【叩門問花 ● 請君入甕】



  • 空谷之中有幽蘭, 陋室裡面有紅顏。

    叩門問花, 還看您有多大的探花本領;

    請君入甕, 您有膽子尋幽探秘嗎?



  • :^O



  • hi, good statement. Sorry my chinese is awful and never can write such good poem like you. But support you.




  • 討厭, 佔不到頭位! 要賠我! >.<



  • 妳屬何種花呀? 食人花否?



  • ryang,



    trust me, the thread host can read & write good English too. Don't be treated by her! lol



  • 深淵幽幽見柳影, 陝川交錯會潛龍~



  • 吃人不吃人, 還看今朝!



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 10:38 am

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    討厭, 佔不到頭位! 要賠我! >.<

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    天意~ :^)



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 10:42 am

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    妳屬何種花呀? 食人花否?

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    怕被吃, 就別要進來了! 呵呵



  • 寒蕭公子 replied at 2014-05-26 10:48 am

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    天意~ :^)

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    正衰人))))))))))))))))))))))



  • 朱顏姐永遠也是第一位!



  • 寒蕭公子 replied at 2014-05-26 10:44 am

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    深淵幽幽見柳影, 陝川交錯會潛龍~

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    這位公子可否解說一二, 小姑娘自己扭扭妮妮, 卻喜歡男生直接了當!



  • 冰極湖水 replied at 2014-05-26 10:45 am

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    吃人不吃人, 還看今朝!

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    冰極湖水...睇黎會凍死先...還看今朝, 等待某人?



  • haha, i seem an alien to just leave message in English...haha



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 10:56 am

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    冰極湖水 replied at 2014-05-26 10:45 am

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    吃人不吃人, 還看今朝!

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    冰極湖水...睇黎會凍死先...還看今朝, 等待某人?

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    害怕嘛, 請請.



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 10:48 am

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    paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 10:42 am

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    妳屬何種花呀? 食人花否?

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    怕被吃, 就別要進來了! 呵呵

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    被吃硬怕, 不過8掛想睇版主食人情景:)



    雕欄玉砌應猶在,只是朱顏改...美人!



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 10:57 am

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    haha, i seem an alien to just leave message in English...haha

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    歡迎候教!



  • 冰極湖水 replied at 2014-05-26 10:58 am

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    paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 10:56 am

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    冰極湖水 replied at 2014-05-26 10:45 am

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    吃人不吃人, 還看今朝!

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    冰極湖水...睇黎會凍死先...還看今朝, 等待某人?

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    害怕嘛, 請請.

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    好, 我就風度些坐後排, 讓他人先



  • Let see who can melt down the frozen lake heart of the host lady



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:00 am

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    Let see who can melt down the frozen lake heart of the host lady

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    傳說跟雪女一夕歡娛會冰凍而死, 嘻~



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 10:59 am

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    被吃硬怕, 不過8掛想睇版主食人情景:)



    雕欄玉砌應猶在,只是朱顏改...美人!

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    最是人間留不住,朱顏辭鏡花辭樹。 ^_^



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 10:57 am

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    haha, i seem an alien to just leave message in English...haha

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    I can chat in English too, if you wish! lol



  • 冰極湖水 replied at 2014-05-26 11:03 am

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    ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:00 am

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    Let see who can melt down the frozen lake heart of the host lady

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    傳說跟雪女一夕歡娛會冰凍而死, 嘻~

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    It may worth; just see if worth to pay the bill



  • 冰極湖水 replied at 2014-05-26 11:03 am

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    ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:00 am

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    Let see who can melt down the frozen lake heart of the host lady

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    傳說跟雪女一夕歡娛會冰凍而死, 嘻~

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    令我想起希臘神話中的美杜莎!



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 11:03 am

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    paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 10:59 am

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    被吃硬怕, 不過8掛想睇版主食人情景:)



    雕欄玉砌應猶在,只是朱顏改...美人!

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    最是人間留不住,朱顏辭鏡花辭樹。 ^_^

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    唔駛咁悲觀, 曇花一現都可令人畢身難忘:)



  • 雪女跟美杜莎比, 我喜歡雪女多啲



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 11:23 am

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    唔駛咁悲觀, 曇花一現都可令人畢身難忘:)

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    你有呢種經驗?



  • Treasure it whenever you own and get it; never regret when you lose it later. Life as it is.



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:29 am

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    Treasure it whenever you own and get it; never regret when you lose it later. Life as it is.

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    I have a question in mind all the time ...



    what if my decision will hurt somebody but I can get tremendous pleasure?



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 11:25 am

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    雪女跟美杜莎比, 我喜歡雪女多啲

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    當然, 除非你想變成一塊臭石頭!



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 11:34 am

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    ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:29 am

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    Treasure it whenever you own and get it; never regret when you lose it later. Life as it is.

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    I have a question in mind all the time ...



    what if my decision will hurt somebody but I can get tremendous pleasure?

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    If you believe in Buddhist, you can understand. Sometimes you have not done anything wrong, but you still get hurt by someone, intentionally or not. Cuz maybe in your last life, you owe him/her, so you compensate now



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:40 am

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    朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 11:34 am

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    ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:29 am

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    Treasure it whenever you own and get it; never regret when you lose it later. Life as it is.

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    I have a question in mind all the time ...



    what if my decision will hurt somebody but I can get tremendous pleasure?

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    If you believe in Buddhist, you can understand. Sometimes you have not done anything wrong, but you still get hurt by someone, intentionally or not. Cuz maybe in your last life, you owe him/her, so you compensate now

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    But my point is, never try to hurt others; but if others are still hurt indirectly by your action, just take it easy. Coz it is no perfect in the world and not all things are controllable by you



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 11:27 am

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    paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 11:23 am

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    唔駛咁悲觀, 曇花一現都可令人畢身難忘:)

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    你有呢種經驗?

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    以前朋友家有種曇花, 一開便是數十朵, 只現數小時, 所以特別覺難忘



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:41 am

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    But my point is, never try to hurt others; but if others are still hurt indirectly by your action, just take it easy. Coz it is no perfect in the world and not all things are controllable by you

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    You know, even the first part (i.e. never try to hurt others), is so difficult to enforce!



    There's no peace on earth. :)



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 11:44 am

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    以前朋友家有種曇花, 一開便是數十朵, 只現數小時, 所以特別覺難忘

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    聽說曇花香聞十里, 真確否?



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 11:36 am

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    paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 11:25 am

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    雪女跟美杜莎比, 我喜歡雪女多啲

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    當然, 除非你想變成一塊臭石頭!

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    會變乜非重點, 而係想起美杜莎既秀髮會突然變蛇, 又不能直視她既美態, 有咩樂趣!?



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 11:46 am

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    paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 11:44 am

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    以前朋友家有種曇花, 一開便是數十朵, 只現數小時, 所以特別覺難忘

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    聽說曇花香聞十里, 真確否?

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    能否十里我就唔肯定啦, 不過芳香就一定



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 11:45 am

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    ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:41 am

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    But my point is, never try to hurt others; but if others are still hurt indirectly by your action, just take it easy. Coz it is no perfect in the world and not all things are controllable by you

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    You know, even the first part (i.e. never try to hurt others), is so difficult to enforce!



    There's no peace on earth. :)

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    yes, for some years, I take this stance that i try not to hurt others or to interogate others; but final outcome is I am the one who suffers the most



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 11:47 am

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    會變乜非重點, 而係想起美杜莎既秀髮會突然變蛇, 又不能直視她既美態, 有咩樂趣!?

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    能夠一親芳澤才是重點吧!? :P



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:56 am

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    yes, for some years, I take this stance that i try not to hurt others or to interogate others; but final outcome is I am the one who suffers the most

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    Not to hurt or even interrogate? It sounds that you are indifferent.



    Mind to share?



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 11:57 am

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    paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 11:47 am

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    會變乜非重點, 而係想起美杜莎既秀髮會突然變蛇, 又不能直視她既美態, 有咩樂趣!?

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    能夠一親芳澤才是重點吧!? :P

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    真叻! 如果"親"有"相知相惜"既意思, 咁牡丹花下死都不可惜



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 12:07 pm

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    真叻! 如果"親"有"相知相惜"既意思, 咁牡丹花下死都不可惜

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    換了蔓陀羅又如何? 哈哈!



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 12:00 pm

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    ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 11:56 am

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    yes, for some years, I take this stance that i try not to hurt others or to interogate others; but final outcome is I am the one who suffers the most

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    Not to hurt or even interrogate? It sounds that you are indifferent.



    Mind to share?

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    Just in short, I try, if i have such ability, to satisfy what other want me to do....but finally, no one will treasure, but just to blame



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 12:12 pm

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    paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 12:07 pm

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    真叻! 如果"親"有"相知相惜"既意思, 咁牡丹花下死都不可惜

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    換了蔓陀羅又如何? 哈哈!

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    蔓陀羅都靚呀!



    咁我直認外表都好重要...



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 12:17 pm

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    Just in short, I try, if i have such ability, to satisfy what other want me to do....but finally, no one will treasure, but just to blame

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    Doesn't it a very common problem? About expectation management and communication?



  • paul4x replied at 2014-05-26 12:18 pm

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    蔓陀羅都靚呀!



    咁我直認外表都好重要...

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    純粹討論, 不喜勿插



    當男士對女士的外表有要求時, 男士們有否重視自己的外表?



    正如, 你要求對方是白雪公主, 你又是否白馬王子的化身?



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 1:48 pm

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    ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 12:17 pm

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    Just in short, I try, if i have such ability, to satisfy what other want me to do....but finally, no one will treasure, but just to blame

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    Doesn't it a very common problem? About expectation management and communication?

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    Bingo. And I should be good to myself at least.



  • ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 1:53 pm

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    Bingo. And I should be good to myself at least.

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    Sure. If you don't love yourself, no one gonna love you. Though I start to think, loving myself too much is not good at all ...



  • 朱顏 replied at 2014-05-26 1:56 pm

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    ryang1977 replied at 2014-05-26 1:53 pm

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    Sure. If you don't love yourself, no one gonna love you. Though I start to think, loving myself too much is not good at all ...

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    So to make it balanced - an equilibrium point is the key. But it is not an easy mission to achieve.


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