做唔成情侶, 係咪就唔想做朋友???



  • 睇到另外個thread分享交友經歷,我都明白睇外表係人之常情,講真我都會睇,有時上網識左,大家都溝通到, 我唔介意出黎見下, 我真係抱住一個唔啱feel都可以做朋友的心態出黎, 做朋友我唔介意外表架, 我都想識下異性朋友(PS絕對唔係想收兵), 覺得大家有緣又傾到計,都幾難得, 見左就算冇feel都可以keep contact

    但係往往d男仔approach左一排,知道冇機會做情侶,就漸漸唔會再想做可以做互相關心的朋友

    想問下大家,係咪其實大家上得網都只係目標為主,只為識男女朋友?



  • Nowadays 98% of ppl here do not wish to waste their time.



  • 現代網上交友的是用速食文化,吾岩就next,以前網上真正交友聊天的日子已消逝。



  • 其實我覺得可以長視少少, 係, 大家上網都只係想搵男女朋友, 但是原因極有可能係現實生活圈子窄,





    所以就算上網識的發展唔到, 不過啱傾, keep住做個朋友, 可以係大家互相介紹d朋友俾大家, 咁就可以擴展大家個交友network (當然都要識一定時間, 了解大家多d先介紹比人)



  • Hi K,





    Nice to meet you here. (Sorry my Chinese input is very poor).





    I agree with you that ppl nowadays are not long sighted. More friends are better. You will grow up the people network sooner & later. If only focusing on one simple target, we will limit ourselves. Friends can be in different dimension! I keep meeting my ex colleagues (over 10 years ago) now. They are my friends... exchanging lots of information and events. More fun with different friends.. as you will learn from them as well



  • 睇下扑咗未,未扑到可以再放長少少咁多。



  • Depends on whether they got similar hobbies n topic la



  • 未扑你都唔比佢走啦



  • ken replied at 2013-08-26 6:11 pm


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    睇下扑咗未,未扑到可以再放長少少咁多。


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    If only for sex, then please state clearly for SP/SL





    But there is still someone wanna find gf/bf, i guess?!





  • 可能我份人比較慢熱, 就算做男女朋友我都想由朋友做起, 都好正常掛???!!! 唔通唔係??





    但係d人見1,2次, 就話要一齊, 有d甚至話要同我結婚, 我覺得好攪笑>.<







  • people now do want to chat for a year before getting what they want.



  • K 我好明白你所指的一切,感同身受!



  • 做下朋友得閒捉佢出黎砌野,慳番叫雞錢都唔錯。



  • obvious la.



  • K replied at 2013-08-26 9:12 pm


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    可能我份人比較慢熱, 就算做男女朋友我都想由朋友做起, 都好正常掛???!!! 唔通唔係??





    但係d人見1,2次, 就話要一齊, 有d甚至話要同我結婚, 我覺得好攪笑>.<





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    未見真人又話愛上你,搵鬼信咩!



  • trevor replied at 2013-08-27 12:18 am


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    做下朋友得閒捉佢出黎砌野,慳番叫雞錢都唔錯。


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    完全同意 完美結局



  • K replied at 2013-08-26 9:12 pm


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    可能我份人比較慢熱, 就算做男女朋友我都想由朋友做起, 都好正常掛???!!! 唔通唔係??





    但係d人見1,2次, 就話要一齊, 有d甚至話要同我結婚, 我覺得好攪笑>.<





    ========================================================Seriously? Women from she?




  • K replied at 2013-08-26 9:12 pm


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    可能我份人比較慢熱, 就算做男女朋友我都想由朋友做起, 都好正常掛???!!! 唔通唔係??





    但係d人見1,2次, 就話要一齊, 有d甚至話要同我結婚, 我覺得好攪笑>.<





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    你信佢真心?



  • 我明白你所講的


    我都係比較慢熱,亦曾遇過你講既情況.....





    我之前都遇過兩三個網友,未見面之前都幾好傾,感覺比自己身邊的朋友更熟


    我都會期望,如果有機會可以進一步發展,如果唔OK做朋友都可以


    都傾左一兩年,希望可以做到真正朋友,而唔係只係網上交談,所以約出來見


    見面時都OK,但之後有一個完全無回音,另外的只係敷衍幾句


    幾次之後,我明白的,都無再搵佢地





    我感到很可惜,未見面之前都幾好傾,見面後就無左個朋友咁



  • 唔見又成日追問點解唔見,見咗之後人都搵唔到



  • 知道冇機會做情侶,就漸漸唔會再想做可以做互相關心的朋友 想問下大家 ----





    men on she.com can't get laid -> disappear


    they're just looking for free lunch here. don't be silly / serious.





  • 香港的速食文化....





    有時真係遇到d好好傾的, 但係無feel做唔成情侶我都無辦法,


    不過可能佢都係想討好我先扮到好啱傾>.<





    真可惜



  • 未見面好多憧憬, 見左面除非真係心中的男神女神, 大多有你講既情況出現.



  • K replied at 2013-08-30 1:50 pm


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    香港的速食文化....





    有時真係遇到d好好傾的, 但係無feel做唔成情侶我都無辦法,


    不過可能佢都係想討好我先扮到好啱傾>.<





    真可惜


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    都有可能係為左討好你先扮到好啱傾








    其實你幾大?


    經常上網識朋友?



  • K,


    最差係扮醫生約會人, 被踢爆後扮嬲消失個D男人 >.<



  • D


    tell us more! :)



  • D


    tell us more! :)



  • D


    tell us more! :)



  • 男人扮醫生約會女人, 被女人踢爆後男人扮嬲消失了.


    係唔係好清楚?



  • How she found out he wasn't a doctor on the first date?



  • c


    easy to find out, if u know his name



  • 問咁蠢問題, 唔怪得比人呃



  • 邊有網上的識人會講真話!



  • of course there are other ways to find out too, it isnt that difficult to tell if he is a liar or not.



  • 我一直好認真..........................玩



  • Well my question is, why did K have to go on the first date to find out he lied? HA!



  • C


    Dont know, but i guess K's probably wont meet the guy if she knows that he lied when they chatted online?



  • or K needed to meet him because she was sick? HA!



  • 扮道德判官嗎???



  • C


    sick as in mentally sick or physically sick?





  • 明明講緊D, 仲咩燒埋我果啖>.<






  • 不過我都遇過結左婚的扮single



  • K


    would you mind tell me your age ?





    and 你係咪識左好多人都想approach你,想做你男朋友?


    而你無表示之後佢地都疏遠你?





    一話係大家見面後,佢覺得你唔岩feel,之後就疏遠你?



  • K先生 replied at 2013-09-10 10:06 pm


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    K


    would you mind tell me your age ?





    and 你係咪識左好多人都想approach你,想做你男朋友?


    而你無表示之後佢地都疏遠你?





    一話係大家見面後,佢覺得你唔岩feel,之後就疏遠你?


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    我都27歲啦~





    又唔係識左好多人, 不過都有咁的情況


    我會表示想keep住朋友關係先, 跟住慢慢就冇左影



  • 27歲都唔算大,仲有大把機會


    你之前有無拍過拖?





    你話d人慢慢就無左影


    會唔會係佢地見完你之後,覺得唔合眼緣,完全唔岩feel,對你無興趣?


    又或者佢地個目的根本就唔係識朋友,e.g.搵SP,見無行就走人?



  • K先生 replied at 2013-09-21 1:33 pm


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    27歲都唔算大,仲有大把機會


    你之前有無拍過拖?





    你話d人慢慢就無左影


    會唔會係佢地見完你之後,覺得唔合眼緣,完全唔岩feel,對你無興趣?


    又或者佢地個目的根本就唔係識朋友,e.g.搵SP,見無行就走人?


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    哈哈, 好少人傾到計又約出黎, 會對我會冇興趣





    不過我都明, 有人真係淨係想搵女朋友, 唔係朋友



  • K replied at 2013-09-21 10:22 pm


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    哈哈, 好少人傾到計又約出黎, 會對我會冇興趣





    不過我都明, 有人真係淨係想搵女朋友, 唔係朋友


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    你好靚女又身材好咩?


    點解好少人會對你會無趣?





    咁各花入各眼啫


    有好幾個「宅男女神」我一啲興趣都無


    話唔定疏遠你果班,有部份就係對你完全無興趣





    又可能,由於時間關係,佢地都係目標為本


    要知道時間寶貴,或者佢地會認為花時間去一個無feel既人,倒不如出去搵多幾個有可能發展既人


    畢竟網上識人太易,無乜幾多個會珍惜朋友



  • 我都27歲啦~





    又唔係識左好多人, 不過都有咁的情況


    我會表示想keep住朋友關係先, 跟住慢慢就冇左影


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    K,





    Nowadays life is hectic for many, many ppl have (or think they have) little time to waste. They want to be clear about what each other want to start with.





    Decades ago, a lovers relationship may start with friendship first, and both parties accept the pace of going slowly to evolve to a relationship. Now, the same practice may be viewed differently --- the guy/gal may think you are putting him/her in secondary place, and only consider only if there are no better options later. Would you want to be in that position yourself? No wonder guys will disappear soon; they find you are not sincere to go forward, no matter you are seeking bf or sl/sp.







  • Keeping options open is normal practice.



  • Agree. We all are smart enough to hope to put ourselves in most advantages position. The key is, for the delicate topic of relationship, we need to do it in a smart way ;)