Is that POSSIBLE to find a GF here?



  • I just wonder if I could find a girl friend here. I know the possibility is really small, but no hurt to try it out. or just friends. I am a Mid 30S single guy....

    my skype contact: cheekomartinez

    Thanks



  • If you are genuine and decent, I think everything is possible as likes attract likes.





    Good luck on your search of new friends and/or gf!



  • Thank you Gina, Its easy to find a GF, but its hard to find a right one who can live together for whole life...



  • I agree. Better take baby steps and one day at a time.





    Your thread is a good start, good luck.



  • Thanks, plus, right person, and right timing...


    I had met my ex from internet, she was a right one, but wrong timing....



  • Wrong timing? One of you were attached?


    Met her on she?



  • both were single, not from she...its long story and complicated.



  • hi



  • Hi. R u back from other places? U dont sound like very local HK ppl.



  • Martinez replied at 2014-01-14 1:20 pm


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    both were single, not from she...its long story and complicated.


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    Take as much as you need to heal, before you are to get involved with someone new.



  • she.com has been changed a lot, but i still believe there are some nice ppl around.





    Carry on for awhile with a normal mind, and maybe you'll make it.



  • lala replied at 2014-01-15 1:43 pm


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    Hi. R u back from other places? U dont sound like very local HK ppl.


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    yes, I am back from somewhere else....



  • Gina replied at 2014-01-15 1:47 pm


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    Martinez replied at 2014-01-14 1:20 pm


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    both were single, not from she...its long story and complicated.


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    Take as much as you need to heal, before you are to get involved with someone new.


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    I believe it takes long long long time...



  • May replied at 2014-01-15 2:24 pm


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    she.com has been changed a lot, but i still believe there are some nice ppl around.





    Carry on for awhile with a normal mind, and maybe you'll make it.


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    maybe, no expectation, wont be disjointed.



  • When i came back 10 years ago, i felt so lonely and tried to find real friendship here. But of course the result is ..there are too many people here looking for sex partners or ons. Not many people are actually interested in making FRIENDS.



  • oh...you are an old bird here.....



  • No. Just that i did the same before. But wasted so much time and couldnt find any true friendship. I quitted sbe.com for many years. Came back recently sincei got a bit bored with life again.



  • I see. Life is short, I only visit here while I got something to do with my computer...



  • Martinez replied at 2014-01-15 2:44 pm


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    Gina replied at 2014-01-15 1:47 pm


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    Martinez replied at 2014-01-14 1:20 pm


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    both were single, not from she...its long story and complicated.


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    Take as much as you need to heal, before you are to get involved with someone new.


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    I believe it takes long long long time...


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    In this case, maybe you are not ready for anything serious now?



  • Gina replied at 2014-01-15 3:10 pm


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    Martinez replied at 2014-01-15 2:44 pm


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    Gina replied at 2014-01-15 1:47 pm


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    Martinez replied at 2014-01-14 1:20 pm


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    both were single, not from she...its long story and complicated.


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    Take as much as you need to heal, before you are to get involved with someone new.


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    I believe it takes long long long time...


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    In this case, maybe you are not ready for anything serious now?


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    I need serious relationship, and I wanna have my own family, my own kids....





    no matter how much I have loved her, but its history already. I can do nothing with, so just step forward....



  • How old r u?


    R u seeing anyone in real life? I think its a gamble here. Since u dont know how the person looks like. I do think outlook is quite important especially if u say u r looking for life partner.



  • Martinez replied at 2014-01-15 3:48 pm


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    I need serious relationship, and I wanna have my own family, my own kids....





    no matter how much I have loved her, but its history already. I can do nothing with, so just step forward....


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    Understand. Just thought it'd be better if you are sure you are in the right mind to be with someone new.





    If you have moved on and are completely over your relationship, it's just a matter of time when you're going to meet her. Be patient.



  • lala replied at 2014-01-15 3:51 pm


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    How old r u?


    R u seeing anyone in real life? I think its a gamble here. Since u dont know how the person looks like. I do think outlook is quite important especially if u say u r looking for life partner.


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    I am in my mid 30s, out looking is important, but not everything. and I am not looking for pretty girl, just ok looking and nice personality...



  • Gina replied at 2014-01-15 4:06 pm


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    Martinez replied at 2014-01-15 3:48 pm


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    I need serious relationship, and I wanna have my own family, my own kids....





    no matter how much I have loved her, but its history already. I can do nothing with, so just step forward....


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    Understand. Just thought it'd be better if you are sure you are in the right mind to be with someone new.





    If you have moved on and are completely over your relationship, it's just a matter of time when you're going to meet her. Be patient.


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    yes, it takes time, but just wonder why all good ladies are married, not good ladies like bad guys...



  • I can assure you that there are still good women around who aren't married or attached, it is just a stroke of luck when you will meet her.





    By the way, not all women like bad guys.



  • Gina replied at 2014-01-15 5:04 pm


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    I can assure you that there are still good women around who aren't married or attached, it is just a stroke of luck when you will meet her.





    By the way, not all women like bad guys.


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    true, but seems these opportunities are not mine...



  • Be patient...



  • haha



  • Most ladies here are being careful so it takes time.



  • Lady replied at 2014-01-15 5:58 pm


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    Most ladies here are being careful so it takes time.


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    I have no expectation, so just kill time and bull shxt around..



  • Also, most ladies here prefer older guys, 40s.



  • Hi Lady, so should I leave and wait for few more years then come back?



  • good luck



  • Many ppl came here for sl or sp. Not so serious relationship.



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  • Thank you



  • hi



  • hi



  • hey dont give up . I d say it is possible .


    I met my ex-bf here and we ve been together for 4 years. Yes we broke up at the end ,at least we had heaps of unforgetable moment.


    Let's spend some time and give it a go .



  • C replied at 2014-01-19 8:32 pm


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    hey dont give up . I d say it is possible .


    I met my ex-bf here and we ve been together for 4 years. Yes we broke up at the end ,at least we had heaps of unforgetable moment.


    Let's spend some time and give it a go .


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    hey, thank you very much... i never give up, and i m still alive at least. all we never know whats going to happen tomorrow.....





    cheers..



  • however , shouldn't ecpect too much lol



  • C replied at 2014-01-19 8:52 pm


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    however , shouldn't ecpect too much lol


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    true, so i just hang around....



  • Lady replied at 2014-01-15 6:13 pm


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    Also, most ladies here prefer older guys, 40s.


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    that's not the case



  • C replied at 2014-01-19 9:00 pm


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    Lady replied at 2014-01-15 6:13 pm


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    Also, most ladies here prefer older guys, 40s.


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    that's not the case


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    might be that's her case



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  • hello, anyone here?



  • hi



  • good evening



  • hi


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