跟他...真的分開了~~
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man replied at 2011-12-23 6:34 pm
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can i help?
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how to help??
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whatever i can
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Thanks so much :)
But i am not sure what I need :(
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want more warmth?
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replied at 2011-12-23 5:08 pm
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i have gone out and come back .. I still don't wanna tell my fd broke up with him ... I want to be alone :(
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Yeah for the first few days or a week. I think it may be a good idea to spend some time alone, as you won't have interest to do anything else anyways.
Just go out for a bit if you are up to it. Don't force yourself to go if you are not comfortable with it.
It'll get better after a bit. Time heals all wounds.
Good luck and cheer up.
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man replied at 2011-12-23 6:48 pm
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want more warmth?
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but this winter is extremely cold for me~~no one love me :(
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want some love from me?
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feathers replied at 2011-12-23 6:49 pm
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replied at 2011-12-23 5:08 pm
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i have gone out and come back .. I still don't wanna tell my fd broke up with him ... I want to be alone :(
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Yeah for the first few days or a week. I think it may be a good idea to spend some time alone, as you won't have interest to do anything else anyways.
Just go out for a bit if you are up to it. Don't force yourself to go if you are not comfortable with it.
It'll get better after a bit. Time heals all wounds.
Good luck and cheer up.
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I will leave HK for a few days tmr ... I want to refresh myself a little bit ... this is the first time I don't want to stay in HK anymore and I really hate here .... all sadness comes in the end of the year ... this is not the first horrible Christmas for me ...this is the second or third already. But this is the most worst one :(
When I saw others in a pair .. I will start thinking how he hold me .. how he hug me last week ... but now he is holding his new girlfriend and kissing her also ... what the damn feeling I have :( wu~~~ wa~~~
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enjoy
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be strong sweetie..my first bf also said this..wht the hell is love being fdship...etc...dont be sad
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man replied at 2011-12-23 6:53 pm
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want some love from me?
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love from you?? How can be?? We are not lover .. and I don't even know you bor~~
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brendachow replied at 2011-12-23 7:08 pm
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be strong sweetie..my first bf also said this..wht the hell is love being fdship...etc...dont be sad
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i am trying to be strong ... I want to be more beautiful .. I want to be more attractive ... I want to be more powerful girl in the world ONE DAY ....
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replied at 2011-12-23 6:59 pm
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I will leave HK for a few days tmr ... I want to refresh myself a little bit ... this is the first time I don't want to stay in HK anymore and I really hate here .... all sadness comes in the end of the year ... this is not the first horrible Christmas for me ...this is the second or third already. But this is the most worst one :(
When I saw others in a pair .. I will start thinking how he hold me .. how he hug me last week ... but now he is holding his new girlfriend and kissing her also ... what the damn feeling I have :( wu~~~ wa~~~
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Hee, you konw the harder you try to "not think about it".
The more you will think about it. So, don't force yourself too much. Just accept it's past.
And this feeling will pass, not to stay in HK is good. Go some place nice and relax, have a good spa.
(for me, I just drink myself to sleep for a few days then sleep for 2 and .... well, it feels better after)
Hope you don't have to resort to that. Good luck and cheer up. ; )
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replied at 2011-12-23 7:11 pm
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brendachow replied at 2011-12-23 7:08 pm
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be strong sweetie..my first bf also said this..wht the hell is love being fdship...etc...dont be sad
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i am trying to be strong ... I want to be more beautiful .. I want to be more attractive ... I want to be more powerful girl in the world ONE DAY ....
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any more Christmas wishes?
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feathers replied at 2011-12-23 7:14 pm
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Hee, you konw the harder you try to "not think about it".
The more you will think about it. So, don't force yourself too much. Just accept it's past.
And this feeling will pass, not to stay in HK is good. Go some place nice and relax, have a good spa.
(for me, I just drink myself to sleep for a few days then sleep for 2 and .... well, it feels better after)
Hope you don't have to resort to that. Good luck and cheer up. ; )
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I just trying to ask myself to accept it and tell myself it is past already ... not matter how he loves other girl ....:(
But this process is hard .. very hard ... .....
Cried for 1 week already .. I am tired ... really tired ...>_<
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crying will be over soon........
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want a shoulder? or, two?
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replied at 2011-12-23 7:22 pm
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I just trying to ask myself to accept it and tell myself it is past already ... not matter how he loves other girl ....:(
But this process is hard .. very hard ... .....
Cried for 1 week already .. I am tired ... really tired ...>_<
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Think of it their way, now you are available for better guys to have a chance to ask you out. And to write the next beautiful chapter of your life together.
Pain is just life trying to give you a lesson.
It'll pass. In the eman time, make be try to watch a comedy, some steven chow can still give me a laugh or 2.
Or just talk to someone about it, it helps a bit after pouring all out on why you are sad.
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It may also help you to have a friend that you trust can let you talk to and cry on. (I wouldn't ask ppl from here!)
It helps a bit to have someone supporting you.
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replied at 2011-12-23 7:11 pm
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brendachow replied at 2011-12-23 7:08 pm
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be strong sweetie..my first bf also said this..wht the hell is love being fdship...etc...dont be sad
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i am trying to be strong ... I want to be more beautiful .. I want to be more attractive ... I want to be more powerful girl in the world ONE DAY ....
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he s not measure is not yr fault.
at least better than get marry sin know new.
u can change yr hairstyle,find sth to do =)
im also lonely xmas and just broke up 21DEC MIDnite.
i miss him much ,but when i know his heart have other.not me...
then i wont think of him after.
try to find the one that who care and measure u most.u will get very soon. cheers.
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man replied at 2011-12-23 7:19 pm
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i am trying to be strong ... I want to be more beautiful .. I want to be more attractive ... I want to be more powerful girl in the world ONE DAY ....
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any more Christmas wishes?
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I have a dream .. I have a wish ... I want to be happy .. I want to have a better one for me to love FOREVER~
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man replied at 2011-12-23 7:23 pm
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want a shoulder? or, two?
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I need many shoulderssssss
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feathers replied at 2011-12-23 7:26 pm
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Think of it their way, now you are available for better guys to have a chance to ask you out. And to write the next beautiful chapter of your life together.
Pain is just life trying to give you a lesson.
It'll pass. In the eman time, make be try to watch a comedy, some steven chow can still give me a laugh or 2.
Or just talk to someone about it, it helps a bit after pouring all out on why you are sad.
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only 1 fd of mine she knows I separate with my bf ... she asked me out and want to take care of me .. I have told her to wait for me for a little while as I don't want to cry in front of her ... too 醜怪呢~~
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ok, a party? a football team?
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replied at 2011-12-23 8:29 pm
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feathers replied at 2011-12-23 7:26 pm
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Think of it their way, now you are available for better guys to have a chance to ask you out. And to write the next beautiful chapter of your life together.
Pain is just life trying to give you a lesson.
It'll pass. In the eman time, make be try to watch a comedy, some steven chow can still give me a laugh or 2.
Or just talk to someone about it, it helps a bit after pouring all out on why you are sad.
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u can cry b4 me, if u want
i'm used to women ceying b4 me....
only 1 fd of mine she knows I separate with my bf ... she asked me out and want to take care of me .. I have told her to wait for me for a little while as I don't want to cry in front of her ... too 醜怪呢~~
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u can cry b4 me, if u want
i'm used to women crying b4 me....
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feathers replied at 2011-12-23 7:29 pm
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It may also help you to have a friend that you trust can let you talk to and cry on. (I wouldn't ask ppl from here!)
It helps a bit to have someone supporting you.
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umum~~I never try to meet the people that I know from here as I just here for few days and this is my first time to leave msg. here and talk to the people here ...
I know people here some are good .. and some are bad .. I will keep an eye on it ... and hopefully people here will take good care of me and don't "蝦" me la:P
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glad u know
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brendachow replied at 2011-12-23 7:31 pm
he s not measure is not yr fault.
at least better than get marry sin know new.
u can change yr hairstyle,find sth to do =)
im also lonely xmas and just broke up 21DEC MIDnite.
i miss him much ,but when i know his heart have other.not me...
then i wont think of him after.
try to find the one that who care and measure u most.u will get very soon. cheers.
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hair style .. I also want to change . but not sure how to change it lei~~
for me ... broke up 20 Dec...night time .. 1 day earlier than you only~~
same here .. his heart have other and he won't love me anymore :( ... I just think .. last saturday .. I still holding him and he also gave me a kiss on my face .. but this week .. I got nothing now .. :><:
thx for your comfort ... :) cheers...
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man replied at 2011-12-23 8:32 pm
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u can cry b4 me, if u want
i'm used to women crying b4 me....
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wa .. always has women cried in front of you?? You always make girls cry??????? :(
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i am a tears collector ma
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man replied at 2011-12-23 8:46 pm
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i am a tears collector ma
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wa .. don't collect too much ar ... women tears not good for a man ..
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add me and chat ar, my msn is [email protected]~
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希望離開香港返尼之後會好一點點~~~
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Hope you a nice trip! Take care, it's winter time. Btw, I ain't trying to discourage you. I won't suggest you go on your own (if you are going to do so). According to my experience, this does not work. Perhaps, this applies to weak people like me only, haha.
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flower replied at 2011-12-23 6:40 pm
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Humble....
ur words really touch me..
yes,time heals our wound but I still remember how pain it was when I separated with my bf. My heart was torn into pieces.. tear never stopped.. it's past..but I still remember the pain.
Let's look forward.. living in the past is not healthy..the best is yet to come!
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My words don't aim at touching anyone. At best, others can understand them; yet, I am the only who can feel them. I really can't think of a word to describe that situation; instead of pain, desperate seems closer, though still far from enough.
Something can never be forgotten, including that period of time. Though I am not as optimistic as you, I am not sure if the best is yet to come, I just know I need to stay strong. Life still has to continue, right?
Anyway, thanks for your encouragement, thousand thanks.
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replied at 2011-12-23 6:47 pm
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Actually I feel much better now is not becoz I forget him a little bit but is becoz I have the people here to comfort me .. talk to me .. and support me ..... I feel warm .. sweet here~~ Really!
I love my Winter .... Love it so much :)
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Haha, if I ask you to stay on the coastline, you may not love it anymore. ^^ Anyway, good to see you smile. Enjoy this festival la! ^^
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humblegrass replied at 2011-12-24 12:26 am
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Actually I feel much better now is not becoz I forget him a little bit but is becoz I have the people here to comfort me .. talk to me .. and support me ..... I feel warm .. sweet here~~ Really!
I love my Winter .... Love it so much :)
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Haha, if I ask you to stay on the coastline, you may not love it anymore. ^^ Anyway, good to see you smile. Enjoy this festival la! ^^
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I am enjoying the pain in the festival lei ... hopefully everything will be better after I back ... but February is also so bad for me .. becoz I fall in love with him on February ... :(
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replied at 2011-12-24 12:53 am
I am enjoying the pain in the festival lei ... hopefully everything will be better after I back ... but February is also so bad for me .. becoz I fall in love with him on February ... :(
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Again, I fear, if you go on your own, the feeling of being alone may annoy you throughout the whole trip. I once think leaving HK is a possible way to get rid of the empty feeling. Yet, it did not work. Anyway, this is my own experience. I of course respect your decision.
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humblegrass replied at 2011-12-24 1:01 am
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I am enjoying the pain in the festival lei ... hopefully everything will be better after I back ... but February is also so bad for me .. becoz I fall in love with him on February ... :(
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Again, I fear, if you go on your own, the feeling of being alone may annoy you throughout the whole trip. I once think leaving HK is a possible way to get rid of the empty feeling. Yet, it did not work. Anyway, this is my own experience. I of course respect your decision.
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I am not going alone .. :) don't be afraid lei~~~
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Great, then enjoy! Remember to buy me some hand-letter la. ^_^ Night. 88.
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今年的平安夜...不再平安了~~~
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Bebe, u take care.
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是版主拋棄了他,還是他拋棄了版主....?
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Good morning .....
I am new... Just want to say
" MERRY CHRISTMAS "
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zxy replied at 2011-12-24 8:09 am
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是版主拋棄了他,還是他拋棄了版主....?
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Good morning zxy... Nice to see you........... (here)
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Eight8 replied at 2011-12-24 9:02 am
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zxy replied at 2011-12-24 8:09 am
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是版主拋棄了他,還是他拋棄了版主....?
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Good morning zxy... Nice to see you........... (here)
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I'm also glad to see you here.....
will you give your professional advice to the thread master ar...
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replied at 2011-12-23 10:09 pm
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man replied at 2011-12-23 8:46 pm
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i am a tears collector ma
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wa .. don't collect too much ar ... women tears not good for a man ..
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no problem
how do u know i'm a good man lei?
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replied at 2011-12-23 11:38 pm
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希望離開香港返尼之後會好一點點~~~
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hope so
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replied at 2011-12-24 8:03 am
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今年的平安夜...不再平安了~~~
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want some 平安 le?
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Anthony replied at 2011-12-24 8:07 am
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Bebe, u take care.
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thx ar , i will
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Morning bebe, Merry X'mas!
Feeling better today?