big city no true love .......

is my 5th months on travel now, meet some guys n gals from different countries and seem we had the same situation. why so hard to find a true love in the big city?

Because we are more independent but more selfish

hknewsgroup replied at 2012-03-03 11:42 am

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Because we are more independent but more selfish

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haaaa yeah I like this answer..... but my feeling is why we have to or maybe we got no choice but we need to put more and more factor into love..... then end up all those factor finally grow bigger then love itself ....

I met a guy from south France, he don't have a good job, don't have a handsome face and model body, but his gf is hot, actually is very hot. every time when we hangout or travel together, you can see they just let their life flow.... haaa we wait until 7 to go to supermarket just for the discount bread, they both not come from a rich family, both need to work but their relationship is so good, this kind of relationship is kind of rare in hong kong in my eyes ... you feel that that person can been through with you in your life no matter up and down. but I met another french who come from Paris, he never try to speak english .... such a big nose ... sorry is a bit out of the topic but I don't know, maybe we are forced to be smart in big city ...

cycleincircle replied at 2012-03-03 12:13 pm

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hknewsgroup replied at 2012-03-03 11:42 am

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Because we are more independent but more selfish

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haaaa yeah I like this answer..... but my feeling is why we have to or maybe we got no choice but we need to put more and more factor into love..... then end up all those factor finally grow bigger then love itself ....

I met a guy from south France, he don't have a good job, don't have a handsome face and model body, but his gf is hot, actually is very hot. every time when we hangout or travel together, you can see they just let their life flow.... haaa we wait until 7 to go to supermarket just for the discount bread, they both not come from a rich family, both need to work but their relationship is so good, this kind of relationship is kind of rare in hong kong in my eyes ... you feel that that person can been through with you in your life no matter up and down. but I met another french who come from Paris, he never try to speak english .... such a big nose ... sorry is a bit out of the topic but I don't know, maybe we are forced to be smart in big city ...

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I guess it is not a problem for the French not to speak English as the two countries went to war for a century!

It seems that as we get more money and education we seems to treasure more on things other than traditional good qualities.

I remembered that there were news on the top choices of the career of their lovers. I feel funny because as I think we love our lovers because of their characters, not their jobs, their incomes, etc.

I guess it is not a problem for the French not to speak English as the two countries went to war for a century!

It seems that as we get more money and education we seems to treasure more on things other than traditional good qualities.

I remembered that there were news on the top choices of the career of their lovers. I feel funny because as I think we love our lovers because of their characters, not their jobs, their incomes, etc.

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haaa but seem just ppls who from paris they don't speak english ... but anyway

well .... honestly the gal I met, most of them they ask the job and incomes before everything ... well ... even my sister ... she try to broke up with her bf because he don't have job for a month .... then finally he got a better job then they back together ... I just really don't understand, I know her bf really love her with his heart, but what is the result man .... is that a joke? well maybe we got too good education ....

cycleincircle replied at 2012-03-03 2:16 pm

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I guess it is not a problem for the French not to speak English as the two countries went to war for a century!

It seems that as we get more money and education we seems to treasure more on things other than traditional good qualities.

I remembered that there were news on the top choices of the career of their lovers. I feel funny because as I think we love our lovers because of their characters, not their jobs, their incomes, etc.

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haaa but seem just ppls who from paris they don't speak english ... but anyway

well .... honestly the gal I met, most of them they ask the job and incomes before everything ... well ... even my sister ... she try to broke up with her bf because he don't have job for a month .... then finally he got a better job then they back together ... I just really don't understand, I know her bf really love her with his heart, but what is the result man .... is that a joke? well maybe we got too good education ....

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Yes, we receive good education to live in a material world, not mental or spiritual