情人節快樂^_^，得傾就入嚟傾下計啦~~

bubbles
 my query about birth pain is in respect to yr statement of "I don't know if you have to be the position to know what you would do".
 
 yes, i strongly believe there are many things in life, that u need to really experience or in that position or scenario to understand/realize what yr feeling would be or what u would react.

bubbles
 if you don't wanna know how it feels to (possibly) get burnt, don't play with the fire in the first place--> i wonder how this fits in our discusssion of whether to let the other half knowing we meet nfs.
 
 中國人有句話叫瓜田李下，在擠迫地鐵車箱，如果前面有個女士，我會盡量move away from her to avoid any physical contact. 道理同不讓另一半知去見異性nf 一樣，即使冇野，都無謂制做不必要誤會&懷疑！
 
 i m not convincing u to suspect yr hubby if he meets nfs, but i know i gonna be in trouble if i do so, i would choose not to, that simple!!

Well it's relevant to our discussion in the sense that there are always something you know you would do/wouldn't do without having to experience it (ie. I know I wouldn't have any problems with my hubby meeting female netfriend if I am also invited).

Hi bubbles,
 Still need to work this morning?

Good morning Moscato
 Nah just had breakfast with friend, now chillaxing at home a bit before I head out again later. You?

Bubbles replied at 2015-03-07 11:13 am
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 Well it's relevant to our discussion in the sense that there are always something you know you would do/wouldn't do without having to experience it (ie. I know I wouldn't have any problems with my hubby meeting female netfriend if I am also invited).
 ===============================================================
 hey, come on !!
 
 when did i say we need to experience everything b4 we know?
 my wording was "there are (NOT ALL) things in life....."
 
 it's fine we see things differently, as we are all individuals with individual thinking & views, but pls dont 扭曲 my msg!!
 
 pointless to drag on this issue, heading out too & happy weekend for all~~

Chill, no one mentioned 'everything' or tried to distort anyone's meaning. Apparently, we have very different perspectives on this topic.
 
 Before it becomes an endless discussion, I am gonna rest my case here. Have a good weekend. ;-)

我無加入你哋嘅 discussion,
 其實呢幾日有你哋陪我傾計，
 當大部分thread都係各有原因，
 而我，難聽啲講o危水吹^_^¦¦¦
 大家都一齊唔識嘅都傾下，感覺幾好
 就好似識新朋友咁，（人大咗工作忙，好少識到新朋友lu,大家上次識新朋友係幾時？）
 
 但我個人認為，人同人之間嘅相處只有當時人明白
 每人也有每人嘅睇法，無絕對嘅啱同錯
 自己嘅選擇，自己明白，自己承受，局外人何需掛心
 我依稀記得中六中七，中文課程其中一句，
 “和而不同”
 大家本來就係個體就係不同，
 但會欣賞對方嘅優點，了解多啲嘅
 例如bubbles, 爽直，自愛
 宅男有高超厨藝，慳家，坦白
 Hugo, 尊重女仕，勇敢，
 實有人話我天真，人講咩我信咩，
 但只要傷害唔到我，我願意相信
 相信係人際關係的第一步喔
 朋友就係一步一步建立
 多謝陪過我傾計的每一位
 希望大家開開心心過每一日
 尋日唔開心嘅嘢就留底喺尋日*^▁^*
 
 可能小女子有得所罪，還望各位多多見諒

Bubbles,
 
 我將會做乖女，攞位同阿媽飲茶*^▁^*

Moscato bravo! I agree with everything you said dear.
 
 Like you I am just here to kill my time, I never take anything people said personally so no worries. We are different in our own ways and the same goes for the perspective on many things in life.
 
 I enjoy discussion with other people to get their different point of views, yet it takes like minded people to have a stimulating discussion. ;-)

What a 乖女!
 Enjoy your dim sum and quality time with your mom. ;-)
 
 I am still waiting for my phone to get fully charged. :-(

Bubbles,
 
 U use iphone?

benedict, ringo, jonathan 應該係hugo其他alias
 佢其實好輕易認

No, why?

Bubbles,
 
 Sony?
 I seldom hv this problem, I always hv spare battery

Passerby replied at 2015-03-07 12:38 pm
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 benedict, ringo, jonathan 應該係hugo其他alias
 佢其實好輕易認
 ===============================================================

Samsung
 I have spare battery too but I forgot to charge the stand by one when I woke up to a drained battery this morning. LOL

好耐無出街, 終於玩到今朝3點幾先返屋企 :p

5 course tasting menu 真係唔難整, 咩都整細細份就得, 係要買多d varieties 同要多d時間prepare.

宅男，
 最緊要玩得開心！！^O^☺
 
 唔難整？嗯……我都勉強可以整到5course
 
 我平時就
 oyster 2-3，
 +/- mussels
 Or garlic bread,
 Maybe french bread with sardine dip
 Cold cut platter:Cheeses, salami sausage,crackers
 Parma Ham with fig, cantaloupe, pear
 Caesar salad
 Soup
 Rib eye/ Lamb rack/ salmon fillet etc
 +/- pasta
 
 
 但夾埋 wine pairing 就難倒我啦

哇, 好豐富 ^^
 今日menu：
 
 Appetiser
 Pan-fried scallops with deep green blends salad (glass of cava)
 
 Soup
 Lobster bisque
 
 Seafood
 Mussels in white wine sauce (glass of leftover white wine)
 
 Main
 Rib-eye steak (glass of red wine)
 
 Dessert
 Tiramisu (glass of dessert wine)
 
 Coffee
 Cappuccino/Latte

兩個人份量, 材料錢大慨二百, 抵過出街食好多 :)

I am drooling over your tasting menu, no wonder your friend wanna catch up with you regularly. LOL

宅男,
 
 你好厲害, 可以另外開 thread "宅男廚房"教整野食 ^_^

Bubbles replied at 2015-03-07 12:04 pm
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 Chill, no one mentioned 'everything' or tried to distort anyone's meaning. Apparently, we have very different perspectives on this topic.
 
 Before it becomes an endless discussion, I am gonna rest my case here. Have a good weekend. ;-)
 
 ===============================================================
 good, great !!
 
 finally [probably reluctantly tho :-)] u do agree on there are things......then, dont u? hahaha...

Moscato replied at 2015-03-07 12:10 pm
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 我無加入你哋嘅 discussion,
 其實呢幾日有你哋陪我傾計，
 當大部分thread都係各有原因，
 而我，難聽啲講o危水吹^_^¦¦¦
 大家都一齊唔識嘅都傾下，感覺幾好
 就好似識新朋友咁，（人大咗工作忙，好少識到新朋友lu,大家上次識新朋友係幾時？）
 
 但我個人認為，人同人之間嘅相處只有當時人明白
 每人也有每人嘅睇法，無絕對嘅啱同錯
 自己嘅選擇，自己明白，自己承受，局外人何需掛心
 我依稀記得中六中七，中文課程其中一句，
 “和而不同”
 大家本來就係個體就係不同，
 但會欣賞對方嘅優點，了解多啲嘅
 例如bubbles, 爽直，自愛
 宅男有高超厨藝，慳家，坦白
 Hugo, 尊重女仕，勇敢，
 實有人話我天真，人講咩我信咩，
 但只要傷害唔到我，我願意相信
 相信係人際關係的第一步喔
 朋友就係一步一步建立
 多謝陪過我傾計的每一位
 希望大家開開心心過每一日
 尋日唔開心嘅嘢就留底喺尋日*^▁^*
 
 可能小女子有得所罪，還望各位多多見諒
 
 ===============================================================
 -->多謝，真係唔敢當，唔知點解會用"勇敢"黎形容我..
 
 尊重別人係最起碼既事，我尊重女人，男人，更尊重有rational & critical thinking 既人 :P

hugo,
 
 感覺係好個人o既，
 我睇o野比較怪:p
 
 其實,你可以一開始就講大話，(話會同另一半講)
 亦可以逃避，以後唔出現，甚至變身alias
 但係你都無,你只係努力解釋你立場
 所以我覺得你勇敢
 
 純屬個人意見 :p

Hugo
 Not sure I understand your question, anyway I have no problems to disagree without being disagreeable.

moscato
 第一，我唔覺有需要講大話(話會同另一半講)，因為我的確唔會同佢講，而事實上覺得有唔妥都唔只我一個..
 
 第2，更唔覺得要逃避，上黎吹下水，但有D原則性既野我會堅持，as long as 大家講道理，唔作人身功擊，大家接受到每個人有唔同意見就得，冇必要失踪，更冇必要轉另一個alias.
 
 bubbles surely 係一位decent lady, i believe she wont kill me :P

Hugo
 Words certainly doesn't bother me, let alone words from people I don't know personally in a message board.

bubbles
 again, good & great!!
 
 u are not bothered, u only showed disagreement with "chill", hahaha~~

Like I said, I can always disagree without being disagreeable and know when to rest my case when I see the discussion is getting nowhere.

bubbles
 discussion is well over already, that's why i chose not to respond to yr query as whether u understand my question or not.
 
 i m praising u as being a decent lady, & that u wont be bothered, u would only give some expression using "chill" :P

Funny that you think those expression like "I am not sure" and etc require an answer LOL

morning
 well, Might be doubt is a better word than query. yet respond not necessary = answering a question. ^.^

各位早晨，
 今日天氣好好，
 人都醒神

moscato
 早晨，i thought u start work today? :-)
 
 今日開始有dd陽光，重有少少熱tim, 不過總好過前幾日又濕又濛。

good morning everyone,
 how was the weekends?

morning lulu
 
 it has been a relaxing weekend, how about u...... gone anywhere special?
 
 seems u are not too engaged in monday morning :-)

hi hugo,
 am not so busy this morning. :)
 well, i went hiking in tai mo shan last Sat, felt so tired and so rest at home yesterday. how about u?

btw, u guys seemed have a good disucssion here during the weekends? lol

lulu
 that's good, ppl usually are more busy after weekend.
 
 wow, hiking is one of yr hobbies? weather is nice on sat, still a bit too humid & hot tho.
 
 guess soon it would be too hot go hiking lu..

not sure it's "good" or not, just expressions of individual views & there's nvr any conclusions :P

Hello lulu
 For me, any discussion is good. In fact, the more diverse the views are, the better. Yet we need good sports to nail that. LOL

Hugo,
 係返工啦，都有啲時間嘅，
 但會少好多

moscato
 明白，你話番緊工唔會上網嘛，可能先頭你開始lunch la :-)

hello to all again,
 
 hugo, lunch yet?

lulu
 nearly finished, how about u?

hugo, i finished my lunch long ago and now need to get back to work. talk later. :)

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