求婚一周年, 今天卻是單身. 應該從新上路了...



  • 5年感情,都比唔上一個識左兩個月嘅人。



  • 我的故事....





    我同佢拍左差唔多4年拖,感情一直都好好,2012年十一月佢去左澳洲working holiday, 本來話去一年,睇完外面世界就返黎。開頭我地keep 住成日whatsapp ,每一日都講幾次電話,好似仲係身邊咁。幾個月後,13年三月我過去澳洲三個星期陪佢玩,仲帶埋戒指飛過去向佢求婚,佢答應果一刻,我同佢都兩行眼淚,打算佢年尾佢返黎就籌備結婚。但到左五月,佢慢慢少左揾我,一星期都冇個電話,佢話唔想返香港了… 其實佢想移民我都冇問題。佢留得低我咪過去囉。我明白嘅,去左天堂,仲點會想返香港丫。


    我自己都好喜歡果邊,我以前都係果邊讀書。所以當初佢話想去,我都冇阻止,仲都好鼓勵佢去添。佢講過想去澳洲,都係想去睇下我以前讀書嘅地方,因為我成日提住果邊有幾好幾好,好似天堂咁喎,佢話想了解我多一啲。


    本來去一年就返,但佢揾到方法留多一年,所以九月就返一返黎香港探屋企人。十月會又再返去澳洲。終於九月等到佢返黎,諗住好開心,但點知感覺唔同左,感覺到好陌生,佢話唔想我一個人係香港等,都唔知幾時先移到民,要我唔知要等幾耐,咁對我好唔公平,之後佢提出分手。後來我知道,其實…係三月我走左之後,佢轉左去農場做野,識左一大班年青人有香港人,有台灣人,有個台灣仔知道佢有未婚夫都追佢,佢地返工日日見,個台灣仔又好識花言巧語,佢地五月就一齊左。 原本佢好愛我,好黐我,我係對佢有信心先俾佢去澳洲。信心原來係冇用架,要見到,掂到,係身邊陪到佢先得。 5年感情都比唔上一個識左兩個月嘅人。真係好傷心……


    到而家,已經分左手半年了。 我都係陰霾裡行返出黎。希望可以忘記傷痛,從新生活。



  • Heard a similar story on another forum. Don't give up. Good luck



  • 睇黎working holiday 真係拆散左好多對情侶. :(



  • Hate to say this....





    The moment she wanted to go for a year, she left already as there was not enough reason for her to stay.





    Yet, this can be a blessing in disguise. Perhaps one that is much better is right around the corner, waiting for you.





    Take care.



  • 4年就咁就無咗..呢D光陰比著好多人唔夠擔花,你不如搵香港以外既好過啦



  • She left because she want to see more. She would stay if I want her to stay. But I couldn't stop her to see the world for my selfishness. I just underestimated what loneliness can do to a person.



  • emphasize replied at 2014-03-19 2:34 pm


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    4年就咁就無咗..呢D光陰比著好多人唔夠擔花,你不如搵香港以外既好過啦


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    我就係怕佢擔心我變心, 先去求婚, 俾定心丸佢. 點知係佢變...從來冇諗過佢會變, 之前拍拖完全一心一意. 原來變起上黎. 可以好快.



  • "She left because she want to see more" actually means she is not fully contended with the present. After all, going on a tour is one thing, working for 1 year is another.





    Hope you don't get me wrong. I am sure Ms. Right will be around. Until she surfaces, we better not hold on to the past too long and get sour or retreat into sorrow.



  • 可憐的港男們, 你們真的要上路了, 一路好走!



  • Thanks Onlybs, I am much better now. Just feeling blue thinking one years ago we were so happy and touch...



  • have heard so many similar cases...



  • Well, I have some friends with a happy ending after a year. Just not my case.



  • Your ending is still unknown. Life is a funny thing. You will never know what will happen the next minute.





    Maybe if you both really got married, you would have jump off a building by now...





    Just live your life best you can.




  • Look at it this way, you might be lucky because it would be worse if this happened after the wedding.



  • MouseKen


    fate start and fate end, that is life, although it sounds corny!



  • move on move on~~~





    儘管什麼原因, 人生的另一半總會有一刻對方會先行離去!!


    因為你愛她, 無非都是想她幸福開心!!


    現在, 不如換個方式再相愛吖!!


    讓她行喜歡的路, 做喜歡的事!!





    加油啊~~~~~^^




  • 而家分左手, 就梗係咁諗會舒服D. 不過我地一齊日子唔短, 佢去之前已經一齊住,對方性格好同唔好都好清楚, 真係想一生一世,才會想結婚. 要再找一個可以互相了解O既人, 又談何容易?



  • 最難過的時間已經過左. 分開初期落晒型, 無精打彩. 最難係面對朋友家人. 當日求婚成功, FB 幾百個LIKE祝福, 個個都話儲定人情. 分開後就DEL晒D 相. 到而家都冇再update FB 了



  • MouseKen


    try to befriend the girls in here, and see how things goes.



  • MK


    so many married ppl complained how miserable their marriage is in here, and you want to get marry? it's such an dilemma.


    lol




  • 遇到對O既人, 想以後日子同佢一齊生活, 結婚係好自然O既事. 我只係怕未必會再遇到一個咁O既人.



  • 兩個人~~


    相遇, 未必相識


    相識, 未必相愛


    相愛, 未必留得住


    留得住了, 未必能忍受


    忍受了, 也未必可以白頭到老





    凡事有開始,便會有終結


    相識是偶然, 分開是必然!!


    這是人生哲理~~~!!



  • Elle, 你講得好O岩, 緣份這東西,凡人又點可以控制丫.


    所以我無恨佢.好多謝佢曾經深愛過我.


    而家同佢都可以做朋友, 間唔中仲有聯絡.



  • good good


    加油~~~ ^^



  • Elle


    well said!


    the good, the bad, the wealth, the love, the hate. at the end nothing would stay with us.



  • 萬般帶不走吖嘛!!



  • Elle


    yes. 萬般帶不走, so hopefully no need to be too stubborn in life.



  • 當一個人不再愛你, 再執著也徒然.



  • MK


    yes, so move on to greener pastures!



  • 傷害到其他人就是錯啦,嘥氣!





    版主,你當賺咗,算啦!



  • 你個段野埋又系第個forum Copy and paste....又一個扮可憐的揾食男。



  • 人妻, 係第二個forum有人有同樣經歷嗎? 可否Share出黎? 我想睇下其他人故事. 唔會咁快俾人COPY 左去第二度掛..



  • What a sad story. Did she give you back the ring?



  • life and fate...



  • 求婚戒指俾返我,對佢黎講無已經無意義,但對我就唔同,仲記得揀戒指果時,充滿左愛同期待。



  • Give it to your next gf?



  • Of course no. Will you be happy if your boy friend give you his ex-girlfriend's ring? This is respect.



  • so, did you sell it?



  • Elle replied at 2014-03-19 4:06 pm


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    兩個人~~


    相遇, 未必相識


    相識, 未必相愛


    相愛, 未必留得住


    留得住了, 未必能忍受


    忍受了, 也未必可以白頭到老





    凡事有開始,便會有終結


    相識是偶然, 分開是必然!!


    這是人生哲理~~~!!


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    ·“百世修来同船渡,千世修来共枕眠”



  • fine replied at 2014-03-20 6:16 pm


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    Elle replied at 2014-03-19 4:06 pm


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    兩個人~~


    相遇, 未必相識


    相識, 未必相愛


    相愛, 未必留得住


    留得住了, 未必能忍受


    忍受了, 也未必可以白頭到老





    凡事有開始,便會有終結


    相識是偶然, 分開是必然!!


    這是人生哲理~~~!!


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    ·“百世修来同船渡,千世修来共枕眠”


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    有啲人係唔會珍惜這份緣




  • Janine 睇黎你對隻戒指都幾有興趣喎, 哈哈.


    隻戒指我係同做珠寶的朋友買,雖然佢話可以扣少少同我收返. 我話幾萬蚊, 算啦.幫我改成一隻耳環,我自己戴. 不過我而家少戴. 大粒唔舒服.



  • MouseKen replied at 2014-03-19 12:56 pm


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    我的故事....





    我同佢拍左差唔多4年拖,感情一直都好好,2012年十一月佢去左澳洲working holiday, 本來話去一年,睇完外面世界就返黎。開頭我地keep 住成日whatsapp ,每一日都講幾次電話,好似仲係身邊咁。幾個月後,13年三月我過去澳洲三個星期陪佢玩,仲帶埋戒指飛過去向佢求婚,佢答應果一刻,我同佢都兩行眼淚,打算佢年尾佢返黎就籌備結婚。但到左五月,佢慢慢少左揾我,一星期都冇個電話,佢話唔想返香港了… 其實佢想移民我都冇問題。佢留得低我咪過去囉。我明白嘅,去左天堂,仲點會想返香港丫。


    我自己都好喜歡果邊,我以前都係果邊讀書。所以當初佢話想去,我都冇阻止,仲都好鼓勵佢去添。佢講過想去澳洲,都係想去睇下我以前讀書嘅地方,因為我成日提住果邊有幾好幾好,好似天堂咁喎,佢話想了解我多一啲。


    本來去一年就返,但佢揾到方法留多一年,所以九月就返一返黎香港探屋企人。十月會又再返去澳洲。終於九月等到佢返黎,諗住好開心,但點知感覺唔同左,感覺到好陌生,佢話唔想我一個人係香港等,都唔知幾時先移到民,要我唔知要等幾耐,咁對我好唔公平,之後佢提出分手。後來我知道,其實…係三月我走左之後,佢轉左去農場做野,識左一大班年青人有香港人,有台灣人,有個台灣仔知道佢有未婚夫都追佢,佢地返工日日見,個台灣仔又好識花言巧語,佢地五月就一齊左。 原本佢好愛我,好黐我,我係對佢有信心先俾佢去澳洲。信心原來係冇用架,要見到,掂到,係身邊陪到佢先得。 5年感情都比唔上一個識左兩個月嘅人。真係好傷心……


    到而家,已經分左手半年了。 我都係陰霾裡行返出黎。希望可以忘記傷痛,從新生活。


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    如果版主未同女友搞過就要分手,更是一生最大遺憾





    搞過後分手,感覺冇咁傷



  • 我有個朋友同個女朋友拍左3年準備結婚, 之後佢女朋友出賣佢, 無疑分手, 極之傷痛, 過左一年都係想起都傷心...樓主, 希望你用多D時間去沖淡. good luck







  • 愛情變心過後想回個頭一想什麽什麽的…


    可以怎樣人走了…可能面前太好回不過來


    新歡得意,不比舊愛麻木,同時愛人會得到歷久常新


    就會是命中注定,撐下去亦活過來



  • Nobody give me a ring before. i'm so jealous. if someone give me a ring i will so happy. are u single now? can i have you contact? just be friend.



  • Henry,


    同一個人一齊, 你淨你諗搞同未搞O既分別?



  • Ka,


    無錯, 對傷痛,時間永遠最有效. 我而家過左半年, 已經冇開頭幾個月咁辛苦.


    前兩日係我求婚一周年,又諗返好多野. 所以就將我故事分享下.