Question

Does your sl relationship always end up turning into a sp relationship? Or does it turn into steady bf/gf one? If the former, then why not just seek sp in the first place, my ex-sl's all wanted to become my gf eventually, but that ruins the purpose of sl relationship agreed upon at the beginning. Perhaps sp relationship is more straight forward...

I found sl relationships in the past to always end somewhat stressful and sad, which is so different to what I initially intended, which was a long lasting loving relationship that both could cherish happily but secretly to preserve the side which a steady marriage cannot provide.

呃西屌就呃西屌喇!!!

駛乜搵藉口!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

haha,

how rude you are, clearly because of ppl like you, this place is increasingly becoming a black hole left with rubbish like you, certainly not what it used to be. I haven't had a sl for many years already, but just wanted to have a chat here as I have a little free time today. So sorry to disappoint you about your accusation.

I really wanna know the answer too...

smi1e, gimme 5.

比對腳你睇就give me 5

仲唔快d比答案人

haha,

If you can't comprehend English properly, perhaps you should go back to school. smi1e is interested to know the answer from the broader audience here, so if you can't add any constructive comments, perhaps you should just get the hell out of this thread.

haha, is too many axxholes like you that make this world such a polluted place it is today.

Well. to be honest, environment together with mentally can change things.

SL can be turned into SP if both can enjoy more on sex than feeling. However, if both can really understand each other and give out support to one another, they can be turned into bf/gf

What i mean is when one is in difficulty, one could be turned weak and any help offered from another one can easily change teh another person and make things become bf/gf.

sexually however is the easiest thing to be turned typically as this is more tangible.

That's very deep thoughts there firebird...

幾驚你唔識睇我既中文!

係既...你既英文真係好! 而我英文差之餘, 理解能力更差!

但以上都係你個人觀點, 只係你覺得, 你認為! 你一廂情願既想法!

最叻你仲可以知smi1e真正想點! 佩服!

forget to tell you...here is open forum! dude!

Haha,

Of course this is an open forum, and I welcome any constructive responses from sensible people. Precisely because it is an open forum, you simply shine with how utterly rude and uneducated you are to the rest of the world.

One gets respects from others, but one loses face on his own.

Well done "Dude"!

My SL is still an SL after several years, but we are just lucky to have found a good match. You are probably right..to a certain extent. I think it makes more sense to look for an SP in here.

Mitch

Who wanna to be secret , if the love is true!

most ppl looking for secret lover here is bcos they are married or have bf/gf

Gilt, you're very lucky indeed. I've never really had a sp before, because I think sex is only enjoyable with someone you love. However, it is tough to find someone you love and can stay sl's like you have.

Stone, indeed, of course true love deserves to be in the open, the difficulty is when timing wasn't right for that true love to appear at the time when one is single.

Mitch

If all your ex's wanna be your bf, you're lucky too.

Mitch

Sorry, typo

'If all your ex's wanna be your gf'

Stone,

The relationship became very difficult when that happened, and it was very hard for them to accept their status in the end because they wanted to own me whole. I'm sure you have had similar experience by the sounds of it.

Mitch,

If you are married, there is really not many reasons to look for true love elsewhere, I believe love and commitment go hand in hand.

I wonder if anyone wants to own stone "whole". :p

Mitch

It's not easy to handle multiple relationship!

Glit replied at 2012-04-12 4:22 pm

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I wonder if anyone wants to own stone "whole". :p

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Glit

I dont know too. Would u like to try? LoL

Stone, it was indeed very tough, and that's why I wanted to get a broader view from the audience here. Yet I do enjoy the love feeling very much.

Glit

You ever thought of owning your sl whole?

Mitch replied at 2012-04-12 4:31 pm

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Stone, it was indeed very tough, and that's why I wanted to get a broader view from the audience here. Yet I do enjoy the love feeling very much.

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Mitch

If you never cheat on your sl's. She should understand your situation. no?

Mitch

Sometimes women get irrational, even though they understand your situation, but you cant blame them!

Stone,

No thanks!

and sometimes men get irrational too, it doesnt happened only on women exclusively.

Stone,

No thanks to owning you, but yes, I have thought of owning him whole.

Glit replied at 2012-04-12 4:39 pm

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Stone,

No thanks to owning you, but yes, I have thought of owning him whole.

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Glit

That i already know. Was just teasing you! :)

Mitch

I guess letting her go is the only way, if u can't offer what she want.

Mitch

Pointless, to let her suffering continue

stone, indeed that's what ended up happening in the past, and was extremely painful process for the both of us. Hence, I wonder if it would better to have just been sp's in the first place.

Mitch

I dont know. Can you sex with a woman emotionlessly?

Stone, that's what I am really not sure about, how enjoyable could that really be..., just sex and no love?

Have you ever?

Sorry to the host.想不到我一個message會令你俾人話 :-(

Mitch replied at 2012-04-12 5:42 pm

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Stone, that's what I am really not sure about, how enjoyable could that really be..., just sex and no love?

Have you ever?

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Mitch

There are not rule of thumb on this. Some guys found it perfectly fine to have just plain sex, but other found it awful. You better try that yourself to find out if that's your cup of tea.

SL relationship is about looking for the right person, but in the wrong time.

Ond day, maybe either one finds that the timing is right, like when one become single again, he/she may want the relationship change.

My 0.02

after read thru all your msg suddenly i like to speakout from a gal s view. if u know that u cannot offer what the gals want ie bf/gf ,and u know she suffers , but you want to keep the so called sl/sp..would u thnk of something to compensate so as to keep the gals with u? eg providing some kind of support, dont have to

be in monetary , but something to comfort her , like if she needs a nice

apartment get her one, she likes shopping , pay her bills etc or even seek a single and avaliable gentlemen to her ... once she's someone attachd, she would not want to be ur gf and want the whole you.

this is really want i think heartly, hope it helps

^^