Mature Man seeking Friends with Benefits



  • Hi, I am 4x divorced man, any ladies that is interested?



  • Hello...how mature???



  • lady replied at 2014-09-25 12:57 am


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    Hello...how mature???


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    45 years old, mature enough to understand what are the rules to follow under a Friends with Benefits relationship



  • Only “benefits ” between the relationship if which is from the net world ?



  • before answering your question see below:





    "Two friends who have a sexual realtionship without being emotionally involved. Typically two good friends who have casual sex without a monogomous relationship or any kind of commitment"





    can be from the net or real world



  • Yea but why “benefits ”??





    Please elaborate...







  • However, not being offensive but just curious








    :)))



  • ???



  • To further elaborate "benefits"... it is a kind of relationship that 2 friends with a very casual dating relationship. The benefits can be really good, long, flirty conversations; make-out sessions with no commitment; sex without commitment; etc. or in some circumstance, friends with benefits can do things couples can do except without being labled as a BOYFRIEND and a GIRLFRIEND, when you ask if they want to be friends with benefits with you, you both have to agree on what those BENEFITS are, and it doesn't have to contain sex. If you both agree on sex, then it's also considered as friends with benefits. In general understanding, the "benefit" is sex.



  • :)



  • hi irisirisirisiris, welcome to the thread, hope it is not too long to read :), you are welcome to share your thoughts



  • hi lady, no offense at all, instead, thanks for joining the thread and share your ideas



  • skype?



  • irisirisirisiris replied at 2014-09-26 1:05 am


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    skype?


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    yes, sure



  • Friends with Benefits = 炮友 in Chinese, that was what i found from the net



  • ?



  • cheungposh replied at 2014-09-26 1:07 am


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    irisirisirisiris replied at 2014-09-26 1:05 am


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    skype?


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    yes, sure


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    skype id: posh cheung



  • added



  • your id?



  • irisirisirisiris replied at 2014-09-26 1:21 am


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    added


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    added you too



  • push



  • u r looking for sp..u can use a common term at she.com to avoid confusion



  • push



  • cheungposh replied at 2014-09-26 1:08 am


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    Friends with Benefits = 炮友 in Chinese, that was what i found from the net


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    So u are actually look for a SP (Sex partner) right?



  • yes,i am, friends with benefits = sp



  • lady replied at 2014-09-27 12:43 am


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    cheungposh replied at 2014-09-26 1:08 am


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    Friends with Benefits = 炮友 in Chinese, that was what i found from the net


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    So u are actually look for a SP (Sex partner) right?


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    i am, how about you?



  • a little push....



  • u are not looking for SP, which may not be related to benefits!



  • you are just looking for trade girl !



  • ... or more straight forward.... prostitues!



  • hi Gal, you may want to refer to previous messages that 'benefits' can be anything that both parties agreed upon, and it is generally understood that enjoying sex is what the 'benefits' is referring to, not using sex to exchange for money



  • push



  • give a little push, share your ideas



  • cheungposh replied at 2014-09-28 12:14 am


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    give a little push, share your ideas


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    Hi again !!





    Why don't u need a SL instead??



  • hi again Lady, FWB, SP or SL.... depends on how the relationship develop into, it does not really matters how you call it.



  • cheungposh replied at 2014-09-28 12:28 am


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    hi again Lady, FWB, SP or SL.... depends on how the relationship develop into, it does not really matters how you call it.


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    You live alone?




  • yes, i am



  • cheungposh replied at 2014-09-28 12:35 am


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    yes, i am


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    Good everything would be easier







  • lady replied at 2014-09-28 12:37 am


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    cheungposh replied at 2014-09-28 12:35 am


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    yes, i am


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    Good everything would be easier





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    yes, environment and condition is there, just whether a relationship can be establish and develop



  • cheungposh replied at 2014-09-28 12:39 am


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    lady replied at 2014-09-28 12:37 am


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    cheungposh replied at 2014-09-28 12:35 am


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    yes, i am


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    Good everything would be easier





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    yes, environment and condition is there, just whether a relationship can be establish and develop


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    :)))



  • lady replied at 2014-09-28 12:47 am


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    cheungposh replied at 2014-09-28 12:39 am


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    lady replied at 2014-09-28 12:37 am


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    cheungposh replied at 2014-09-28 12:35 am


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    yes, i am


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    Good everything would be easier





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    yes, environment and condition is there, just whether a relationship can be establish and develop


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    :)))


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    easier never guarantee result



  • 係。。。世界上冇嘢係 guarantee 嘛



  • lady replied at 2014-09-28 12:58 am


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    係。。。世界上冇嘢係 guarantee 嘛


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    yes, 100% agreed



  • Is your work very hectic???



  • lady replied at 2014-09-28 1:12 am


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    Is your work very hectic???


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    yes, sometimes it does



  • 點解仲唔瞓呢???



  • lady replied at 2014-09-28 1:34 am


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    點解仲唔瞓呢???


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    same to you la. i used to sleep late. how about you?



  • 瞓唔着。。





    我通常星期五, 六先夜瞓。。



  • lady replied at 2014-09-28 1:38 am


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    瞓唔着。。





    我通常星期五, 六先夜瞓。。


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    i see. i always thought i belong to the night, i like to stay up and enjoy the quietness of the night, as well as the wild side of the night...



  • Me too..


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