跟他...真的分開了~~



  • 琴晚同左佢講分開了...只是回應了一句"好呀" ..



    他都說了他有新的女朋友....說跟我只有感情....



    我沒有喊....只係不停的流淚...直到今日返工..係巴士訓著了也在流~~



    我都唔知自己發生咩事~~



  • 堅強吧...再痛苦/傷心也是捱下去,因為你不是因為佢而活


    給自己時間,裝備自己,重新出發...新一頁的生活正等着你~~




  • 呢個世界唔會無左邊個唔得


    過左聖誕重新開始~




  • 堅強!



  • 你也可以搵個新男友...恭喜..^^



  • if u would like to chat with a mature male,


    please msn with me :)





    fullermature9@hotmail.com



  • 盡情地傷心啦 ... 咁樣亦都可以証明你曾經深愛過.

    好多人, 一世人都未必曾經試過 "深愛" ... 傷心, 有時換個角度睇, 都係好事



    不過記得唔好比自己傷心得太耐, 唔好浪費太多時間係一個要離開既人身上

    其實, 每次都 "以為" 好傷心, 死去活來... 到遇到一個新對象時, 諗返轉頭, 又會完全唔明自己點解之前咁hurt ... 



    所以, 都係傷心一陣子好啦.

    與其浪費時間喊, 不如整靚自己, 開開心心期待下一個啦 :-)



  • 李男友 replied at 2011-12-21 10:16 am


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    堅強吧...再痛苦/傷心也是捱下去,因為你不是因為佢而活


    給自己時間,裝備自己,重新出發...新一頁的生活正等着你~~


    ===============================================================





    我在學...知道唔值得...但總有不捨得...但亦不由得我:(



  • ladios replied at 2011-12-21 10:34 am


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    呢個世界唔會無左邊個唔得


    過左聖誕重新開始~


    ===============================================================





    希望每一樣野...上天會幫我好好的安排...:(



  • JennD replied at 2011-12-21 10:35 am


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    堅強!


    ===============================================================





    堅強的忍住淚水...但真的忍不住了~~



  • zxy replied at 2011-12-21 11:14 am


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    你也可以搵個新男友...恭喜..^^


    ===============================================================





    都唔知去邊度再搵個新男朋友了~~~><



  • Mature replied at 2011-12-21 11:22 am


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    if u would like to chat with a mature male,


    please msn with me :)





    fullermature9@hotmail.com


    ===============================================================





    thx so much :)



  • ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 1:21 pm


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    盡情地傷心啦 ... 咁樣亦都可以証明你曾經深愛過.


    好多人, 一世人都未必曾經試過 "深愛" ... 傷心, 有時換個角度睇, 都係好事





    不過記得唔好比自己傷心得太耐, 唔好浪費太多時間係一個要離開既人身上


    其實, 每次都 "以為" 好傷心, 死去活來... 到遇到一個新對象時, 諗返轉頭, 又會完全唔明自己點解之前咁hurt ... 





    所以, 都係傷心一陣子好啦.


    與其浪費時間喊, 不如整靚自己, 開開心心期待下一個啦 :-)





    ===========================================================


    我會努力令自己靚D...叻D...更得人鍾意~~~


    但係同時...我D眼淚亦都好努力地流...流不停~~~


    你說得對....我真係好深愛著他....呢10個月....事事以佢為先....愛他...真的很愛很愛...深深的愛~~~ U_U



  • 那夜最後分手的時候,老人還留了一個功課給若菱思考。這個功課是:「我們在追求的到底是什麼?什麼是世界上所有人都想要的東西?」- 快樂?





    「快樂是由外在事物引發的,它的先決條件就是一定要有一個使得我們快樂的事物,所以它的過程是由外向內的,然而這樣一來,就有了一個問題啦……」





    問題就是:既然快樂是取決於外在的東西,那麼一旦那個令你快樂的情境或事物不存在了以後,你的快樂也隨之消失了。




  • 那夜最後分手的時候,老人還留了一個功課給若菱思考。這個功課是:「我們在追求的到底是什麼?什麼是世界上所有人都想要的東西?」- 快樂?





    「快樂是由外在事物引發的,它的先決條件就是一定要有一個使得我們快樂的事物,所以它的過程是由外向內的,然而這樣一來,就有了一個問題啦……」





    問題就是:既然快樂是取決於外在的東西,那麼一旦那個令你快樂的情境或事物不存在了以後,你的快樂也隨之消失了。




  • Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 2:43 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    那夜最後分手的時候,老人還留了一個功課給若菱思考。這個功課是:「我們在追求的到底是什麼?什麼是世界上所有人都想要的東西?」- 快樂?





    「快樂是由外在事物引發的,它的先決條件就是一定要有一個使得我們快樂的事物,所以它的過程是由外向內的,然而這樣一來,就有了一個問題啦……」





    問題就是:既然快樂是取決於外在的東西,那麼一旦那個令你快樂的情境或事物不存在了以後,你的快樂也隨之消失了。


    ===============================================================





    Sunny .. 呢段野仲有冇之後gei 故事呢?? 我好想睇落去~



  • 呢本書叫做 "遇見未知的自己" ... 值得睇架... :-)




  • 好書推介~ ^^



  • replied at 2011-12-21 2:13 pm


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    我會努力令自己靚D...叻D...更得人鍾意~~~


    但係同時...我D眼淚亦都好努力地流...流不停~~~


    你說得對....我真係好深愛著他....呢10個月....事事以佢為先....愛他...真的很愛很愛...深深的愛~~~ U_U


    ===============================================================





    唔好刻意抑制自己唔傷心啦, 要傷心既時候就盡情d


    只要提自己唔好沉淪係呢個 mood 入面!


    而且, 每個人都總有佢靚既一面, 最緊要係你自己都相信...





    好愛好愛 ... 我明白呢個感覺...


    但過多兩個月, 當你回望, 多數都會發現唔係咁愛


    最緊要以自己既感愛行先, never settle for less ar. :-)



  • 沉淪, this word is so precisely used. Alison has given you marvelous advice. I think, we all have tendency to be addicted to sorrow. We intentionally or unintentionally love playing the role of protagonist in the scene of sadness.





    Some time later, when you look back, you may feel that what you have lost is indeed the illusion, in which you have your future with the one whom you love, rather than the lover himself. That's to say, what matter is not the lover, but your dream. Sooner or later, there will be someone new who can realize your illusion. The one who left you is just so unfortunate that he voluntarily gave up the invaluable chance to create a perfect scene with you. So, just don't lose your faith and hope.



  • replied at 2011-12-21 3:24 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 2:43 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    那夜最後分手的時候,老人還留了一個功課給若菱思考。這個功課是:「我們在追求的到底是什麼?什麼是世界上所有人都想要的東西?」- 快樂?





    「快樂是由外在事物引發的,它的先決條件就是一定要有一個使得我們快樂的事物,所以它的過程是由外向內的,然而這樣一來,就有了一個問題啦……」





    問題就是:既然快樂是取決於外在的東西,那麼一旦那個令你快樂的情境或事物不存在了以後,你的快樂也隨之消失了。


    ===============================================================





    Sunny .. 呢段野仲有冇之後gei 故事呢?? 我好想睇落去~


    ===============================================================


    我send本E-Book俾你睇落去吖




  • ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 3:37 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    呢本書叫做 "遇見未知的自己" ... 值得睇架... :-)


    ===============================================================


    Hi Alison,





    Ottimo u r!





    Sunny



  • sunny





    may i have the e-book too? :)



  • yes sunny, I want it too. thx. :)



  • ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 3:37 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    呢本書叫做 "遇見未知的自己" ... 值得睇架... :-)


    ===============================================================


    我好想睇呀~~普通書局有?? 有冇作者呢??



  • harmony replied at 2011-12-21 3:45 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    好書推介~ ^^


    ===============================================================


    :) 我要擁有佢~~



  • harmony replied at 2011-12-21 4:53 pm


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    sunny





    may i have the e-book too? :)


    ===============================================================


    Dear Harmony,





    My pleasure. The E-Book will be in HTML format so that you read it even at office! I will send via the msn, pls. note my msn: sunmoon88@live.com





    Thanks for the interest. Good Reading!










  • ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 4:02 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    replied at 2011-12-21 2:13 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------





    我會努力令自己靚D...叻D...更得人鍾意~~~


    但係同時...我D眼淚亦都好努力地流...流不停~~~


    你說得對....我真係好深愛著他....呢10個月....事事以佢為先....愛他...真的很愛很愛...深深的愛~~~ U_U


    ===============================================================





    唔好刻意抑制自己唔傷心啦, 要傷心既時候就盡情d


    只要提自己唔好沉淪係呢個 mood 入面!


    而且, 每個人都總有佢靚既一面, 最緊要係你自己都相信...





    好愛好愛 ... 我明白呢個感覺...


    但過多兩個月, 當你回望, 多數都會發現唔係咁愛


    最緊要以自己既感愛行先, never settle for less ar. :-)


    ===============================================================





    我冇自己一個人gei 空間...所以好難盡情...琴晚都係坐係公園喊ja ...





    我都想自己有靚gei 一臉.....:(





    究竟...我要幾多時間先會冇事呢??



  • humblegrass replied at 2011-12-21 4:44 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    沉淪, this word is so precisely used. Alison has given you marvelous advice. I think, we all have tendency to be addicted to sorrow. We intentionally or unintentionally love playing the role of protagonist in the scene of sadness.





    Some time later, when you look back, you may feel that what you have lost is indeed the illusion, in which you have your future with the one whom you love, rather than the lover himself. That's to say, what matter is not the lover, but your dream. Sooner or later, there will be someone new who can realize your illusion. The one who left you is just so unfortunate that he voluntarily gave up the invaluable chance to create a perfect scene with you. So, just don't lose your faith and hope.


    ===============================================================





    really ... I have a dream ... I really have a dream in my mind ... I hope one day .... one day my dream come true ... I want to be someone's "LOVER" ..



  • Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 4:44 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    replied at 2011-12-21 3:24 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 2:43 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    那夜最後分手的時候,老人還留了一個功課給若菱思考。這個功課是:「我們在追求的到底是什麼?什麼是世界上所有人都想要的東西?」- 快樂?





    「快樂是由外在事物引發的,它的先決條件就是一定要有一個使得我們快樂的事物,所以它的過程是由外向內的,然而這樣一來,就有了一個問題啦……」





    問題就是:既然快樂是取決於外在的東西,那麼一旦那個令你快樂的情境或事物不存在了以後,你的快樂也隨之消失了。


    ===============================================================





    Sunny .. 呢段野仲有冇之後gei 故事呢?? 我好想睇落去~


    ===============================================================


    我send本E-Book俾你睇落去吖


    ===============================================================





    好呀我想睇呀多謝你~~



  • v replied at 2011-12-21 4:54 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    yes sunny, I want it too. thx. :)


    ===============================================================


    Dear v,





    My pleasure. The E-Book will be in HTML format so that you read it even at office! I will send via the msn, pls. note my msn: sunmoon88@live.com





    Thanks for the interest. Good Reading!




  • replied at 2011-12-21 5:07 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 4:44 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    replied at 2011-12-21 3:24 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 2:43 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    那夜最後分手的時候,老人還留了一個功課給若菱思考。這個功課是:「我們在追求的到底是什麼?什麼是世界上所有人都想要的東西?」- 快樂?





    「快樂是由外在事物引發的,它的先決條件就是一定要有一個使得我們快樂的事物,所以它的過程是由外向內的,然而這樣一來,就有了一個問題啦……」





    問題就是:既然快樂是取決於外在的東西,那麼一旦那個令你快樂的情境或事物不存在了以後,你的快樂也隨之消失了。


    ===============================================================





    Sunny .. 呢段野仲有冇之後gei 故事呢?? 我好想睇落去~


    ===============================================================


    我send本E-Book俾你睇落去吖


    ===============================================================





    好呀我想睇呀多謝你~~


    ===============================================================


    不用客氣, msn: sunmoon88@live.com




  • replied at 2011-12-21 5:00 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    harmony replied at 2011-12-21 3:45 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    好書推介~ ^^


    ===============================================================


    :) 我要擁有佢~~


    ===============================================================


    我剛剛經過同你一樣的情況


    真的, 不要沉淪進傷心的迷思


    多出外走走, 玩, 談天說地, 不要關起自己


    慢慢, 你會發現世界還很大


    他, 只是一小部分


    the best is yet to come~ ^^



  • Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 5:03 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    harmony replied at 2011-12-21 4:53 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    sunny





    may i have the e-book too? :)


    ===============================================================


    Dear Harmony,





    My pleasure. The E-Book will be in HTML format so that you read it even at office! I will send via the msn, pls. note my msn: sunmoon88@live.com





    Thanks for the interest. Good Reading!








    ===============================================================


    added your msn, but are you online now?



  • replied at 2011-12-21 5:06 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------





    really ... I have a dream ... I really have a dream in my mind ... I hope one day .... one day my dream come true ... I want to be someone's "LOVER" ..


    ===============================================================





    as long as you believe in your dream, it comes sooner or later!





    i dont know what type of person you are, i'm kind of 屢敗屢戰 and lucky me that i always meet someone better each time. I guess it's because i have the good faith in love... after all, 傷心only, it heals over time ... when you are healed, get up and fight for your dream again!! :-)





    and dont forget, each time we learn more about ourselves, we adjust our expectations/our requirement,etc... we meet meet the most suitable one and by then, we will be mature enough to know how to get along with mr. one.



  • Sunny, i would love to talk to you too, haha, not many ppl read that book. :-)







  • harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:22 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    :) 我要擁有佢~~


    ===============================================================


    我剛剛經過同你一樣的情況


    真的, 不要沉淪進傷心的迷思


    多出外走走, 玩, 談天說地, 不要關起自己


    慢慢, 你會發現世界還很大


    他, 只是一小部分


    the best is yet to come~ ^^


    ===============================================================


    我而家係公司冇事架...不過一返到屋企or 自己一個..我就有事了~~~



  • ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 5:26 pm








    as long as you believe in your dream, it comes sooner or later!





    i dont know what type of person you are, i'm kind of 屢敗屢戰 and lucky me that i always meet someone better each time. I guess it's because i have the good faith in love... after all, 傷心only, it heals over time ... when you are healed, get up and fight for your dream again!! :-)





    and dont forget, each time we learn more about ourselves, we adjust our expectations/our requirement,etc... we meet meet the most suitable one and by then, we will be mature enough to know how to get along with mr. one.


    ===============================================================


    I am the person who 屢敗屢戰 but 屢戰屢敗 also .... I still want to fight for my dream. But it is difficult for me to meet guy ... all of my fds are girls only ... Mr. Right is somewhere out there but not reachable :(



  • replied at 2011-12-21 5:30 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:22 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    :) 我要擁有佢~~


    ===============================================================


    我剛剛經過同你一樣的情況


    真的, 不要沉淪進傷心的迷思


    多出外走走, 玩, 談天說地, 不要關起自己


    慢慢, 你會發現世界還很大


    他, 只是一小部分


    the best is yet to come~ ^^


    ===============================================================


    我而家係公司冇事架...不過一返到屋企or 自己一個..我就有事了~~~


    ===============================================================


    我想一星期吧, 你慢慢會冷靜下來的


    不要迫自己, 不要急, 情緒是需要時間沉澱的


    趁這段時間盡情哭出來, 盡情發洩


    你是人, 不用壓抑, 傷心是人之常情


    但要保持正面跟樂觀, 你會很快回復笑容的~ :)



  • sunny, just sent u an email. plz check. :)



  • harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:23 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 5:03 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    harmony replied at 2011-12-21 4:53 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    sunny





    may i have the e-book too? :)


    ===============================================================


    Dear Harmony,





    My pleasure. The E-Book will be in HTML format so that you read it even at office! I will send via the msn, pls. note my msn: sunmoon88@live.com





    Thanks for the interest. Good Reading!








    ===============================================================


    added your msn, but are you online now?


    ===============================================================





    Thanks Harmony. Am online now



  • replied at 2011-12-21 5:33 pm


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    I am the person who 屢敗屢戰 but 屢戰屢敗 also .... I still want to fight for my dream. But it is difficult for me to meet guy ... all of my fds are girls only ... Mr. Right is somewhere out there but not reachable :(


    ===============================================================





    hey, dont set limitation on how your Mr. Right comes! And dont convince yourself HE is not reachable ...





    you should read that book asap, i believe you will get some ideas on how to make dream happen after reading it. :-)




  • harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:34 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    replied at 2011-12-21 5:30 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:22 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    :) 我要擁有佢~~


    ===============================================================


    我剛剛經過同你一樣的情況


    真的, 不要沉淪進傷心的迷思


    多出外走走, 玩, 談天說地, 不要關起自己


    慢慢, 你會發現世界還很大


    他, 只是一小部分


    the best is yet to come~ ^^


    ===============================================================


    我而家係公司冇事架...不過一返到屋企or 自己一個..我就有事了~~~


    ===============================================================


    我想一星期吧, 你慢慢會冷靜下來的


    不要迫自己, 不要急, 情緒是需要時間沉澱的


    趁這段時間盡情哭出來, 盡情發洩


    你是人, 不用壓抑, 傷心是人之常情


    但要保持正面跟樂觀, 你會很快回復笑容的~ :)


    ===========================================================





    我介意見到佢同另一個女仔一齊...心裡不是味兒....>_<



  • ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 5:37 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    replied at 2011-12-21 5:33 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    I am the person who 屢敗屢戰 but 屢戰屢敗 also .... I still want to fight for my dream. But it is difficult for me to meet guy ... all of my fds are girls only ... Mr. Right is somewhere out there but not reachable :(


    ===============================================================





    hey, dont set limitation on how your Mr. Right comes! And dont convince yourself HE is not reachable ...





    you should read that book asap, i believe you will get some ideas on how to make dream happen after reading it. :-)


    ===============================================================





    I am still waiting for sunny to send me the book lei~~



  • harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:34 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------





    我想一星期吧, 你慢慢會冷靜下來的


    不要迫自己, 不要急, 情緒是需要時間沉澱的


    趁這段時間盡情哭出來, 盡情發洩


    你是人, 不用壓抑, 傷心是人之常情


    但要保持正面跟樂觀, 你會很快回復笑容的~ :)


    ===============================================================





    agree!!


    所有人都鍾意笑容滿面既人... :-)



  • Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 5:35 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:23 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    Sunny replied at 2011-12-21 5:03 pm


    ---------------------------------------------------------------


    harmony replied at 2011-12-21 4:53 pm


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    sunny





    may i have the e-book too? :)


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    Dear Harmony,





    My pleasure. The E-Book will be in HTML format so that you read it even at office! I will send via the msn, pls. note my msn: sunmoon88@live.com





    Thanks for the interest. Good Reading!








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    added your msn, but are you online now?


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    Thanks Harmony. Am online now


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    sorry, i don't see you online after replying you the msn msg~



  • replied at 2011-12-21 5:37 pm


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    harmony replied at 2011-12-21 5:34 pm


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    我想一星期吧, 你慢慢會冷靜下來的


    不要迫自己, 不要急, 情緒是需要時間沉澱的


    趁這段時間盡情哭出來, 盡情發洩


    你是人, 不用壓抑, 傷心是人之常情


    但要保持正面跟樂觀, 你會很快回復笑容的~ :)


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    我介意見到佢同另一個女仔一齊...心裡不是味兒....>_<


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    會見到?? 不能不見嗎??



  • ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 5:27 pm


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    Sunny, i would love to talk to you too, haha, not many ppl read that book. :-)





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    Alison,





    You are owesome! Let chat on msn la!





    MSN: sunmoon88@live.com





    CU



  • ali_alison replied at 2011-12-21 5:37 pm





    hey, dont set limitation on how your Mr. Right comes! And dont convince yourself HE is not reachable ...





    you should read that book asap, i believe you will get some ideas on how to make dream happen after reading it. :-)


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    I will try my best to learn :) thx~~~



  • v replied at 2011-12-21 5:34 pm


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    sunny, just sent u an email. plz check. :)


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    Hi v,





    DONE!! :-)