想搵個對感情認真既男人...
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好想搵到一個關心我又真心既男人拍拖...
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我都想…妳幾歲？
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Romeo已死
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me too
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Not a chance.
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有！但到呢兩樣嘢得，其他又唔掂啦！
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總會有ge, 好多好男人遇著個壞女人..
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Yeah, they will be serious at the beginning, max a few years, once they have you they stray and that's a fact.
Uncle, and what's the two?
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樓主要求：關心又錫佢！
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I suppose many women have missed the key points: it is indeed not that difficult to 搵到一個關心我又真心既男人拍拖, but what is the challenge is the harsh challenge that women are in fact focusing on 'ownership' and 'exclusivity' in the love, reflected in words like 'loyalty', 'faithful' etc.
The problem is: a man (um, equally women) is happy to find many women attractive and like and love them. They do sincerely care and use 'true love' (in the Martian dictionary) with every of them --- of course, I am not talking about the other group of sex-seeking oriented guys.
If a woman can focus on the happy times only when she is spending the energy and effort with her, it can be a very happy story with successful outcomes. Unfortunately, and I agree it is a fair expectation of women, most women expects the exclusivity and commitment in a relationship that men can easily breach while he is not with her.
Differences in values and expectations of Martians and Venetians basically.
(Oops, ladies please do no hit me with the 10000 tons ;) My rationale and comments above apply vice versa to men, and sure not many men can bear with it)
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Wow, back in the hippies times now, free love and sex and stds too. We are talking about serious relationship and marriages. How men can be serious if they have other women on the go? For one they would have the time and energy so they will have bad temper and the lies will deteriorate and they will get find out. Lol Anyway, when they took the wedding vowels, they made a promise that shouldn't be broken, men just find excuses for themselves to cheat and that's a fact and they just don't care, think of the children that are involved.
Would men accept their wives and gf have other guys on the go?
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Oh, I forgot.....is not called love is called lust.
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likewitty replied at 2013-03-02 11:42 am
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I suppose many women have missed the key points: it is indeed not that difficult to 搵到一個關心我又真心既男人拍拖, but what is the challenge is the harsh challenge that women are in fact focusing on 'ownership' and 'exclusivity' in the love, reflected in words like 'loyalty', 'faithful' etc.
The problem is: a man (um, equally women) is happy to find many women attractive and like and love them. They do sincerely care and use 'true love' (in the Martian dictionary) with every of them --- of course, I am not talking about the other group of sex-seeking oriented guys.
If a woman can focus on the happy times only when she is spending the energy and effort with her, it can be a very happy story with successful outcomes. Unfortunately, and I agree it is a fair expectation of women, most women expects the exclusivity and commitment in a relationship that men can easily breach while he is not with her.
Differences in values and expectations of Martians and Venetians basically.
(Oops, ladies please do no hit me with the 10000 tons ;) My rationale and comments above apply vice versa to men, and sure not many men can bear with it)
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To add: please do not mis-read me of supporting cheating of men in a relationship. Once into a exclusive committed relationship, I well agree that men should try their best to honour their words. If however, they well know they cannot live with it and succeed in doing it, then they should not choose to commit in the first place; and if already in it, manage a proper exit first. Exit gracefully to allow re-born for yourself and herself.
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likewitty replied at 2013-03-02 12:00 pm
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likewitty replied at 2013-03-02 11:42 am
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I suppose many women have missed the key points: it is indeed not that difficult to 搵到一個關心我又真心既男人拍拖, but what is the challenge is the harsh challenge that women are in fact focusing on 'ownership' and 'exclusivity' in the love, reflected in words like 'loyalty', 'faithful' etc.
The problem is: a man (um, equally women) is happy to find many women attractive and like and love them. They do sincerely care and use 'true love' (in the Martian dictionary) with every of them --- of course, I am not talking about the other group of sex-seeking oriented guys.
If a woman can focus on the happy times only when she is spending the energy and effort with her, it can be a very happy story with successful outcomes. Unfortunately, and I agree it is a fair expectation of women, most women expects the exclusivity and commitment in a relationship that men can easily breach while he is not with her.
Differences in values and expectations of Martians and Venetians basically.
(Oops, ladies please do no hit me with the 10000 tons ;) My rationale and comments above apply vice versa to men, and sure not many men can bear with it)
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To add: please do not mis-read me of supporting cheating of men in a relationship. Once into a exclusive committed relationship, I well agree that men should try their best to honour their words. If however, they well know they cannot live with it and succeed in doing it, then they should not choose to commit in the first place; and if already in it, manage a proper exit first. Exit gracefully to allow re-born for yourself and herself.
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Lol. Well said. Thumbs up!
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can chat on msn?
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How old are you?