I meet my bf about once or twice a week..





  • u want ptbf?



  • We have been just together for a few months. Met about once or twice a week now but do not have much contact (both phone call or text) when we don't meet.



  • is it weird?



  • bf replied at 2013-04-03 4:36 pm


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    u want ptbf?


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    of course NOT





    I love him but feeling that he doesn't love and need me much



  • o...too bad



  • Do you know love and emotion do not equal to bread and butter ? Your boy friend is same as other males and females, he need to work hard to get income. Without money, how could he entertain you ? Besides, love does not depend on the amount of seeing you but the feelings while being together.


    Please be mature, or look for someone who has a lot of money, does not need to work to live.



  • hello, i m 30 with 180cm tall, decent appearance.





    can we chat in skype?





    skype: man4624@hotmail.com



  • louisc replied at 2013-04-03 4:57 pm


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    Do you know love and emotion do not equal to bread and butter ? Your boy friend is same as other males and females, he need to work hard to get income. Without money, how could he entertain you ? Besides, love does not depend on the amount of seeing you but the feelings while being together.


    Please be mature, or look for someone who has a lot of money, does not need to work to live.


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    Giving me a call and text won't take him much time. Btw, if you are really mature, you should understand that a relationship doesn't need money to entertain each other.



  • carl replied at 2013-04-03 4:58 pm


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    hello, i m 30 with 180cm tall, decent appearance.





    can we chat in skype?





    skype: man4624@hotmail.com


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    Don't be silly to leave msn everywhere. It only gives ppl bad impression.



  • gf,





    希望你睇到我既留言啦,傾下計做個fd.


    我一個人,30,平時得閒,細心斯文,唔肥.唔煙,少飲酒.


    可以既話有人陪下聽下玩下.


    whatsapp常用d: 6605 8851(放心唔會打電話只訊息^^)


    用whatsapp傾計方便好多~





    vertical_hk@hotmail.com


    希望聽到妳既回覆。



  • gf replied at 2013-04-03 4:37 pm


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    We have been just together for a few months. Met about once or twice a week now but do not have much contact (both phone call or text) when we don't meet.


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    Without knowing the details of the case, background and character/personality of your bf (and also yourself), it's hard to make any reasonable assessment or even wild guesses to your case.





    There are tons of possible reasons, positive and negative ones included, to explain the situation. Perhaps the only observation that is obvious is that you are not confident (or experienced) to handle a smooth development of a relationship.





    Or because he is too special to make you feel gotten lost ;)





    Well, as it is only a few months' development, the passion should not have faded so quick; if it does, then it is no harm you realize he is not for you and you may let go sooner and move on.





    Cheers,







  • likewitty replied at 2013-04-03 8:23 pm


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    gf replied at 2013-04-03 4:37 pm


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    We have been just together for a few months. Met about once or twice a week now but do not have much contact (both phone call or text) when we don't meet.


    ===============================================================





    Without knowing the details of the case, background and character/personality of your bf (and also yourself), it's hard to make any reasonable assessment or even wild guesses to your case.





    There are tons of possible reasons, positive and negative ones included, to explain the situation. Perhaps the only observation that is obvious is that you are not confident (or experienced) to handle a smooth development of a relationship.





    Or because he is too special to make you feel gotten lost ;)





    Well, as it is only a few months' development, the passion should not have faded so quick; if it does, then it is no harm you realize he is not for you and you may let go sooner and move on.





    Cheers,





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    Hi there, 我只是路過的, 不過覺得你分析力幾好, 可以同你做間中傾計的朋友嗎?




  • Hi there, 我只是路過的, 不過覺得你分析力幾好, 可以同你做間中傾計的朋友嗎?


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    hi passer by,





    You're welcome. Thanks for your kind words. I am sure there are many others more who hate my writings, haha.





    I am just an old-enough guy who is happy to play the role of a nosy consultant, esp over drinks/meals, with my friends. (My skype/email is likewitty@hotmail.com , and it is nice to meet a prospective friend there.)



  • gf replied at 2013-04-03 4:38 pm


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    bf replied at 2013-04-03 4:36 pm


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    u want ptbf?


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    of course NOT





    I love him but feeling that he doesn't love and need me much


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    If it is not your first love, you have your answer. Cruel fact you have to realize, either you go exit or stay blind.





    By the way once a week isn't bad while two compromised something. I had few times of long distance relationship. Current bf who known from she, he started working in miles away after 5 months honeymoon date and we got to wait for a year. We haven't met for 4 months however he is back for vacation. He requested to meet my she.com close friends, sure there are guys and gals.





    I do understand while love built with both efforts, feeling won't go easily. It called clicked and in sync might be.





    Wish u treasure the moment while u are missing someone. As while we wrap up finally, I guess who I missed were the sweetest guys at the sweetest time.



  • ship replied at 2013-04-03 8:09 pm


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    gf,





    希望你睇到我既留言啦,傾下計做個fd.


    我一個人,30,平時得閒,細心斯文,唔肥.唔煙,少飲酒.


    可以既話有人陪下聽下玩下.


    whatsapp常用d: 6605 8851(放心唔會打電話只訊息^^)


    用whatsapp傾計方便好多~





    vertical_hk@hotmail.com


    希望聽到妳既回覆。


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    copy and paste ar ))))



  • gf replied at 2013-04-03 4:37 pm


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    We have been just together for a few months. Met about once or twice a week now but do not have much contact (both phone call or text) when we don't meet.


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    GF


    咁真係要睇下你男友既性格





    有D人係比較PASSIVE既~


    你唔搵佢, 佢就真係可以唔搵你~





    不過剛開始就係咁就真係有點那個~


    你有冇試下同佢CHAT CHAT呢個問題?



  • loverwanna replied at 2013-04-03 9:25 pm


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    gf replied at 2013-04-03 4:37 pm


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    We have been just together for a few months. Met about once or twice a week now but do not have much contact (both phone call or text) when we don't meet.


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    GF


    咁真係要睇下你男友既性格





    有D人係比較PASSIVE既~


    你唔搵佢, 佢就真係可以唔搵你~





    不過剛開始就係咁就真係有點那個~


    你有冇試下同佢CHAT CHAT呢個問題?


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    我又咁睇,如果我愛佢我就愛佢嘅所有,


    我只係改變自己,我吾會改變佢,如果都吾得就放棄


    因為,根本吾啱,咁勉強做乜



  • I think by talking to him is better, both need to compromise.



  • Im alfred, 2x, about 176cm, 140lbs, decent looking.tall, strong and fit, decent, well-educated, nice, caring, non-smoking. Add my MSN: alfred68@live.hk . Hope we can chat or meet up some time .If you are not finding sl/sp, please ignore my post, sorry for disturb.



  • Katie replied at 2013-04-03 9:58 pm


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    I think by talking to him is better, both need to compromise.


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    I do what I could do myself first before I talk to him.


    It is about sincere and being devoted into the relationship.



  • 你地幾大?


    係咪第一次拍拖?


    咁你地見面時,會唔會多數都係攬攬錫錫或者親密關係?


    佢做野好忙?


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