跟他...真的分開了~~

ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 5:38 pm
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 harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:34 pm
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 我想一星期吧, 你慢慢會冷靜下來的
 不要迫自己, 不要急, 情緒是需要時間沉澱的
 趁這段時間盡情哭出來, 盡情發洩
 你是人, 不用壓抑, 傷心是人之常情
 但要保持正面跟樂觀, 你會很快回復笑容的~ :)
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 agree!!
 所有人都鍾意笑容滿面既人... :-)
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 我知道冇人會仲意苦瓜乾 ... :(

harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:40 pm
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 我介意見到佢同另一個女仔一齊...心裡不是味兒....>_<
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 會見到?? 不能不見嗎??
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 不見會好d .. 但facebook 一定睇得到:(

Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 5:44 pm
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 Sunny .. I have added you but can't see you online

replied at 2011-12-21 8:02 pm
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 Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 5:44 pm
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 Sunny .. I have added you but can't see you online
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 Hi, I am online wor... U just send an email to [email protected] and I will return u with the e-book. v & harmony already got it.
 
 No worry, time will tell u are the best & he picked the wrong one.... I am a positive thinker... need to be in cos the life should more fruitful and keep cheer up!

Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 8:24 pm
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 Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 5:44 pm
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 Sunny .. I have added you but can't see you online
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 Hi, I am online wor... U just send an email to [email protected] and I will return u with the e-book. v & harmony already got it.
 
 No worry, time will tell u are the best & he picked the wrong one.... I am a positive thinker... need to be in cos the life should more fruitful and keep cheer up!
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 I also want to prove that he picked the wrong one and make the wrong decision :)
 
 Seems that I feel much more better tonight ... I am not sure ~~
 
 I have sent you an e-mail .. you check check la

原來..我不是想像中那麼好起來...突然又哭了~~

點解要忍住唔喊?? 黠解唔渲洩一下自己嘅感情... 又唔係一件醜事..

milkymilky replied at 2011-12-21 11:53 pm
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 點解要忍住唔喊??
 黠解唔渲洩一下自己嘅感情...
 又唔係一件醜事..
 
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 我唔想比屋企人知

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 milkymilky replied at 2011-12-21 11:53 pm
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 點解要忍住唔喊??
 黠解唔渲洩一下自己嘅感情...
 又唔係一件醜事..
 
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 我唔想比屋企人知
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 用力d喊....
 發洩完訓番覺好幾咁舒服.
 
 有d乜屋企人唔知得??
 佢哋係最支持你嘅人

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 Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 8:24 pm
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 Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 5:44 pm
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 Sunny .. I have added you but can't see you online
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 Hi, I am online wor... U just send an email to [email protected] and I will return u with the e-book. v & harmony already got it.
 
 No worry, time will tell u are the best & he picked the wrong one.... I am a positive thinker... need to be in cos the life should more fruitful and keep cheer up!
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 I also want to prove that he picked the wrong one and make the wrong decision :)
 
 Seems that I feel much more better tonight ... I am not sure ~~
 
 I have sent you an e-mail .. you check check la
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 Hi, Seems MSN mail had problem. Please resend again to [email protected]
 BTW, I didn't get your invitation on msn. A bit strange.
 I wanna to share more with you on the chat room. See if we could get connected finally. Thanks.

Sunny replied at 2011-12-22 9:38 am
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 Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 8:24 pm
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 Hi, Seems MSN mail had problem. Please resend again to [email protected]
 BTW, I didn't get your invitation on msn. A bit strange.
 I wanna to share more with you on the chat room. See if we could get connected finally. Thanks.
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 Sunny .... I am trying to connect to you ar .. I am online now~~

早晨...

bebe...add埋我丫
 
 [email protected]

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 Sunny replied at 2011-12-22 9:38 am
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 Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 8:24 pm
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 Hi, Seems MSN mail had problem. Please resend again to [email protected]
 BTW, I didn't get your invitation on msn. A bit strange.
 I wanna to share more with you on the chat room. See if we could get connected finally. Thanks.
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 Sunny .... I am trying to connect to you ar .. I am online now~~
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 OK lah.. I can see u online & E-book sent to your email address la. Please check.

JennD replied at 2011-12-22 11:33 am
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 早晨...
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 morning ar~

今日工作忙 ... 令到我完全冇時間諗佢...

One day, when you look back, you may find yourself silly, so silly to be that upset simply because of someone who does not love you anymore. Of course, before that day comes, emotions would come intermittently. 頂住！

humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 1:01 am
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 One day, when you look back, you may find yourself silly, so silly to be that upset simply because of someone who does not love you anymore. Of course, before that day comes, emotions would come intermittently. 頂住！
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 I am really silly ... 原來 ... 我冇我想中那樣好起來....我又哭了~~~

hi
 
 do u wanna chat in msn now?
 
 msn: [email protected]

replied at 2011-12-23 1:29 am
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 humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 1:01 am
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 One day, when you look back, you may find yourself silly, so silly to be that upset simply because of someone who does not love you anymore. Of course, before that day comes, emotions would come intermittently. 頂住！
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 I am really silly ... 原來 ... 我冇我想中那樣好起來....我又哭了~~~
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 it takes time to cure

man replied at 2011-12-23 5:08 am
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 humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 1:01 am
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 One day, when you look back, you may find yourself silly, so silly to be that upset simply because of someone who does not love you anymore. Of course, before that day comes, emotions would come intermittently. 頂住！
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 I am really silly ... 原來 ... 我冇我想中那樣好起來....我又哭了~~~
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 it takes time to cure
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 i m not sure how much time i need but i really feel so hard right now seems that i go crazy .. sometimes i feel okay but will cried suddenly

如果你唔介意同我做朋友同傾下計可以add 我msn
 [email protected]

let it go~ move forward! the best is yet to come!

These things takes time.
 
 It's normal to be upset when broken up ah, afterall, you wouldn't be dating the guy if you don't like him.
 
 I find it better to go out a bit, just sit in a nice cafe to have a relax coffee with friends.
 
 Hope things will be ok for you soon.

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 man replied at 2011-12-23 5:08 am
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 humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 1:01 am
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 One day, when you look back, you may find yourself silly, so silly to be that upset simply because of someone who does not love you anymore. Of course, before that day comes, emotions would come intermittently. 頂住！
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 I am really silly ... 原來 ... 我冇我想中那樣好起來....我又哭了~~~
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 it takes time to cure
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 i m not sure how much time i need but i really feel so hard right now seems that i go crazy .. sometimes i feel okay but will cried suddenly
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 next year, 6-1-2012 the earliest

I still remember, some time ago, when I stared at the computer monitor in my working place, tears dropped one by one for no reason. I also remember, when I was walking in the street after work, vision became blurred not because of sand or dust, but because of uncontrollable flooding in my eyes. At that time, it seemed everything was meaningless; the one whom I trusted decide to leave without any regret. It seemed everything had vanished, except me being left in this world.
 
 This is a progress that you must go through. It's pain; I can still recall how pain it is without any difficulty. The feeling is so deep and clear.
 
 Yet, again, try to avoid comparing, counting or looking back. From now on, you may need to live a brand new life; you may be even feeling lonesome and blue. (At least, this is what I'm undergoing.) Yet, you still need to live with your head up. Remember, you are not alone! Under the same sky, there are so many people like you and me.

Babe0311,
 do you feel better now? There are many people experiencing the same things as you. You are not alone

Hi Bebe
 
 take it easy la.....i know say is easy but do is very hard..
 but anyway i knew your feeling.....if cant back forget that la....keep thinking is very poor(i b4 that).....enjoy holiday la

humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 12:33 pm
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 I still remember, some time ago, when I stared at the computer monitor in my working place, tears dropped one by one for no reason. I also remember, when I was walking in the street after work, vision became blurred not because of sand or dust, but because of uncontrollable flooding in my eyes. At that time, it seemed everything was meaningless; the one whom I trusted decide to leave without any regret. It seemed everything had vanished, except me being left in this world.
 
 This is a progress that you must go through. It's pain; I can still recall how pain it is without any difficulty. The feeling is so deep and clear.
 
 Yet, again, try to avoid comparing, counting or looking back. From now on, you may need to live a brand new life; you may be even feeling lonesome and blue. (At least, this is what I'm undergoing.) Yet, you still need to live with your head up. Remember, you are not alone! Under the same sky, there are so many people like you and me.
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 This is a very vivid description and so true.
 Months passed by and I can merely feel the pain now, just feel numb.
 The healing part is so tough, it’s beyond words and I am pretty sure this is one of the most difficult task could a human being achieved.
 But once you get through it, you would realize you could the most powerful person in the world.
 People meet and part every day, you are not the only one.
 We will be fine one day….

Hi PooPoo
 
 you are guy or gal
 
 u think guy or gal more easy to solve that??

batman888 replied at 2011-12-23 3:05 pm
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 Hi PooPoo
 
 you are guy or gal
 
 u think guy or gal more easy to solve that??
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 女仔願意搵人傾訢,過程可能無咁孤獨.不過女仔比較多愁善感, 好番應該會耐D. 男仔應該係相反掛,自己一個人揹晒, 又少D同人講, 但係應該會快好番:)
 
 我係PooPoo, 一duk 屎, 無分男女架, 不過我係啡色0既

PooPoo replied at 2011-12-23 3:24 pm
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 batman888 replied at 2011-12-23 3:05 pm
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 Hi PooPoo
 
 you are guy or gal
 
 u think guy or gal more easy to solve that??
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 女仔願意搵人傾訢,過程可能無咁孤獨.不過女仔比較多愁善感, 好番應該會耐D. 男仔應該係相反掛,自己一個人揹晒, 又少D同人講, 但係應該會快好番:)
 
 我係PooPoo, 一duk 屎, 無分男女架, 不過我係啡色0既
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 agree "男仔應該係相反掛,自己一個人揹晒, 又少D同人講, 但係應該會快好番"...but i'm not maybe cant find my ms.right la

samakasam replied at 2011-12-23 9:55 am
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 let it go~ move forward! the best is yet to come!
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 thx so much~~

feathers replied at 2011-12-23 10:11 am
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 These things takes time.
 
 It's normal to be upset when broken up ah, afterall, you wouldn't be dating the guy if you don't like him.
 
 I find it better to go out a bit, just sit in a nice cafe to have a relax coffee with friends.
 
 Hope things will be ok for you soon.
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 i have gone out and come back .. I still don't wanna tell my fd broke up with him ... I want to be alone :(

man replied at 2011-12-23 11:15 am
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 man replied at 2011-12-23 5:08 am
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 humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 1:01 am
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 One day, when you look back, you may find yourself silly, so silly to be that upset simply because of someone who does not love you anymore. Of course, before that day comes, emotions would come intermittently. 頂住！
 ===============================================================
 
 I am really silly ... 原來 ... 我冇我想中那樣好起來....我又哭了~~~
 ===============================================================
 it takes time to cure
 ===============================================================
 i m not sure how much time i need but i really feel so hard right now seems that i go crazy .. sometimes i feel okay but will cried suddenly
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 next year, 6-1-2012 the earliest
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 yi .. why 6-1 ?? is there any meaning???

the change of month......metaphysically

humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 12:33 pm
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 I still remember, some time ago, when I stared at the computer monitor in my working place, tears dropped one by one for no reason. I also remember, when I was walking in the street after work, vision became blurred not because of sand or dust, but because of uncontrollable flooding in my eyes. At that time, it seemed everything was meaningless; the one whom I trusted decide to leave without any regret. It seemed everything had vanished, except me being left in this world.
 
 This is a progress that you must go through. It's pain; I can still recall how pain it is without any difficulty. The feeling is so deep and clear.
 
 Yet, again, try to avoid comparing, counting or looking back. From now on, you may need to live a brand new life; you may be even feeling lonesome and blue. (At least, this is what I'm undergoing.) Yet, you still need to live with your head up. Remember, you are not alone! Under the same sky, there are so many people like you and me.
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 I got the same feeling right now .. really ..exactly ... tears are uncontrollable ... i really can't breath sometimes ... I feel my heart is really painful >_<
 
 I am lonesome all day ... i still keep seeing whatapps to see whether he is awake ... I still want to call him to hear his voice ... really .. I can't get rid of him ... even I am bathing .. sleeping .. my tears running out .... :(

i know, u r not the first or only 1 behaving like that....

experienced replied at 2011-12-23 2:18 pm
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 Babe0311,
 do you feel better now? There are many people experiencing the same things as you. You are not alone
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 I still keeping crying without any reason ... I think I am crazy .. really .. >_<

batman888 replied at 2011-12-23 2:28 pm
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 Hi Bebe
 
 take it easy la.....i know say is easy but do is very hard..
 but anyway i knew your feeling.....if cant back forget that la....keep thinking is very poor(i b4 that).....enjoy holiday la
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 i hate holiday this time .. I really want to go to work all day long :( then i will feel much better becoz of the endless work ....

PooPoo replied at 2011-12-23 2:57 pm
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 This is a very vivid description and so true.
 Months passed by and I can merely feel the pain now, just feel numb.
 The healing part is so tough, it’s beyond words and I am pretty sure this is one of the most difficult task could a human being achieved.
 But once you get through it, you would realize you could the most powerful person in the world.
 People meet and part every day, you are not the only one.
 We will be fine one day….
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 Poo Poo ... thx for your support ...
 
 I know I will be fine one day ... but I think I will take a long time to recover ...
 
 I still haven't told my parents I have separate with him ... they still seeing him last saturday and ate hot pot in my home .. :(
 
 He also asked me to marry him .. and live with him last month ... :( I also want to have future with him ... but everything changed this week .. the world becomes dark .... I can't tell myself what is happening right now ... why why why always in my mind >+<

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 experienced replied at 2011-12-23 2:18 pm
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 Babe0311,
 do you feel better now? There are many people experiencing the same things as you. You are not alone
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 I still keeping crying without any reason ... I think I am crazy .. really .. >_<
 
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 can i help?

replied at 2011-12-23 5:17 pm
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 batman888 replied at 2011-12-23 2:28 pm
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 Hi Bebe
 
 take it easy la.....i know say is easy but do is very hard..
 but anyway i knew your feeling.....if cant back forget that la....keep thinking is very poor(i b4 that).....enjoy holiday la
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 i hate holiday this time .. I really want to go to work all day long :( then i will feel much better becoz of the endless work ....
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 b4...i use work to solve always busy...but now is waste of time....maybe i old la no time to waste

PooPoo replied at 2011-12-23 2:57 pm
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 humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 12:33 pm
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 I still remember, some time ago, when I stared at the computer monitor in my working place, tears dropped one by one for no reason. I also remember, when I was walking in the street after work, vision became blurred not because of sand or dust, but because of uncontrollable flooding in my eyes. At that time, it seemed everything was meaningless; the one whom I trusted decide to leave without any regret. It seemed everything had vanished, except me being left in this world.
 
 This is a progress that you must go through. It's pain; I can still recall how pain it is without any difficulty. The feeling is so deep and clear.
 
 Yet, again, try to avoid comparing, counting or looking back. From now on, you may need to live a brand new life; you may be even feeling lonesome and blue. (At least, this is what I'm undergoing.) Yet, you still need to live with your head up. Remember, you are not alone! Under the same sky, there are so many people like you and me.
 ===============================================================
 This is a very vivid description and so true.
 Months passed by and I can merely feel the pain now, just feel numb.
 The healing part is so tough, it’s beyond words and I am pretty sure this is one of the most difficult task could a human being achieved.
 But once you get through it, you would realize you could the most powerful person in the world.
 People meet and part every day, you are not the only one.
 We will be fine one day….
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 Wow, even though time has already helped me heal my wounds, to a greater extent, I still don't feel I am the most powerful person. I suppose Obama or Hu Jintao is far more powerful than us. :P
 
 Seriously, I'm really grateful to see that many people give you a hand. At least, these comforts are far warmer than lighting in CBD or lasting than wine you sip, right?
 
 Don't be addicted to the past! Just like waking up and getting off the bed in winter morning, in the beginning, it's hard; yet, after some minutes, you will find how lovely the chilly but fresh wind is.

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 PooPoo replied at 2011-12-23 2:57 pm
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 This is a very vivid description and so true.
 Months passed by and I can merely feel the pain now, just feel numb.
 The healing part is so tough, it’s beyond words and I am pretty sure this is one of the most difficult task could a human being achieved.
 But once you get through it, you would realize you could the most powerful person in the world.
 People meet and part every day, you are not the only one.
 We will be fine one day….
 ===============================================================
 Poo Poo ... thx for your support ...
 
 I know I will be fine one day ... but I think I will take a long time to recover ...
 
 I still haven't told my parents I have separate with him ... they still seeing him last saturday and ate hot pot in my home .. :(
 
 He also asked me to marry him .. and live with him last month ... :( I also want to have future with him ... but everything changed this week .. the world becomes dark .... I can't tell myself what is happening right now ... why why why always in my mind >+<
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 I'm not sure if I talk too much. Perhaps, other generous people who would like to help you out can give you advice or words that are more constructive. Yet, after reading what you said, I can't help putting down something again. Thousand apologies.
 
 I'm different from you in the sense that, immediately after the 'incident', I told my parent what had happened. The reason is, I know, once something has changed, it should have changed. By no means can a relationship, which relies on both parties, be rescued by any single side. I just don't want my parent, who values her even more than me, continued having false hope.
 
 You are right in saying that, just a month or even less before, we talked about marriage, I seriously thought about how to lay foundation for the marriage, my family had dinner with her, ... Yet, overnight, everything seemed to have changed. Everything was in vain, there is no any direction. Only the feeling of 'where am I going to' was left. ... ...
 
 Honestly, I have no idea about how long your relationship is or how serious the damage is. Yet, this does not really matter. What I want to let you know is, again, you are not alone. I'm sure there are plenty of people who experience similar things. I'm sure they are plenty of people who succeed in recovering from pain and sorrow. You are unique, but you are not an exception. You will also get well shortly.
 
 Darkness before dawn always seems to be long; yet, in fact, when you are used to it, you may complain it's not long enough (it's because, after that, you have to get up for your work and face your boss again). ^_^

man replied at 2011-12-23 5:24 pm
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 experienced replied at 2011-12-23 2:18 pm
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 Babe0311,
 do you feel better now? There are many people experiencing the same things as you. You are not alone
 ===============================================================
 
 I still keeping crying without any reason ... I think I am crazy .. really .. >_<
 
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 can i help?
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 how to help??

batman888 replied at 2011-12-23 5:34 pm
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 batman888 replied at 2011-12-23 2:28 pm
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 Hi Bebe
 
 take it easy la.....i know say is easy but do is very hard..
 but anyway i knew your feeling.....if cant back forget that la....keep thinking is very poor(i b4 that).....enjoy holiday la
 ===============================================================
 
 i hate holiday this time .. I really want to go to work all day long :( then i will feel much better becoz of the endless work ....
 ===============================================================
 b4...i use work to solve always busy...but now is waste of time....maybe i old la no time to waste
 
 
 Love and Job are also important to me actually ... I can't live without them
 
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replied at 2011-12-23 6:30 pm
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 man replied at 2011-12-23 5:24 pm
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 experienced replied at 2011-12-23 2:18 pm
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 Babe0311,
 do you feel better now? There are many people experiencing the same things as you. You are not alone
 ===============================================================
 
 I still keeping crying without any reason ... I think I am crazy .. really .. >_<
 
 ===============================================================
 can i help?
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 how to help??
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 whatever i can

Humble....
 ur words really touch me..
 yes,time heals our wound but I still remember how pain it was when I separated with my bf. My heart was torn into pieces.. tear never stopped.. it's past..but I still remember the pain.
 Let's look forward.. living in the past is not healthy..the best is yet to come!

humblegrass replied at 2011-12-23 5:51 pm
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 Wow, even though time has already helped me heal my wounds, to a greater extent, I still don't feel I am the most powerful person. I suppose Obama or Hu Jintao is far more powerful than us. :P
 
 Seriously, I'm really grateful to see that many people give you a hand. At least, these comforts are far warmer than lighting in CBD or lasting than wine you sip, right?
 
 Don't be addicted to the past! Just like waking up and getting off the bed in winter morning, in the beginning, it's hard; yet, after some minutes, you will find how lovely the chilly but fresh wind is.
 ===============================================================
 
 Actually I feel much better now is not becoz I forget him a little bit but is becoz I have the people here to comfort me .. talk to me .. and support me ..... I feel warm .. sweet here~~ Really!
 
 I love my Winter .... Love it so much :)