Feeling so 內疚，love my hubby but he really sxxks in bed, I got 3 SPs.
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Hi Sammijoan,
<br>No one dislike too much SPs. Please add me [email protected] to further chat.
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boss replied at 2012-10-23 1:44 pm
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<br>版主，睇完晒妳呢板同另一"奇想"版嘅留言，好同情妳，亦好同情妳丈夫。妳已經為他盡量設想，生孩修身相夫教子不在話下，連選SP都十分謹慎，必以先為大家保留面子保護家庭為前題，不是亂來。小時候的同學，想必定亦有頭有面有家底，信得過。不會出賣妳。前度男友亦然，也信得過。北京山高皇帝遠。若將心比心，我猜妳先生多半早知妳喺出面有男人。我相信佢亦都好愛妳同好錫個仔。也許，他亦明白，妳-現在於心理生理上係有呢個需要，換轉我，如果我好愛個女人，我都寧可睜眼開，隻眼閉，也不願deprive她of呢個空間，小小嘅pleasure。單是呢樣，不是離婚理由。其實，呢個境況係好悲哀。I've seen it in many high powered women; over work, over pressure, over everything in endless frantic effort to meet deadlines, achieve goals, often leads to a sex drive completely off the rails. That's just one of the side effects. A strong character over compensates, a weaker one just shrivels and finds a quiet place to die or simply suicides, as we often see in the news. 誰不想另一半係自己唯一。但心痛就難免了。如假設他早就心裡有數，為什麼他不願意同妳進行，或力不從心，就是這個原因。I am not judging at all, only sympathising and if you also feel you have a problem, perhaps you might consider seeking professional help.
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<br>If I am off base, just treat me as 9up.
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<br>嘩，你好似感同身受，好了解我的處境咁bor, 你留msn我過兩日add你大家詳談吧。
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<br>我呢個星期工作超忙，未必有時間chat, 十一月要飛兩次。今日紅假我都工作至四點至返家。
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<br>所以各位其他朋友，雖然都想add大家，但add了也抽不到時間chat, 請多多包涵！
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Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-23 8:29 pm
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<br>Roger replied at 2012-10-23 11:39 am
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<br>我都睇哂你的留言, 即係你而家只有2個SP?
<br>第3個係之前出trip先至有sex, 而家冇再見面?
<br>根據你描述, 你都幾需要sex, 2個SP, 夠唔夠架?
<br>而且好似第1個SP就滿足到你, 第2個好似麻麻地, 我有冇理解錯?
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<br>全中！
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<br>咁你邊夠飽架?
<br>點解唔飛左第2個SP, 搵個新的?
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Roger replied at 2012-10-23 10:39 pm
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<br>Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-23 8:29 pm
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<br>Roger replied at 2012-10-23 11:39 am
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<br>我都睇哂你的留言, 即係你而家只有2個SP?
<br>第3個係之前出trip先至有sex, 而家冇再見面?
<br>根據你描述, 你都幾需要sex, 2個SP, 夠唔夠架?
<br>而且好似第1個SP就滿足到你, 第2個好似麻麻地, 我有冇理解錯?
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<br>全中！
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<br>咁你邊夠飽架?
<br>點解唔飛左第2個SP, 搵個新的?
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<br>一來我自己工作忙又要照顧bb, 好難抽時間，add多幾個都無用無分別。
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<br>二來no.2SP係我小學同學，有感情，佢好體貼好錫我，只是我生完之後，唔知他是否有心理障礙，力有不逮。
<br>咁見SP都唔係次次精彩次次cum, 有時錫吓攬吓都感覺好好。
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<br>而且我唔可以同陌生人做，so far除了ex bf, 兩個在she認識的SP(包括小學同學），都傾左兩年，有感覺至試下上床。
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<br>北京那個都認識了年幾，msn調情了幾個月，至大戰三日兩夜。
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<br>我婚後第一次同ex bf, 做的時候好僵硬，走左仲忍唔住喊，後來係no 2 SP開解我，我至想通，至可以同SP享受性愛。
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咁可能SP No.2真係因為你生完BB, 身材走樣, 所以令佢同你生之前做的表現唔同喎!!!!!
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哦. 你都好忙喎.
<br>其實咁, 試下同老公會唔會簡單啲
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Listened your story, I feel sad. Just think you are not bad but just want to pursue something satisfy yourself. Hope u can be happy and enjoy with your SPs....
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<br>In my case, I am married and have a SL. Similar case as you.
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k replied at 2012-10-23 11:01 pm
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<br>哦. 你都好忙喎.
<br>其實咁, 試下同老公會唔會簡單啲
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<br>可以同老公就唔會有問題啦
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<br>就是佢一向無興趣，工作壓力大，又交行貨，令我一係乾都入唔到，一係無高潮，總之一言難盡...加上已經一齊十幾年，我都悶啦
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Lady 38 replied at 2012-10-23 10:59 pm
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<br>咁可能SP No.2真係因為你生完BB, 身材走樣, 所以令佢同你生之前做的表現唔同喎!!!!!
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<br>佢又唔係，仲話好鐘意我個胸又大左仲好挺，我自己好介意身材無以前咁好，佢話小肚腩ok不太差。
<br>可能我好少幫他吹，佢只是那一次失手而已。
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Spaceship replied at 2012-10-24 12:11 am
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<br>Listened your story, I feel sad. Just think you are not bad but just want to pursue something satisfy yourself. Hope u can be happy and enjoy with your SPs....
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<br>In my case, I am married and have a SL. Similar case as you.
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<br>Thank you for your understanding.
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<br>Hope you have a good life too.
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<br>I just saw my ex bf tonight for a quick sex before his dinner, it's great!^^
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quick sex also great??
<br>how come??
<br>i prefer to have a full sex ..
<br>btw, how often do you have sex with your SP
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偷情的犯罪感, 令妳不能自拔
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Add me
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have u ever thought of having 3P with your No.1+No.2 SP?
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Curious replied at 2012-10-25 11:54 am
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<br>have u ever thought of having 3P with your No.1+No.2 SP?
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<br>I'm curious to know too, do your SPs know you have more than 1 SP?
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Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-24 11:02 pm
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<br>Spaceship replied at 2012-10-24 12:11 am
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<br>Listened your story, I feel sad. Just think you are not bad but just want to pursue something satisfy yourself. Hope u can be happy and enjoy with your SPs....
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<br>In my case, I am married and have a SL. Similar case as you.
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<br>Thank you for your understanding.
<br>Hope you have a good life too.
<br>I just saw my ex bf tonight for a quick sex before his dinner, it's great!^^
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<br>其實我要再找sp都是因爲sex 需要大，不知道是否錯，不過每次完事後不久又再找sp， by chance, add: [email protected]
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k replied at 2012-10-24 11:07 pm
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<br>quick sex also great??
<br>how come??
<br>i prefer to have a full sex ..
<br>btw, how often do you have sex with your SP
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<br>I cannot afford too much time too, it's ok it's not that rush, I enjoyed it so much. ^^
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戰狂300 replied at 2012-10-24 11:08 pm
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<br>偷情的犯罪感, 令妳不能自拔
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<br>我從來不會當是偷情，只是老公不能滿足我。
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<br>我有需要，他們滿足我，我便感到平衡。
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<br>有時假期好想要，會訓唔到晏覺，腦海不斷想著做愛的片段，好慘。
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<br>心裡有悶氣，對老公會脾氣差。
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<br>性需要解決了，感到舒暢。和老公會生活得和諧一點。
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Curious replied at 2012-10-25 11:54 am
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<br>have u ever thought of having 3P with your No.1+No.2 SP?
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<br>No 1 佔有慾很強，最近知道我還有見no 2, 開開有唔開心
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<br>No 2 好開放，我有問過他，有無想過3p, 他話mmf他會嫉妒，mff他又覺得自己應付不了。
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咁都啱既, 你工作咁忙. 連自己鐘意既野都得唔到. 又真係幾辛苦.
<br>so how's work recently? did you have sex at the office?
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King replied at 2012-10-25 1:10 pm
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<br>have u ever thought of having 3P with your No.1+No.2 SP?
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<br>I'm curious to know too, do your SPs know you have more than 1 SP?
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<br>I have 3 SPs, they all know I hv 3 SPs, I am always honest w them
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<br>They are not only my SPs I can treat them as friends, we chat we share our family issues our plans.
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<br>We hv dinner we go movie sometimes
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<br>Before I hv baby sometimes I treat them as bfs, now not anymore...
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<br>It's difficult to stop the relationship when no 2 becomes bf, we chat almost every day
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<br>It took me a long time to stop communicating, and treat him simply SP.
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k replied at 2012-10-25 11:19 pm
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<br>咁都啱既, 你工作咁忙. 連自己鐘意既野都得唔到. 又真係幾辛苦.
<br>so how's work recently? did you have sex at the office?
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<br>Still very busy at work, need to work on this sat
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<br>Then biz trip for 2 weeks, 3 days each week
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<br>I never hv sex in office. Well a young guy had kissed me and touched me once, quite funny
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<br>He is 20+ and wants to be my secret lover...
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<br>夾硬黎，突然錫我，仲伸手入我條內褲裡，但我對他一點性趣也沒有。
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it sounds no.2 is a sweet guy
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partnerwanted28 replied at 2012-10-25 7:04 pm
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<br>Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-24 11:02 pm
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<br>Spaceship replied at 2012-10-24 12:11 am
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<br>Listened your story, I feel sad. Just think you are not bad but just want to pursue something satisfy yourself. Hope u can be happy and enjoy with your SPs....
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<br>In my case, I am married and have a SL. Similar case as you.
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<br>Thank you for your understanding.
<br>Hope you have a good life too.
<br>I just saw my ex bf tonight for a quick sex before his dinner, it's great!^^
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<br>其實我要再找sp都是因爲sex 需要大，不知道是否錯，不過每次完事後不久又再找sp， by chance, add: [email protected]
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<br>你有固定SP 以解決你的需要嗎？
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Lady replied at 2012-10-25 11:27 pm
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<br>it sounds no.2 is a sweet guy
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<br>He is truly very sweet
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<br>He sends me very often, take me to hiking, movies, dinners, I stayed at his place once overnight,
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<br>When I go to biz trip he sends me little gifts such as small box of biscuits
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<br>We still keep contacts although not meeting often for sex now
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haha he must be disappointed.
<br>just wonder. what do you do?
<br>so you meet up with your sp regularly. I am jealous. you can find a sp that can communicate well. That's what i am looking for too
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Lady replied at 2012-10-25 11:27 pm
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<br>it sounds no.2 is a sweet guy
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<br>And we share everything for sex
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<br>He told me how many SP he got recently and how he met the girls...
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<br>I told him things about me and my ex bf.
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um... can imagine having sex with this no.2 guy is sweet too. For me, i prefer a caring SP to a sex machine on bed.
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k replied at 2012-10-25 11:31 pm
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<br>haha he must be disappointed.
<br>just wonder. what do you do?
<br>so you meet up with your sp regularly. I am jealous. you can find a sp that can communicate well. That's what i am looking for too
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<br>Hmm he is not disappointed he got gf and will get married soon
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<br>I try to meet SP regularly as I need sex every week but really depends on my schedule, if we match our schedule to meet, not easy sometimes
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<br>U can find one too, chat w those u can connect with...then you hv sex
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Lady replied at 2012-10-25 11:33 pm
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<br>um... can imagine having sex with this no.2 guy is sweet too. For me, i prefer a caring SP to a sex machine on bed.
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<br>I agree w you
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<br>I like no 2 to cuddle me, feels great, he is not sex machine but very caring...
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<br>He does not hv big JJ but take things slowly
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<br>I enjoy my sex w him even I did not cum every time
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your stateent is very correct. However, it is not easy to find a gal who can only accept SP relationship, given that you can communicate well. Guess you can give me some advice how to catch these type of gals
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really envy you, can have SPs with different styles, satisfying your physically and mentally
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Lady, why cant you find one?
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Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-25 11:26 pm
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<br>k replied at 2012-10-25 11:19 pm
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<br>咁都啱既, 你工作咁忙. 連自己鐘意既野都得唔到. 又真係幾辛苦.
<br>so how's work recently? did you have sex at the office?
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<br>Still very busy at work, need to work on this sat
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<br>Then biz trip for 2 weeks, 3 days each week
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<br>I never hv sex in office. Well a young guy had kissed me and touched me once, quite funny
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<br>He is 20+ and wants to be my secret lover...
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<br>夾硬黎，突然錫我，仲伸手入我條內褲裡，但我對他一點性趣也沒有。
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<br>本身有女朋友, 仲就快結婚, 都咁狼死?
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Ted replied at 2012-10-25 11:50 pm
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<br>Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-25 11:26 pm
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<br>k replied at 2012-10-25 11:19 pm
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<br>咁都啱既, 你工作咁忙. 連自己鐘意既野都得唔到. 又真係幾辛苦.
<br>so how's work recently? did you have sex at the office?
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<br>Still very busy at work, need to work on this sat
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<br>Then biz trip for 2 weeks, 3 days each week
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<br>I never hv sex in office. Well a young guy had kissed me and touched me once, quite funny
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<br>He is 20+ and wants to be my secret lover...
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<br>夾硬黎，突然錫我，仲伸手入我條內褲裡，但我對他一點性趣也沒有。
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<br>本身有女朋友, 仲就快結婚, 都咁狼死?
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<br>你睇漏了，狼死的是公司的年輕同事，不是no 2 SP
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我都结左婚，但都仲有見sp
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Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-25 11:36 pm
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<br>k replied at 2012-10-25 11:31 pm
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<br>haha he must be disappointed.
<br>just wonder. what do you do?
<br>so you meet up with your sp regularly. I am jealous. you can find a sp that can communicate well. That's what i am looking for too
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<br>Hmm he is not disappointed he got gf and will get married soon
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<br>I try to meet SP regularly as I need sex every week but really depends on my schedule, if we match our schedule to meet, not easy sometimes
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<br>U can find one too, chat w those u can connect with...then you hv sex
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<br>我唔係睇漏, 你之前話俾k聽, 你同事伸手入你內褲, 跟住k答 "he must be disappointed"..... 係唔係你誤會了呢?
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When you don't have gf/bf, then I guess the priority would be finding a gf/bf first and not a discreet sp/sl. Seriously, I'm in the camp to think that there's nothing wrong about having an SP - you just get what you wanted and can't get it from somebody whom you loved, while preserving the love for him/her. It helps to keep your legit relationship intact and lasting. Guys can pay for prostitute to release, it's not easy for woman I suppose.
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<br>I'm a dude, btw.
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Add me if u r bored, u'll be surprised coz I always need sex!!
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Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-26 7:48 am
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<br>Ted replied at 2012-10-25 11:50 pm
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<br>Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-25 11:26 pm
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<br>k replied at 2012-10-25 11:19 pm
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<br>咁都啱既, 你工作咁忙. 連自己鐘意既野都得唔到. 又真係幾辛苦.
<br>so how's work recently? did you have sex at the office?
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<br>Still very busy at work, need to work on this sat
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<br>Then biz trip for 2 weeks, 3 days each week
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<br>I never hv sex in office. Well a young guy had kissed me and touched me once, quite funny
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<br>He is 20+ and wants to be my secret lover...
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<br>夾硬黎，突然錫我，仲伸手入我條內褲裡，但我對他一點性趣也沒有。
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<br>What is your company policy on sexual harassment?
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helenmelody replied at 2012-09-23 6:01 pm
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<br>tin replied at 2012-09-23 1:42 pm
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<br>No need to feel guilty, separate sex and love ! Support
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<br>Thx for your support!
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<br>Yes one of my SPs taught me, now I separate sex and love, i think it's a good balance.
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<br>Sometimes just feel guilty.
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Sammijoan,
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<br>first of all, i do not read through all the threads yet...
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<br>sex is important of course, but suggest you can create some hobbies for yourself and/or together with your husband such as sports.... put your efforts to concentrate in others field so will be less demand on sex.
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helenmelody replied at 2012-09-23 6:01 pm
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<br>how would you like to have an new SP? i know you have bb but can try once, condom on if you want ;)
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Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-25 11:16 pm
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<br>戰狂300 replied at 2012-10-24 11:08 pm
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<br>偷情的犯罪感, 令妳不能自拔
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<br>我從來不會當是偷情，只是老公不能滿足我。
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<br>我有需要，他們滿足我，我便感到平衡。
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<br>有時假期好想要，會訓唔到晏覺，腦海不斷想著做愛的片段，好慘。
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<br>心裡有悶氣，對老公會脾氣差。
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<br>性需要解決了，感到舒暢。和老公會生活得和諧一點。
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<br>咁妳真係需要多過一個的SP
<br>每一個都屬於後備,當妳有需要時, 就要一個得閒的出現,
<br>滿足妳的需要.
<br>若妳DIY 就能得到滿足, 就可以減少SP的數量
<br>明白妳的處境
<br>GOOD LUCK
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Ken replied at 2012-10-26 4:00 pm
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<br>first of all, i do not read through all the threads yet...
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<br>sex is important of course, but suggest you can create some hobbies for yourself and/or together with your husband such as sports.... put your efforts to concentrate in others field so will be less demand on sex.
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<br>I usually like most kind of sports
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<br>I like to go to gym, now still goes 3 times a week and 1 hour each time
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<br>I like swimming hiking etc
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<br>But my hubby only likes running by himself and I cannot run as fast as him.
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<br>Believe me, I tried everything and it does not work.
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<br>I know its a gd way to keep gd marriage if we hv one common interest but we don't hv, the only common hobby we share is to enjoy gd food together!
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<br>Most importantly I don't like to DIY. I feel sad and lonely every time I DIY. ; (
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man replied at 2012-10-26 2:36 pm
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<br>Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-26 7:48 am
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<br>Ted replied at 2012-10-25 11:50 pm
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<br>Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-25 11:26 pm
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<br>k replied at 2012-10-25 11:19 pm
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<br>咁都啱既, 你工作咁忙. 連自己鐘意既野都得唔到. 又真係幾辛苦.
<br>so how's work recently? did you have sex at the office?
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<br>Still very busy at work, need to work on this sat
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<br>Then biz trip for 2 weeks, 3 days each week
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<br>I never hv sex in office. Well a young guy had kissed me and touched me once, quite fun
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<br>He is 20+ and wants to be my secret lover...
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<br>夾硬黎，突然錫我，仲伸手入我條內褲裡，但我對他一點性趣也沒有。
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<br>What is your company policy on sexual harassment?
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<br>He is young and nice guy,i won't report him
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<br>It's just funny how he approached me
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carrie replied at 2012-10-26 7:55 am
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<br>我都结左婚，但都仲有見sp
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<br>你通常幾耐見SP一次？
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Sammijoan replied at 2012-10-26 11:09 pm
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<br>carrie replied at 2012-10-26 7:55 am
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<br>我都结左婚，但都仲有見sp
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<br>你通常幾耐見SP一次？
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<br>Hi
<br>you just only want sex?
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我仲以為無人回覆
<br>我通常一星期二次至三次
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carrie replied at 2012-10-26 11:12 pm
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<br>我仲以為無人回覆
<br>我通常一星期二次至三次
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<br>我平日要2230後才可以上來
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<br>你都算多喎，就算我未生之前，最多一周一次。
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<br>最近留意到，開始多左已婚女士找SP
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<br>其實我好想同老公靈欲合一，水乳交融
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<br>但他真的技巧不好，又無心思，兼一向唔好做愛。我試過買玩具和他一齊玩，他完全無興趣。
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