揾過個老公



  • 性格,如果婚前已知……………更難處理



  • 很明白家家有本難唸的經,两夫妻只有越走越遠,分開也未必是壞事,



  • 佢又唔係打算一直做失業廢青,有創業既打算同埋又一直做緊散工,其實都算上進
    你地話要每個月放錢落個pool,咁而家佢失業食谷種,又點仲有錢放落去呢?
    可能創業係佢既夢想,你又有無尊重支持過佢?
    之前有個香港女仔嫁左個瑞典老公,佢老公失業之後養足佢12年,最終等到佢成功左
    你而家比3個月租已經頂佢唔順?
    你又有幾愛你老公呢?



  • 人生就係咁㗎啦。 冇話一定行得好順喔。
    唔系咁就話想分開吖嘛?
    三個月啫,比多啲時間佢囉。
    做人老婆就要支持老公㗎啦,再睇下佢點!



  • 男人不嬲都係冇用架啦



  • 其實唔係我唔想支持佢, 但係佢自己有手有腳, 可以去揾野做, 點解我要養埋佢? 佢所謂嘅散工, 都係一個月1-2日咁大把... 我唔想令佢個人懶哂, 以為一路可以咁.



  • 衹可以講其實唔夠愛佢,或者你個人本身就自私。3個月都唔係好長既時間,佢創業都要時間構思同籌備,加上佢之前失業肯定受到一定打擊,或者佢想休息下,你又有無支持佢呢?婚姻就係要互相支持,而唔係都對方失意就嫌棄對方,你都唔想有一日自己人老珠黃老公嫌棄你。你不如自己上網睇下果個香港女仔點樣養左個瑞典老公12年,睇下愛情可以係點樣。



  • Based on your limited info, I think you are feeling the husband is not financially making contribution to thr family because he hasn't tried hard enough to look for a job after layoff. Does he contribute to family in other ways? Your husband just got layoff, not quitted and he must feel down and this is the moment you as a wife to show support and motivate him. 3 months is NOT a long time.....maybe ask him to study to upgrade or something. Make him commit when he finds a job he will have to pay back the rent he missed...



  • 做人妻子,對丈夫都一沉百踩,落井下石,真是有點過分!



  • 其實你嫁佢時已經睇到個TREND LA.



  • 其實係唔係有另一個追緊你



  • 我都覺得你個老公懶,而你倒是很勤力。

    創業好多時係唔想返工既借口。自從有左電玩,男人就懶左好多。

    你同佢唔夾,唔知點解你兩個會結婚。無細路的話,早點分手好。



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  • @anonymous
    你記唔記你老公有咩特質呢會嫁俾佢呀?