感情問題
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我係男, 最近有單感情問題令我好苦惱想分享出黎睇下各位O既意見.
我同女友拍左一年拖, 最近我買左樓諗住將來同佢一齊生活. 佢份人比較性急同埋冇耐性, 我地為買樓裝修o既事嘈過幾次, 當中大家都試過有甩漏, 不過佢比較細心, 有時我工作比較忙佢都提點左我好多野. 佢好緊張呢單野, 亦落手落腳跟左好多野, 有時啲進度慢啲佢就會好炆同發脾氣. 計劃裝修完後我屋企人會搬黎暫住, 因為佢地屋企都會裝修, 我記得我應該有同女友講過呢單野, 但唔肯定. 前幾日再同女友講返, 佢話我淨係講過屋企人果度會裝修冇話過會黎暫住. 講左之後頭兩日都同女友相安無事, 之後打俾佢同佢傾計, 佢傾傾下講返呢單野, 話唔想我屋企人搬去暫住分享左佢o既心機,話人地住完到佢再住個感覺好怪, 話擔心年尾裝修師傅趕唔切裝修兩間屋, 佢好想可以早D同我二人世界. 佢越講越唔開心, 之後大家好無奈咁收線. 而家我講乜佢都聽唔入耳. 我知我同女友大家都好愛對方, 如果係你地遇到呢個情況會點做呢? Thanks
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I kind of understood both sides. What you really should do is to tell her to reverse the role and see what she would do.
The underlying problem is she does not see you and your family as one family. This is very very common and almost a norm. You have to let her know once married, both families will merge. This is a preview of in-laws problem.
Of coz, there are certain things you can do. You can ask her to come live a few days to "initiate" the decor first before your folks moved in temporarily.
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onlybs replied at 2013-09-16 12:32 pm
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I kind of understood both sides. What you really should do is to tell her to reverse the role and see what she would do.
The underlying problem is she does not see you and your family as one family. This is very very common and almost a norm. You have to let her know once married, both families will merge. This is a preview of in-laws problem.
Of coz, there are certain things you can do. You can ask her to come live a few days to "initiate" the decor first before your folks moved in temporarily.
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Silly.
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估仔講到賣廣告嗰PART未？
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hahaha
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Silly.
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You probably are still single.
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so obvious lol
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估仔講到賣廣告有好野益街坊就快啲介紹啦。
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講笑咩
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所以想揾女仔今晚上我屋企傾傾
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onlybs replied at 2013-09-16 12:32 pm
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I kind of understood both sides. What you really should do is to tell her to reverse the role and see what she would do.
The underlying problem is she does not see you and your family as one family. This is very very common and almost a norm. You have to let her know once married, both families will merge. This is a preview of in-laws problem.
Of coz, there are certain things you can do. You can ask her to come live a few days to "initiate" the decor first before your folks moved in temporarily.
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thx onlybs, 我都試過問佢有冇好 idea, 但佢都答唔到 =_=
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onlybs replied at 2013-09-16 12:38 pm
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Silly.
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You probably are still single.
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You will probably miss the point if it hit you between the eyes. Read the topic again and look closely this time. lmao hahaha
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middlemale replied at 2013-09-16 12:44 pm
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所以想揾女仔今晚上我屋企傾傾
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呢個 middlemale不是我, 點解要冒我名出 post? 所以我而家用返 nickname/login 出, 之後呢個 post再有人用 middlemale 都肯定唔係我
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有無人可以幫我出野
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你係middle又係male咩？咪吹！
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老鬼----關你撚事?
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You will probably miss the point if it hit you between the eyes. Read the topic again and look closely this time. lmao hahaha
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This is indeed odd. I read again and still....
I am never smart but seldom that lost....
I cannot find anything particular but then the responses here kind of suggest something is going on.
Can you enlighten me a bit? @_@
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onlybs
I also have no idea. But it's rare to have such a long topic.