有没有女仕聽過Cougar Club這個terms?



  • Cougar(美洲獅)是沿於加拿大的slang, 最初是指喜歡在酒吧"狩獵"年輕男性的3-40歲女性.後來定義引申至一般喜歡跟年輕男性發展關係的女仕.近年在外國亦興起一些稱為Cougar Club的網上俱樂部,專門撮合Cougar & Cub (cub者,尚未長出鬃毛的年輕雄獅,在此當然是指一些喜歡成熟女性的男仕)couple.

    我在中學的時候已經很清楚自己是一頭young cub. 比起班裡的女同學或是同級的校花,穿著絲襪高跟鞋,一身套裙的女老師反而更能引起我的遐想.
    奈何在香港,一般女性對兩性關係的觀念仍然比較傳統.在我的日常生活圈子裡很難找到Cougar,

    但未知在這裡,可會有成熟女仕願意跟我這隻young cub談談?



  • 而家呃蝦條既人包裝好多,好多靚理由甘,我就話都係呃女仔,甘多理由直直接好過喇!



  • you should try your mother first



  • How young are you cub? And how old you want your cougar to be?



  • Hi Cougar,





    I am 26 now


    Normally I found ladies around 30-40s to be most attractive


    But it really depends, some ladies are still quite hot even if they are almost in their 50s





    So what is the target range for your cub?: )



  • Most of the guys who were attracted to me were surprised when I told them my real age. I'd say early 30s and up are fine with me, I don't like babysitting very much.



  • yeah, I knew some of the ladies who look much younger than they really are


    It's really incredible.....





    But usually you like to be with guys who are younger than you?



  • I prefer mature guys who have seen life, easier to communicate with.



  • haha, I think mature of not is a matter of Personality rather than a matter of Age





    A 30-year-old man could still be naive


    But a man in 20s can already be quite mature



  • What you find attractive in women who are much older than you?




  • I'd say it's Temperament.


    Mature women have a feeling of elegance


    That's what attract me the most





    What's the age of the youngest man u have dated?



  • early 30s



  • Cougar replied at 2013-10-05 7:29 pm


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    early 30s


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    Alright......


    So what is your general impression on guys in mid 20s?: )



  • Guys in their 20s (early, mid or late) are still shaping up their outlook in life and establishing their career.



  • I agree on the latter


    But generally men would start to settle down and establishing their own family once they steps into 30s


    And still.....men could still focus on their career at that age, if they a ambitious enough



  • and How about u? have you ever have a thought of settling down?



  • Good question. Maybe I need to give it some thoughts from now on. Do you like kids? If you do, dating a woman who is older than might not be a good idea. However, living out your fantasy is totally different story.



  • To be honest, I still haven't had a thought of settling down


    For now, I just want to live in the way I want to be





    It's too tiring to take everything seriously


    If I am taking it seriously, I wouldn't have posted this thread in the Relationship Board, but not in here : P







  • Hahaha very honest and I like that!


    If you don't mind too much about the women's body shape and looks, it shouldn't be that difficult to meet your cougar.



  • Thanks Cougar


    But I have another confession to make


    If a man says he doesn't care a woman's body shape and look at all, then he must be lying


    Nevertheless, I am not a picky man, I wouldn't imagine my cougar to be like Vivian Chow, I think it's all about feelings





    How about you? Have you find your cub yet?: )



  • I am not looking for a cub. Despite I always attract guys who are younger than me, I still prefer a man who is closer to my age, and has seen the world with established career.



  • Alright


    I hope you can find what you want as well : )



  • 以我所知相反既club就有



  • Snake:


    哈哈,係香港的確係


    香港人係兩性關係上都比較保守


    同埋一般黎講男性的確係會傾向追求年輕既女性


    我呢D算係比較異類





    始終呢D野都係歐美等比較OPEN既地方先有MARKET



  • Cougar,





    it seems you like mature man but young in body.




  • iluvstocking replied at 2013-10-06 12:59 am


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    Snake:


    哈哈,係香港的確係


    香港人係兩性關係上都比較保守


    同埋一般黎講男性的確係會傾向追求年輕既女性


    我呢D算係比較異類





    始終呢D野都係歐美等比較OPEN既地方先有MARKET


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    雖然話香港女多男少


    但香港女仔搵食比男性方便





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